When it comes to the matter with Jiang Xiuxiu, although Qiao Liang always felt that he was a sentimental person, he still handled it very rationally this time.

Regarding emotional sensibility and rationality, Qiao Liang believes that the best thing to do is Zhang Lin. Once, when Zhang Lin was alive, Qiao Liang and Zhang Lin had a deep exchange of this topic.

Zhang Lin has her own unique insights on the sensibility and rationality in feelings. She believes that when it comes to feelings, people with sensibility usually do not think too much, follow their feelings, act on their feelings, do not think deeply, and do not consider the consequences of things. As long as they feel that they should do that, they will do that, even if the sky collapses and the earth breaks, they don’t care. Relatively speaking, people with sensibility follow their feelings, think less, and will not live so tiring. The world is simple and relatively easy to get along with. At the same time, they will understand more thoroughly in terms of feelings. Love is love, without too many ties, and what they pursue is the result of love, not the result of love.

However, emotional people often lack consideration when facing feelings and are prone to impulsiveness, which may lead to unpredictable consequences. However, emotional people often do not care about the consequences. They pursue a single goal and do not care at all even if the results are not good. Therefore, when dealing with the possible consequences of feelings, emotional people will not take into account the other person's feelings. Even if it will hurt the other person, they will not retreat. They do what they think is right. emotional people are prone to paranoidness, even distortion and hurt others.

In reality, people who hurt each other in their relationships are often emotional people. They think that if I love you, you will also treat me. Once they don’t suit their wishes, they will do some unreasonable things, including entanglement, violence and other means, and the result is often harmful to others and oneself.

Qiao Liang deeply agrees with Zhang Lin’s view, and he seems to have some understanding.

Immediately, Qiao Liang asked Zhang Lin for the rationality problem in emotions. Zhang Lin's view was that rational people and emotional people often had different ways of dealing with emotions and their way of thinking. Rational people often thought about things, considered gains and losses, considered all aspects, and took the overall situation into consideration. Once the imagined result cannot be achieved, rational people often choose to give up.

Rational people often miss opportunities because of heavy thoughts. In terms of emotions, love is a goal, but it involves too much. Rational people will think about the two identities, age, education, family, etc. Once they think it is impossible, they will give up, and forget that the essence of feelings is always emotions.

When a rational person treats feelings, he will consider whether doing so will hurt the other person, whether it will be beneficial to himself, and what will the consequences be? Only after comprehensively judging various consequences can he decide whether to do it. This will certainly benefit and minimize possible problems, but many things are variable and cannot be transferred by others.

Therefore, rational people always consider others when dealing with feelings. In the end, they hurt themselves, but they may also hurt others. They often consider the consequences of things and ignore people's ideas. After all, many things in emotions happen miracles, and people are also changeable. In reality, rational people can say everything that is done for the sake of doing this and do not want to hurt the other party. In fact, it hurts not only the self who endures the torment, but also the other party who dares to pursue. If they are too rational, the relationship will only be mechanical stiffness and no emotional softness.

After listening to Zhang Lin's opinion, Qiao Liang felt at that time: in emotions, both sensibility and rationality are terrible.

Zhang Lin agrees with Qiao Liang's view. She told Qiao Liang that pure sensibility or pure rationality are terrible. Just like the world, it has never been single, and so is people. Only joy, anger, sorrow, happiness, emotions and desires can create a colorful life. If there is only one emotion in life, it will be too monotonous and boring.

Sensual people can move forward in the face of feelings, which is certainly admirable, but feelings are not only feelings, but also life. Because of love, love is very good, but don’t just make both parties scarred for love, and in the end love is not love anymore.

Reasonable people can think about their feelings before and after thinking about them, which is worthy of praise. However, feelings really cannot be completely reasonable and they still need the existence of love. Without gentleness, love is not love. Because of love, let go. Do you have no courage to fight? How do you know that there is no hope?

Just like a terminally ill patient, a rational person will choose to give up after feeling hopeless about family, medical conditions and other factors; a sentimental person will be rescued by emotional and impulsive, and sometimes miracles will happen.

Sometimes there are differences. Sensitive people, even if they know that it is impossible, they still have to force others, but they will suffer losses and will eventually be unable to avoid leaving the market in dismay; rational people will leave space for both parties based on rational analysis, and as time goes by, everything will be possible again.

At the end of the conversation between the two, Zhang Lin told Qiao Liang earnestly that the best way to deal with emotions is to deal with emotions is to have three parts sensibility and seven parts rationality. Just like in life, we know that the road ahead is vague, but we have to keep moving forward. Why? Because hope, what has not happened yet can be speculated that the sensibility can move forward. From nothing to something, reason is the dominant, but emotion also has an important role to ignore. The reason why people go from wild to the present and continue to continue is inseparable from reason, but also inseparable from emotion. Feelings are never just a matter of two people. In addition to individuals, family, emotions, and life. Three parts sensibility and seven parts rationality can make the relationship perfect.

