Chapter 445
The third child said: "Are you still living at home now?"
Qiao Liang shook his head: "The house belongs to Zhang Mei, I moved out and rented an apartment in the courtyard of the Municipal Party Committee."
"Isn't that empty?"
"Zhang Mei's parents live there."
The old three nodded: "What is your relationship with Zhang Mei's parents now?"
"Ashamed, I recognized their godfather and mother."
The third child blinked: "Well, what's the matter, the ex -husband has become a brothers."
Qiao Liang smiled bitterly: "Zhang Mei is now in this situation, I can't ignore her parents?"
"No matter who you can't say anything."
"But I can’t get my conscience."
"Conscience ..." Lao San murmured, "Your kindness is sometimes a good thing, but at some point, it may hurt you."
Qiao Liang did not speak. The third child actually made sense, but what can he do if he is born like this? The so -called personality determines destiny. In the future, whether this kindness and spirit are gang or to hurt yourself, maybe they are their own life.
Destiny is doomed. Qiao Liang looked at the deep night sky, and sighed slightly in his heart.
After breaking up with the third child, Qiao Liang called Li Youwei.
"Boss, are you at home?"
"On." Li Youwei's calm voice came on the phone.
"I want to go to you to sit, is it convenient?"
"What's inconvenient? Come, accompany me to drink tea."
Qiao Liang took a taxi and went to Li Youwei's house. Li Youwei was drinking tea in the living room. Gu Shuyun was not at home.
"What about Xunzi?" Qiao Liang Road.
"Her mother is not very good, she goes back to take care of it for a few days." Li Youwei pointed at the sofa, "sit-"
Qiao Liang was sitting opposite Li Youwei, and Li Youwei poured him a cup of tea: "Xiaoya went to the alpine oolong tea brought back from Baodao a few days ago, tasted."
Qiao Liang took a cup and nodded: "The taste is good."
Li Youwei looked at Qiao Liang: "Are you still going smoothly recently?"
"Overall, but I often get troubled by some problems." Qiao Liang Road.
"What's the problem?"
Qiao Liang thought for a moment: "Boss, how do you think you should treat gentlemen and villains in the officialdom?"
"Treating a gentleman is naturally a gentleman's way. This is very simple." Li Youwei said directly.
"What about the villain?" Qiao Liang Road.
"Have you met a villain?" Li Youwei said.
"Although there is no front confrontation, I feel some of the villains around."
Li Youwei groaned: "Since ancient times, it is difficult for villains to support, villains are difficult, and it is the most difficult to associate with villains. It is even more impossible to do a good relationship with villains. Of course
"This is not what I want to do." Qiao Liang shook his head.
Li Youwei laughed: "In fact, the ultimate purpose of dealing with the officials of the officialdom is to try to keep him away from you."
Qiao Liang nodded: "It's easy to say, it seems difficult to do it."
Li Youwei nodded: "Yes, sometimes it is difficult for you to distinguish the people around you, which are gentlemen and which are villains. So you must remember that when you say only three points, you ca n’t throw a heart.
Getting along with the gentleman, self -cope with the sincerity, you can also know.
But whether a gentleman will be a villain, it is generally not possible to see through at a glance. Although this move may hurt the gentleman's heart, the gentleman is both a gentleman, and naturally it will not care too much about this.
The villain has no opportunity to take the initiative to defend the villain's harm to you. "
Qiao Liang looked at Li Youwei focused on: "So, how can we know the real villain in the officialdom?"
Li Youwei said simply: "You must not be too simple, you must be mature, and you must know how to break the real villain, avoid the damage of the villain, and even make the villain afraid of stay away from you. Of course, you know how to pseudo and fraud.
It is not equal to treating others with pseudo -fraud, just to protect yourself. "
Qiao Liang nodded.
Li Youwei continued: "Also, try to avoid provoking villains at work."
"What about the little man to provoke me?"
"Then you have to learn one word: hard!" Li Youwei looked at Qiao Liang, "The characteristics of villains are often bullying and fear. If you just take the concession and accommodate, the villain will think you are bullying, and you will get in the foot."
Qiao Liang nodded again.
Li Youwei said again: "You also have to learn to know the trap of the villain. As a villain, the way they harm people are often inseparable from setting up a trap. The key to knowing the trap of the villain is not to deceive the villain's appearance.
Too more, pay more attention. "
Qiao Liang focused on listening.
"Liangzi, you must remember one thing, the villain will never say that he is a villain, and even shows that he is not like a villain." Li Youwei means deeply.
Qiao Liang nodded and couldn't help thinking of Chu Heng.
Li Youwei went on to say: "In fact, in the officialdom, villains are divided into different types. To deal with different villains, they must learn to adopt different strategies. For example, when encountering insidious villains, we must focus on prevention and get along with them.
, Be careful everywhere, don't be drilled by him; when you encounter a bullying villain, you can take the strategy of preceding, find the opportunity to make him know, he generally dare not provoke you; for villains who like to show right and wrong,
It is generally unreasonable, but if his slander of you seriously affects your reputation, then you must clarify that when necessary, you can go to the court ... "
Qiao Liang listened seriously and thought about it.
Li Youwei said for a long time and drank tea: "Liangzi, do you know what kind of people in the officialdom are the most terrible?"
Qiao Liang shook his head.
"The must -have gentleman who dares to play with a small man, this kind of person is the most terrible." Li Youwei said slowly.
Qiao Liang couldn't help but stare at Li Youwei.
Li Youwei went on to say: "The biggest feature of this kind of person is that if people do not offend me, I will not be a prisoner.
Little man. "
After listening to Li Youwei, Qiao Liang had a cold heart. I wonder if he was saying what he was implying himself.
After drinking tea for a long time, Li Youwei seemed to think of something. He thought about it: "The officialdom is actually realistic and vulgar.
One thing must be clean up the chessboard. "
Qiao Liang looked at Li Youwei, Li Youwei smiled slightly, his expression was unpredictable.
Tonight with Li Youwei, although he did not fully understand some of the words he said, but Qiao Liang felt very good. In the end, Li Youwei had been mixed in the officialdom for many years. Although he was a downward
It hinders his understanding and insight in the officialdom.
At this time, the problem that plagued Qiao Liangxin's head seemed to have been liberated. Qiao Liang felt that this night Li Youwei told himself that he would gradually experience and absorb in practice in the future.
Of course, in the process of experience and absorption, it will not be smooth sailing, and there will even be storms and stormy waves.
Leaving Li Youwei's house, Qiao Liang took a taxi back. After passing the door of Chu Heng's Community, Qiao Liang glanced at it in accident and saw that a woman was getting off the taxi.
Under the street lights, Qiao Liang saw clearly, this woman is Su Yan.
Su Yan got out of the car, took a mask, and wrapped her head with a scarf, and then walked to the community.
Chapter completed!