"We must learn to tolerate this mentality. But this tolerance does not include comparing ourselves to ourselves. Because our happiness is the most important, and we can't care about the happiness of others, right? Let's protect ourselves.

It is best to have your own happiness, and not to compare, not to be compared, and not to damage other people's happiness."

"My mother thinks so. So, if my mother met this child today, she would not tell her to correct her, nor would she go away..."

Under his daughter's curious gaze, Ou Zhaozhao said, "My mother will smile silently, listen to what she has to say, and then bypass the topic and talk about something else. In this case, she won't be unhappy, and you don't have to talk to her, and then

You can still play with her for a while...even if you can't become a little friend, but wouldn't it be nice to let her temporarily relieve your boredom? You won't be looking for your mother as unhappy as you are now, but you will be with her

She had a great time..."

"In this world, there are always all kinds of things that we cannot accept, including people, personalities, and psychology. If you educate them, you will be too busy. And if you

Walking away seems to save a lot of words, but in fact, it is a behavior of clearly caring but evading. This evasion means that you are bowing to this concept and you are afraid. If you are afraid of trouble, you can go around it.

, but you must not bow your head."

Ou Zhaozhao looked at his daughter, "Lowering your head means admitting defeat. Such a narrow and vulgar thing is not worth admitting defeat. Understand? Just don't care about what the other party said at all, just go around and achieve your own goals. The other party is a

You don’t need to care about what kind of person you are, or what the other person will do to you, let alone think about it... That’s all the other person’s business. Let’s just live a good life and be the best version of ourselves. That’s it, right?

?”

"If you want to play with your little sister, there are many ways to do it... You can bring out delicious food, fun things, or warmly entertain her to come to your home to play. You can stick to your idea. This is right.

, but the persistence we need to learn is the kind of persistence that allows us to achieve our goals smoothly and happily, rather than the kind of persistence that makes us gain nothing and be unhappy. You must gain something in whatever you do, do you understand?" Ou Zhaozhao

I really feel that there is no need to waste any emotion on someone who is different from me. Emotions are also very tiring, right?

Ou Baobao only thinks that her mother can think more than herself...but what her mother said must be right. But, she thinks that the young lady just doesn't understand yet, and is not that unfriendly.

, and there must be no malice, neither towards that classmate nor towards her. This is the reason why she regrets stabbing her with her words. But this kind of harm caused without malice, Ou Baobao thinks is the most serious thing. She told the young lady that

Many, I also hope that the young lady can stop this harmless harm.

But, she just feels that she is too troublesome now. If she had not been angry at that time and just followed her mother's advice and avoided the topic, it would have been fine... She can't be a little friend, so she can play for a while.

Well.....

By the way, Ou Baobao remembered the question he had never heard before, "She asked me whether my mother liked me or my younger brother. She asked this question because there were mothers around her who liked my younger brother, and she didn't believe everything I said she liked.

I feel that not everyone will like having multiple children...Only those who have only one child like her will be liked by everyone...If you have more children, you will be partial, but a mother with more meat will

As a child, she doesn’t like meat much..."

Then he added, "Mom, what I said is wrong. It will hurt Rouduo. Don't tell anyone." Because Rouduo has always shown that he is liked by his parents, "Keep it a secret."

"..." Who can't see this? It's not the point. Ou Zhaozhao's heart became tense because Qinbao still cared about this issue... No one had ever told Qinbao

Zheng Rouduo, Yin Nini and the others would not talk about this kind of thing. She thought that the baby didn't care about this topic...

"She asked you this question just to show off to you that she is an only child, right? That's what my mother thought. Otherwise, for no reason and she doesn't know you, how could she ask you such a question? Maybe, she

The people around you are the ones who would ask this kind of question, this kind of very unfriendly question. You see, there are no such people around you. You have never been asked this question before, right? You won’t go either

Ask others, right?"

Ou Zhaozhao tried his best to deceive, "My mother thinks that she is the one who will ask such unfriendly questions, and will also judge and confirm whether what she thinks is true based on the situation around her. She will not seek verification at all, nor will she

Is it wrong to think about this kind of thing and this kind of question... So, we don’t need to reason with children who only have themselves and no ability to think."

"To put it harshly, she is like a frog in a well. If you tell her that the sky is vast, she will never believe it. She will only believe in what she sees for her own satisfaction and her sense of superiority.

When she grows up in the future, she will know how big the sky is outside the well... This is the growth she needs. It is enough if you remind her... There is no need to bother her with questions.

Such boring questions... The point of her asking the questions is not that she cares about your answer, but just for herself."

Ou Baobao blinked. She actually didn't care about this young lady anymore. After all, she couldn't be a friend and she even ran away. What she cared about was this question, not the person who asked the question... Mom

Why didn't you understand?

Seeing that his daughter was obviously still asking questions, Ou Zhaozhao quickly ended the topic, "Okay, that's it. We've talked about it for so long, is that enough? Go take a shower and get ready to eat. Your brother took Xiaoye to swim.

Mom, go call them..." Ou Zhaozhao really doesn't want to respond to this question head-on. It's not that he's afraid of not being able to explain clearly, but that he's afraid of saying it clearly...

However, this also shows from the side that the life level of my daughter is still too narrow. She didn't realize the problem of parents' favoritism until she was five years old.

Originally, in the circles at home and school, there would be no children who would speak like this. Those children are all villains, and their upbringing and politeness are always armed and engraved in their bones... They would not speak like this.

direct.......

But at the same time, it also shows how successful her education is!!! Give yourself 10,000 likes!!!

Ou Baobao was so curious because it was the first time he faced such a direct question. But it was enough. Because his mother seemed not to want to talk...
Chapter completed!