Feng Yunming's designated restaurant, Qiao Liang has been here several times, and the light car enters the box with a light car. After entering the door, Qiao Liang laughed. "Minister Feng, what's a good thing today, how do you want to invite me to dinner?"

Feng Yunming didn't speak with a smile, staring at Qiao Liang straight.

Qiao Liang was wondered by Feng Yunming, watching Feng Yunming in doubt, "Minister Feng, do you look at me like this, is there a flower on my face?"

"Xiao Qiao, how do I feel that you are a blessing?" Feng Yunming laughed.

"Really?" Qiao Liang was confused, "Minister Feng, why do you say that?"

"Xiao Qiao, tell you a good news, the boss of Zhao Jie you proposed as the executive deputy county chief, Secretary Luo has passed." Feng Yunming laughed.

Qiao Liang heard the words, showing a huge joy on his face, "Minister Feng, really?"

"Naturally, will I lie to you?" Feng Yunming looked at Qiao Liang with a smile. "Otherwise you are a blessing star. This was originally said by Lao Zhang. Secretary Luo wanted to let his niece Tang Xiaofei come. After taking over the position of this executive deputy county magistrate, when I went to report to him in the morning, the proposal about Zhao Jie was refuated. As a result, you guess how he was. Let Zhao Jie be the position of executive deputy county chief. "

"How did Secretary Luo suddenly change his attitude?" Qiao Liang raised his brows.

"A major event happened today, I don't think you don't know." Feng Yunming said.

"Minister Feng, are you referring to the negative news about Secretary Luo?" Qiao Liang's eyes condensed.

"That's right." Feng Yun nodded, "The thing in this world is so strange. When we are forced to be unable to do it, the result is just turning the peak."

Qiao Liang nodded subconsciously. At the same time, Qiao Liang began to pay attention to another information, "Minister Feng, you mean ... Secretary Luo changed his attitude because of the negative news on the Internet?"

"Yes." Feng Yunming smiled. "This negative news is not revealed and exposed at this time. Xiao Qiao, I have a little doubt whether you did it."

"Minister Feng, you can't make a joke." Qiao Liang cried and laughed.

"Okay, there are no outsiders here. Look at it that scares you. In my impression, Qiao Liang is not afraid of fear." Feng Yunming laughed.

"Minister Feng, that's two codes." Qiao Liang grinned.

Feng Yunming nodded, joking and joking, Feng Yunming still knew Qiao Liang. At this point, Feng Yunming was deeply authentic, "Xiao Qiao, what do you think of that post on the Internet?"

When I heard Feng Yunming asking this, Qiao Liang's eyes flickered. He obviously had a more understanding of the information about the relevant situation in Songbei. When he saw the post on the Internet this morning, Qiao Liang was in his heart. Treating Tang Xiaofei's special attitude, and Lan Lan asked him to help Tang Xiaofei's hair ... even including Luo Feng to let the city bureau go to Songbei to catch Qianlan and other abnormal moves.

Therefore, Qiao Liang did not have no guessing about this before, but there was no evidence. He didn't want to suspect it. In addition, his relationship with Tang Xiaofei was okay. It is no longer as disrespectful as before, so Qiao Liang doesn't want to overemphasize it.

Right now Feng Yunming asked this, Qiao Liang covered his true thoughts, and said, "Minister Feng, I really don't think of this matter. After all, there are too many news that is not reliable on the Internet. . ""

"If it is a rumor, the cost of making rumors is not low. To make such a rumor, it is necessary to go in." Feng Yunming said.

"This is too." Qiao Liang nodded.

Seeing that Qiao Liang was absent -minded, Feng Yunming was a little surprised. He knew that the relationship between Qiao Liang and Luo Fei was not good. At this time, Qiao Liang did not settle down to arrange Luo Fei. Super peers.

Feng Yunming did not know that Qiao Liang's response was special for special reasons. At this point, Feng Yunming was not interested in more gossip Luo Fei. " There is nothing else, let's have a drink. "

"Minister Feng, you made a special call and asked me to come to dinner. How dare I have something else? I will definitely accompany you to enjoy it at night." Qiao Liang laughed.

"This is what you said. I will not leave the two bottles of white wine on the table tonight." Feng Yunming laughed.

Qiao Liangdeng shook his head, "There are a lot of two bottles of white wine. If I finish drinking with you, I guess I can't find east, west, south and south."

