Chapter 21 Help
After Andy calmed down, he said to Zhao Shucheng: "That's right. I'm an orphan and have a younger brother, but..." "Old Tan asked someone to help me find my younger brother's whereabouts, but..."
Andy talked aside the whole story with Zhao Shucheng, and then looked at Zhao Shucheng like this, hoping to get a different answer from him.
Zhao Shucheng really didn't expect Andy to come to him to tell him these things. But since he found his head, Zhao Shucheng would not ignore it. Anyway, Andy came to him, and it was not Zhao Shucheng who took the initiative. As for Singularity and Bao Yifan, to be honest, Zhao Shucheng didn't catch a cold.
After putting down the teacup, Zhao Shucheng said: "I have a general understanding of the matter. What does it mean to find this way? Do you want to find your brother's trace, or just comfort you?"
"If you are looking for your brother, it would be useless for us to sit here, because we are too far from Daishan, and nothing we say now works. If you are seeking psychological comfort, I can say something to comfort you, but I'm not sure if you like to hear it."
Andy was stunned for a moment and said in a frustration: "Actually, I don't know what I want. Maybe what I want more is to know if my brother is still alive and whether he is well taken care of by others."
Zhao Shucheng nodded and said, "This is much easier. In fact, it is not difficult to find your younger brother. Although the orphanage in Daishan has been demolished, the employees of their orphanage have not all left Daishan. Some of them must be there and they can always know where your younger brother is."
"But this part is not something I'm good at. You must find professionals to find people. In fact, your brother's situation is quite special, so their staff may remember it more deeply, which is very helpful for finding your brother."
Andy nodded and said worriedly: "But, but..."
Andy hesitated a little, not knowing whether she should tell Zhao Shucheng about her grandmother and mother's crazy. In fact, this hereditary mental illness has always been the biggest stone in Andy's psychology. She was worried that she would become a mentally ill person that day, so she never dared to have excessive intimacy with anyone, dared not fall in love, or even make friends.
But she also knew very well that sooner or later she would have to face such a situation. As she grew older, she became more and more worried that she would get sick that day, and that others would know that she was mentally ill.
Andy finally made up his mind. Anyway, Zhao Shucheng is not a gossiper, and he has no conflicts of interests with him, so he is not afraid of any embarrassment when he says it. As for Zhao Shucheng, if he is really a talkative person, at most, he can move and find a community that doesn't know him.
"Zhao Shucheng, I'm worried that Xiao Ming not only has intellectual problems, but also mental problems."
Zhao Shucheng pretended not to know and asked, "Oh? Do you have any basis?"
"My memory is very good, so I remember things when I was a child. My grandmother and my mother had problems with this, so this should be a hereditary mental illness. I may get sick at any time. My younger brother's adopted parents returned it, which is probably because my younger brother showed symptoms of mental illness very early."
Andy said with a confused look on his face: "So I asked Lao Tan and the others to investigate the mental hospital in Daishan, and maybe I can find news about my brother."
Zhao Shucheng did not have the disgusting expression Andy imagined, but instead smiled and said, "Andy, do you know how many diseases can be divided into?"
Andy shook her head. She just knew that her family had such hereditary mental illness, and she didn't know how many mental illnesses there were. Originally, according to Andy's smart brain, she could learn this knowledge very clearly, but she might be afraid to avoid medical treatment, or she was afraid of seeing similar situations to her mother, so she didn't dare to read books in this area and did not dare to do some psychological counseling.
So when she feels nervous or is about to lose control, she chooses to drink water to suppress her emotions and avoid getting sick.
Zhao Shucheng nodded and said, "The commonly said mental illnesses are basically mental disorders, and are a general term for a large category of diseases. They are mainly based on brain dysfunction under the influence of various organisms and psychosocial environments, such as diseases with different degrees of disorders in mental activities such as cognition, emotion, will and behavior. They can be roughly divided into ten categories of mental illnesses and more than three hundred diseases."
"The common organic mental disorders represented by Alzheimer's disease; active substances represented by dependence syndrome or withdrawal syndrome caused by mental disorders; schizophrenia; emotional mental disorder represented by mania; hysteria or phobia obsessive-compulsive disorder; psychological factors psychosis; personality disorder, mental illness, mental delay, mental illness, ADHD, other mental illnesses, etc."
After Zhao Shucheng said that, he looked at Andy and asked, "Andy, do you know that your grandmother and your mother are both mentally ill. Is it really a genetic factor?"
Andy was even more confused. She couldn't remember too much at that time, but she knew that her grandmother and mother were both mentally ill, especially when she left her grandmother's house with her mother when she was a child, she wandered around and had no memory of her grandmother's situation.
After hearing Andy say this, Zhao Shucheng shook his head and said, "Andy, it seems that you are not sure whether your family has genetic genes in this regard. First of all, we don't know why your grandmother is sick. Their age is quite special, and there are many possibilities, such as it is really hereditary, or it may be because of serious stimulation. This is all possible. And I don't think your mother had a mental illness from the beginning, otherwise why she could have lived with her grandmother after giving birth to you, rather than living with your father. This all means that your father married into your grandfather's house. I don't think that he would leave you alone after getting the benefits for money."
This chapter is not finished yet, please click on the next page to continue reading the exciting content later! Andy said: "But my mother is indeed mentally ill, and I saw it with my own eyes."
Zhao Shucheng waved his hand and said, "I don't deny that your mother may have mental illness, but are you sure she was sick from the beginning, or is it that you were left after you?"
Andy was silent. She was not sure at all because she didn't remember what happened before she had the memory, so she naturally didn't know about it.
"Look, you don't know. So is there a possibility that your father abandons you during your mother's pregnancy, or simply abandons you shortly after your mother gave birth to you, so your mother also had postpartum depression, and developed into a serious mental illness because she did not pay enough attention?"
"The initial development stage of psychological treatment in Daxia was after 87 years, and most of it was in some big cities. There must be no corresponding clinic in your hometown Daishan, so there is no corresponding treatment. When your mother had psychological problems during childbirth, she was under increasing pressure because she did not receive timely care and care, and finally developed into postpartum depression, but was regarded as a mental illness. This is not impossible. Because of the lack of timely treatment, her condition will become more and more serious, and you will know the final situation."
When Zhao Shucheng saw Andy's stunned look, he smiled and said, "Did you feel that it's ridiculous to have suspected that you had hereditary mental illness when you heard me say this?"
Andy smiled and said, "Yes, it's a bit, but you can't rule out the possibility that I have this genetic gene, right?"
"No, in fact, even if it is not ruled out, your chances of getting sick are only about 10%. Do you know why? Because when you are about the same age as your mother and your grandmother, you did not show the symptoms of their mental illness. Doesn't this just mean that your mother's mental illness is not genetic, but caused by psychological stimulation?"
Andy nodded and said, "I accept your logic, but it cannot be ruled out 100%, right?"
"Of course, people in society are under great pressure now, and everyone may have mental illnesses, such as the most common depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, etc. And according to scientific statistics, if parents suffer from mental illness, the prevalence is 13%. If both parents have it, then it is 50%. If one of the same twins is sick, then the probability of the other person being sick is only 40%.
"The probability of your father getting sick is very small, so the probability of the disease is only 13%.
The big stone that Andy has always been pressing down on his heart is a little looser. His worries have always tormented her, so she pursues efficiency, hoping that before she gets sick, she can do as many things as possible, so that her life will not be in vain.
But now hearing that I only have a thirteen percent chance of getting sick, Andy breathed a sigh of relief, and felt that he could actually slow down and see more beautiful things in the world.
Chapter completed!