Yang also explained the reason to his daughter with a serious expression, "This kind of child-raising matter cannot be done. Once a scandal happens, it will affect the whole family. There will even be a family with a clean and honest family breaking off diplomatic relations with you in order to protect their own family style.

This is also why the children of aristocratic families have strong tempers and no way out. Because their mistakes have caused the entire clan to decline, you cannot bear this guilt.

Your mother and I are all born in illegitimate, all of whom are careful, for fear of making a mistake to take care of the family and father and brother. After years of caution, we have achieved a little bit of success today. It’s not easy. If you don’t work hard and don’t clean yourself, who will blame me?”

Yang took a breath and tasted the spirit tea, "Look at the same situation, the wife of the Zhang family has been thinking about the means since childhood for Cui Hao. She is definitely not just encouraging her mother's path, but because the Cui family's family style is rigorous and Cui Hao's own style is decent enough. If there is no chance, nothing will happen.

Li Qing himself was flirting with the grass and ended up hurting his reputation as a clan, causing his parents to become sinners. Why bother? The great future was ruined. His grades were not the best, but they could also be watched. However, if he did not cultivate moral character, it was a big taboo to be an official. In the future, he would be a low-level official position. Don’t think about the high position anymore.”

Zilan nodded unstoppably. His mother ran around with her father over the years, and her vision and insight were enough, and she had to learn a lot.

"I agreed to the Qi family so easily that your brother would not take a concubine or marry a young man or a wife, and would not be adopted by a child, because this is only good or bad for him.

It is necessary to keep yourself clean and become an official. I will destroy any of his fantasies from the source. In the future, your brother will not dare to have a trace of colorful intestines when he goes out."

Yang also agreed to this request for his son very happily. The couple had different standards for their children, so naturally they had different expectations.

"It's still the far-reaching thoughts of my parents."

"I am very satisfied with your choice of the Qi family's daughter. In the final analysis, your grandfather is right. There is something wrong with the Li family's tutoring, otherwise how could such a thing happen? Our Song family does not have such a man."

"This is true. If Erlang's style is not good, it will be a big trouble."

"Who said no? Fortunately, you didn't like Li Qing at the beginning, otherwise you would be disgusted and be cheated."

Yang clasped his hands together and worshiped the Bodhisattva, thanking the Bodhisattva for blessing his daughter with smooth and smooth luck.

"My grandfather and grandmother looked down on Li Qing, far worse than Qi Yu and Cui Hao, and even much worse than Wang's brother-in-law."

Zilan smiled.

"This is, is your sister Guifeng married? I have brought gifts to all your sisters, and they are all in every house and courtyard."

Yang asked about the people at home with great enthusiasm.

"It's very good. I saw Sister Guifeng when she returned to the door. I looked very good, and my brother-in-law was very kind and gentle to her.

My aunt said that my brother had given gifts twice, and my sister was already in charge of the housekeeper, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along well. My sister Guifeng has a cool and strong temper. She is not that weak person, so she will not be too bad."

"That's good that the Wang family is also a very regular family, otherwise they can't choose his family."

"I will hold a wedding for my brother this year, and you have to help my grandmother and the others."

"That's for sure. I'll bring a gift to my door tomorrow. I'll send it to visit each family in the next two days. I'll go to the old house to help your grandmother."

Yang came back early because the old man was indeed old and he couldn't stand it even if he was too worried. He just waited for his husband to come back and everyone discussed it and handed over the position of the patriarch.

Earlier, the two old men had the plan to hand over the position of the clan leader and the clan elder, and gave it to the outstanding talents of the younger generation. They could not keep up with their energy when they were old.

In recent years, the fourth uncle, his father and the eighth uncle have done a good job. It is no problem to give them the three of them to assist each other. I just wait to choose a suitable opportunity to inform the whole clan and notify relatives and friends.

Yang told her about the tribe's plans, "Your father may become the leader of the tribe. I can't let go of the tribe affairs at this time. I had to learn tribe affairs very early, so I chose the Qi family girl with this plan.

The standards and considerations of being a clan wife are to make plans for the future. So the sooner Ling Yun learns and adapts, the more he can help me."

"So you have to mention it a long time ago. No wonder you have to learn tribal affairs. Is it difficult to do tribal affairs?"

Zilan pouted and leaned against her mother's arms. She felt a little scared when she remembered that she had to manage the Cui family's clan affairs.

"You don't have to worry. Even if Ling Yun comes to our house, he will learn to be a housekeeper first. Only when he does well can he learn the clan affairs slowly. If he gets in touch with him a little bit, he will take over it all at once.

If you are not familiar with what to do, you can learn for three years first, and you will recognize all your relatives at home. After three years, you will have seen all the general clan affairs, and you will know what they are like. After you work and learn, you will basically be fine.

I think the old man specifically ordered you to be a clan wife instead of Huiru from the Li family. He saw that the suggestions and changes you made in the Song family have achieved great results and changes. I hope you can innovate the Cui family.

The more famous the family, the bigger the tail, and the more prestigious the clans are, there are many borers in the prestigious clan. The outdated rules do not attract new interests, so they can see hope, and it will be difficult to change."

After all, Yang is also a person who has studied clan affairs, so he knows the reactions of these people in the comfort zone, the retreat from future difficulties and the mentality of living by the way. If you want to change, you must have expectations for future interests in order to bravely explore, otherwise you will not want them to change.

"I've written it down."

Zi Lan nodded with her lips pursed and could only take one step at a time.

"Actually, I'm not worried about your ability. Your ability to make money is so powerful. The Cui family wants to offer you Buddha. Most people will not deliberately make things difficult for you as long as they are not stupid. To make things difficult for you is to make things difficult for God of Wealth."

Yang smiled happily. My daughter is very good at making money. She knows what to do.

When she came back the day before, Yang didn't go anywhere. She had a rest at home. The dinner was eaten by the mother and daughter, and she used the rice porridge. She took it out to take care of her mother. She had suffered a lot after going to Jiangnan for so long.

The house was shut out, with only mother and daughter. Yang ordered the porridge in the bowl, "You planted it yourself, it tastes really good."

"It's not just good taste, but it's a great way to maintain the body. Nothing is as good as it is suitable for elderly, women and children. This rice is very expensive and can't be bought for no amount of money. I gave my grandfather and grandfather a small bag, which I can eat for a while."

"It's so good. I feel comfortable after eating it. After sleeping, my body doesn't feel sore anymore. When I come back from the boat, I feel like I'm about to fall apart. After eating this rice, I feel strong all over my body."
Chapter completed!