Whenever I think of the passion and communication between myself and Zhang Lin, and whenever I think of the guidance and teachings that Zhang Lin brings to me, it will arouse Qiao Liang's infinite longing and nostalgia for Zhang Lin, and it will make Qiao Liang feel sad...

Qiao Liang and Jiang Xiuxiu chatted for a while, and when they saw that it was already past one o'clock in the afternoon, they stood up and said, "Okay, it's time for us to go back, we'll be about to go to work later."

The two of them came out of the hotel. At this time, a car happened to pass the road outside the hotel and parked at the traffic light entrance in front.

This is Miao Peilong's car.

Qiao Liang and Jiang Xiuxiu walked out of the hotel. They did not notice Miao Peilong's car. Instead, Xu Chan, who was sitting in the passenger seat, saw Qiao Liang and Jiang Xiuxiu, and said to Miao Peilong beside him, "Brother Miao, look, that are County Chief Qiao and Censor Jiang."

Miao Peilong turned his head and saw that it was Qiao Liang and Jiang Xiuxiu. The two of them were still quite close when they walked together. Miao Peilong couldn't help but snorted coldly, "Looking at their appearance, maybe there is something shameful about them."

When Xu Chan heard Miao Peilong's words, she was stunned for a moment and subconsciously defended Qiao Liang, "It should be impossible. County Chief Qiao is quite decent."

"Haha, how do you know that he is upright? How many people seem to be gentlemen on the surface, but they are full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, but secretly they are thieves and prostitutes." Miao Peilong said disdainfully.

After hearing Miao Peilong say this, Xu Chan smiled awkwardly and said nothing. She thought that she had once had a night of tangling cotton with Qiao Liang, and it was a bit embarrassing to talk about this topic.

Seeing Xu Chan not speaking, Miao Peilong turned his head and glanced at Xu Chan and said, "I think you often talk to Qiao Liang. Why? I arranged you to work next to Qiao Liang, and you turned your elbow out?"

"How is it possible? People have always been looking for you." Xu Chan said coquettishly.

Seeing Xu Chan acting cute to herself, Miao Peilong's heart thumped. Although Xu Chan is not the kind of beauty who is one in a million, she is the more she looks more and more attractive. Especially the charm between her eyebrows and eyes, she can always inadvertently touch people's hearts.

On the side of the road, Qiao Liang and Jiang Xiuxiu stood and talked. The two did not notice Miao Peilong's car. At this time, Qiao Liang was also preparing to get in the car. Suddenly someone called Jiang Xiuxiu's name behind.

When Jiang Xiuxiu heard the voice, she looked back and her face changed suddenly, and she asked, "Why are you here?"

"Xiuxiu, come here and let's talk alone." The man said with a smile.

Jiang Xiuxiu's face looked ugly, and she couldn't get angry in front of Qiao Liang, and she didn't say anything with a cold face.

Qiao Liang saw Jiang Xiuxiu's reaction and looked at the man again, looking a little confused. Because he had never seen Jiang Xiuxiu's husband before, he didn't know that the man was Jiang Xiuxiu's lover. He couldn't help but ask curiously, "Xiuxiu, that person is..."

"That's my husband." Jiang Xiuxiu responded in a low voice.

"Oh, then you guys talk first, I'm going back." Qiao Liang was stunned for a moment, then smiled.

Jiang Xiuxiu nodded, not knowing what she was thinking, but she added, "My relationship with him is in name only. Although we remarried, we actually have their own relationship."

Qiao Liang smiled and said, he knew that Jiang Xiuxiu remarried out of helplessness, but none of this matters. Since Jiang Xiuxiu remarried, he and Jiang Xiuxiu have never had that kind of relationship. Although he is not loyal in terms of love, he also has his own persistence and principles.

"I'll go back first. Your husband may have something to ask you for trouble, so you can talk to you." Qiao Liang said to Jiang Xiuxiu again, and then got into the car.

Watching Qiao Liang leave, Jiang Xiuxiu turned around and walked towards her husband, staring at the other party with an expressionless face, "Are you following me?"

"How could I follow you? Didn't this happen to meet you?" Jiang Xiuxiu's husband said with a dry smile.

"Do you think I will believe you?" Jiang Xiuxiu snorted, "What are you looking for me?"

"Xiuxiu, the one who was just now was the governor of County Qiao, right?" Jiang Xiuxiu's husband asked.

"So what?" Jiang Xiuxiu condemned.

"Nothing." Jiang Xiuxiu's husband looked at the other party with a smile, "I don't think that you usually mention County Chief Qiao's tone and expression are a bit different. I feel that you treat him..."
Chapter completed!