Chapter 217 Tang Youyou wants to open up
The phone calls between Li Da and Tang Youyou are still continuing.
Tang Youyou's mood was different from the beginning. When Li Da told her what was on her mind, Tang Youyou was embarrassed and a little uneasy at the same time.
But now after listening to Li Da's words, the anxiety is gone, but the shyness has reached its peak.
I was secretly making fun of myself, and Li Da discovered it, and I was just angry because I didn't know Li Da's pen name. It seemed like I was jealous!
Tang Youyou was so shy that she wanted to roll around on the bed.
There are also other factors involved in this shyness.
Will Li Da be happy because she cares...
"Don't you find me troublesome?"
Tang Youyou was shy and a little happy at the same time, because her emotions were discovered. Although she was a little embarrassed, being able to detect her emotions allowed Tang Youyou to temporarily ignore those embarrassing emotions.
However, her mouth was still a little twitchy.
"You must have discussed it with Luo Dongqing, right? You don't think I'm making a fuss out of a molehill and are laughing at me secretly, right?"
"You are indeed in trouble."
Li Da's answer made Tang Youyou feel confused, but he heard him say: "Because you always hide your emotions, it is difficult for people to see your thoughts, but you are not annoying at all."
"Don't you hate it? Don't you think I am a wealthy and scheming person?"
Tang Youyou's tone was very low.
Her emotional intelligence is very high, but she doesn't have many caring friends.
Tang Youyou knew that this was not entirely her fault, but it was also partly her fault.
This all happened when she was in junior high school. In junior high school, Tang Youyou had many friends and was familiar with almost everyone. At that time, Tang Youyou was more outgoing, lively and active.
Because when she gets along with others, her thoughts are always more mature. Whenever something happens, Tang Youyou can always make the right choice and then resolve the conflict smoothly.
But because of this, some people secretly said that she was a scheming person.
After experiencing the secret slander from what she thought was a friend, Tang Youyou also began to reflect on whether she had done something wrong, and then she came to the conclusion that her maturity beyond her peers was not necessarily a good thing, and
, she expresses herself too much, and there are many boys who like her, so naturally some girls will be jealous.
She self-righteously solves problems for others, but in fact, in some ways, it hurts other people's self-esteem.
Self-esteem is a very interesting thing. For example, if a is helpless when facing a problem, and b helps solve it, and it seems easy, then a may have two thoughts.
Type 1: b is so awesome! Thank you so much.
Second type: What does b mean? Does it make you look so powerful and incompetent? Thank you so much!
So in high school, Tang Youyou kept a low profile. If others didn't talk to her, she wouldn't talk to others, and she wouldn't actively participate in any activities. If someone needed help, she would consider lending a helping hand depending on the situation.
Tang Youyou reflects on herself, not blindly throwing all the mistakes at herself, she just analyzes what she has done wrong. She can also see the mistakes of others. She is changing herself, but not changing herself beyond recognition.
It can only be said that she is more mature than before.
However, her friends have also decreased.
But it doesn't matter to Tang Youyou. The biggest gain she has gained from what she has experienced is that she knows that friends are more about being good than having too many friends.
The more superficial friends you have, the fewer intimate friends you have.
Such a demure and gentle Tang Youyou was Li Da's favorite person when he was a boy.
When he was a boy, Li Da had a strong second-level aura and was not stable at all. After getting along with Tang Youyou, Li Da was able to see many of his shortcomings and also many of Tang Youyou's advantages.
When he was a boy, Li Da felt that it was true love, and he fell in love like a moth to a flame. In the end, although he did not die happily, he did grow up. He learned a lot from Tang Youyou, and it was Tang Youyou who made him become a true love.
Be excellent.
Li Da and Tang Youyou fell into memories at the same time, and neither party spoke on the phone. In the end, Li Da answered Tang Youyou's question first.
"Do you think my city is deep or not? Am I a scheming boy?"
Tang Youyou thought seriously for a while, but had no answer.
Li Da has changed a lot. Li Da was very easy to understand before, but now...
To be honest, it's a bit unfathomable.
Tang Youyou didn't know if it was because of herself that Li Da was hit so hard that he became like this. She still answered truthfully: "Probably, a little bit."
"Then do you hate me?"
Tang Youyou: "..."
How could this person ask questions knowingly?
Hate!
"I don't think it's a shortcoming when you have a mature heart. As long as you don't hurt others, there's nothing worth hating. Moreover, being mature in your thoughts is also a unique personality charm."
Li Da continued without waiting for Tang Youyou's answer, because he knew that Tang Youyou would definitely not say that he hated him.
And these words touched Tang Youyou's heart.
Tang Youyou also needs to agree.
"But……"
Tang Youyou talked about the incident in junior high school. She had already made up her mind on this matter, but she still told Li Da.
This was her subconscious desire to act coquettishly with Li Da, because after saying this, Li Da would continue to comfort her.
Also, Tang Youyou hasn't opened her heart to anyone for a long time.
Anyway, she said it.
"...Then, they didn't know that I happened to be in the toilet cubicle, and I heard everything they said about me. At that time, I was so angry that I cried, but I didn't dare to go out and face them."
Tang Youyou's tone was very calm, and she even smiled when she was on the phone. Obviously, she had completely let go of this dark history in her heart.
On the other end of the phone, Li Da said seriously: "Listening to what you said, I also learned a lesson."
"What?"
"You must not say bad things about people in the toilet."
Li Da said it very seriously. Even though what he said seemed worth complaining about, it was indeed a lesson learned.
Never say something in the toilet, because there is no guarantee that someone will hear you.
Li Da had personal experience. It was at work. Once during working hours, he heard the boss and manager discussing the evaluation of outstanding employees at the end of the year. They said that they had already decided who and who. After that, Li Da was asked to
Da and the others submitted their applications, but Li Da knew that there were no places in his department.
When you ask for overtime, you say that the company will see your hard work, but at the end of the year you get the credit and get nothing. The problem is that you have already decided and you pretend to have people submit applications.
After that, Li Da changed jobs very decisively.
But Tang Youyou looked confused when she listened to Li Da's summary.
I've said so much, can you just sum it up like this?
Chapter completed!