"I think your little Qiao is modest, I have drank it with you several times, I really haven't seen you drunk." Feng Yunming laughed. He has no other hobbies now. I just like to have two cups. When you come out to eat with friends, Feng Yunming basically brings wine by himself. He eats with Qiao Liang tonight. These two bottles of liquor are also brought by Feng Yunming himself.

Then start serving, drink.

Feng Yunming seemed to be interesting tonight.

"Minister Feng, you are doing personnel work. You think that if you do things in the system, what is the most important thing?" Qiao Liang respects Feng Yunming with a glass of wine and asked.

Feng Yunming took the wine glass and drank, then put down the wine glass, and lit a cigarette and took two sips. "If you do things in the system, if you want to step on the clouds, many people think that the most important thing is to have a mountain with a background, or a prominent ones, or there is a prominent ones, or there is a prominent ones, or there is a prominent ones, or there is a prominent ones. Ability, but in fact, I think, the most important point is to learn to observe words. "

"Oh ..." Qiao Liang was slightly surprised, looking at Feng Yunming, "Look at the words?"

"Yes, look at the words." Feng Yunming nodded, "This is not an important important, but it is very important."

Qiao Liang watched Feng Yunming blinking, with a sleepy color.

Seeing Qiao Liang's expression, Feng Yunming laughed, "The so -called inspection of words is to observe the other party's emotions, language, expression, and attitude, to realize the inner thoughts, purpose and interests of people, so as to adjust their words and deeds targetedly And response method. To survive in the system, it is an essential emotional intelligence and a more advanced survivability. Those who do not understand this law, ignore people or things Thunderbolt. Those who are proficient in this Dharma can be like a fish, and the left and right are the source. Some people think that they are farting and vulgar interpersonal relationships when they think of words and views. The view of view is a basic essential interpersonal ability. "

Qiao Liang Ning looked at Feng Yunming, contemplating, "Minister Feng, do you think of what skills do you think of the sexuality?"

"Of course need." Feng Yunming nodded, "Xiao Qiao, I know you have done secretary and generally know the skills of observing words, but after all, your qualifications have a light experience, you may not be able to master these skills."

"Yes, please enlighten Minister Feng." Qiao Liang nodded.

Feng Yunming laughed, and then said, "This inspection of words, there are roughly four techniques that need to be proficient in basic skills. The first is by yourself and people. That is to say, to understand what others are thinking, what feelings, and what they will do next. In fact, the most important thing is to first understand yourself. Learn to deeply understand your inner weaknesses, desires, emotions, you can understand others, you can understand others. Because human nature is connected. We often think about changing thinking. In fact, the premise is to think about your own thoughts, feelings and interests.

For example, when giving gifts, there is a trick that you do n’t want to give others that you do n’t like it. You do n’t like it for a gift, but you will give it to others. Will others like it? Also, go out in a word. You will feel uncomfortable after listening to it yourself, and it is easy to hurt people. Can you say to others? If you can truly recognize yourself, understand insight and look at your desires and feelings, you can at least 80 % of the degree Reading and understanding others, the remaining 20 % is actually just individual differences ...

"Well. Qiao Liang nodded, and listened to Feng Yunming interested.

Feng Yunming went on to say, "The second skill is to pay attention to interests. The so -called world is good, all of which are beneficial, the world is full of benefits. Human nature is reflected in all aspects, and the interests are one of them. It may be ever -changing, but in the end, a word of interest is inseparable. When considering the problem, learn from the perspective of others' interests, to figure out where his interests are, what he cares about, and many things will be foggy.

For example, you took a plan for the leaders of the management. After the leader of the management, the leader was displeased after reading it, frowned, and it seemed not satisfied with this plan. At this time, you must think that the leader must be the entire plan for your entire plan at this time. Not satisfied, it must be fully denied, but involves the assessment content of his in charge of the field. Is there any unreasonable project? Is there any content that violates his interests? For example, which tasks are too heavy, it is difficult to complete.

The third technique is information integration. What kind of personality is everyone in the unit, what are the advantages and disadvantages, who has worked with whom, who has the festival, what is the resume of a certain leader, which departments have this leader in charge of which departments have been in charge Whoever likes to sit with a table when you eat ... All of these are big data in the system. Your brain should analyze and integrate these big data like a computer. When the key is, you can help you For analysis and judgment.
Chapter completed!