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Chapter 74, Psychological Stress (7/12)

The reality is really a very unfair existence.

There are always people who can easily get what you have been working hard for. Some people can accomplish the same thing easily, but some people just work hard for a long time and achieve nothing.

Even just like studying, some people understand the same knowledge after reading it once, and some people work hard on several pages of calculation paper, but still get a wrong answer.

The most cruel and realistic thing in the world is that people are fundamentally different. And the most unfair thing is that the public always uses the same ruler to measure everyone.

But Ji'e never complained, she was willing to fly as hard as a stupid bird!

However, even after flying for so long, Ji’e will be tired! It’s been so long since his debut, but he’s still not popular. His popularity is so low that it’s shocking. Although the form of the band and dance group is very novel, but... it’s just not

fire!

The company has not given up. It is said that the comeback song for the next show has been decided, called "Short Skirt", and everything is being prepared. But Ji'e is a little tired.

If Ji'e were one or two years younger, she wouldn't have said anything. But now she has accomplished nothing and her life is really stressful.

In Korea, a somewhat deformed society, the gap between the rich and the poor is simply outrageous. For a popular idol like Ji Eun-chan, buying a car or a house is a trivial matter.

But if it is a group that is not very famous, the money they make in a month is even less than that of an ordinary company employee. The fixed Korean won given by the company every month is simply pitiful.

In the entire Korean entertainment industry, most idols are like this. After debuting, they become silent, then disband, and then choose to continue to be trainees and start over, or choose to leave the industry. So all the years of hard work are in vain.

.There will also be many teams that insist on not disbanding, and then they will change from idol groups to performing arts teams. Even if a small shop opens, they can pay to hire a trickster. It couldn't be more miserable!

The reason why the three major companies in South Korea can be called the three actually has their own reputation. For example, no matter how hard the three major companies come out, they are still better than those created by small companies. Just like a well-known writer, the pearls and jade are in front.

, no matter how bad the book is, there are still people who will support it. This is the truth.

In short, miserable! Very miserable! The current situation of AOA has actually reached a very serious point. If it were not for the fact that this is the first girl group launched by FNC agency, the name must be famous. If it were any other group, it would have been eliminated by the company.

give up!

The next "Short Skirt" may really be the last ditch effort, and it is precisely because of this that Ji'e's mentality is a bit broken.

Meng'er looked at Cao'e, a little worried.

In fact, Cao'e didn't tell anyone about this matter. If Meng'er hadn't secretly eaten fried chicken at the company one night and accidentally saw Cao'e squatting and crying alone in the practice classroom, she might never have known about Cao'e.

The pressure is so great!

"Oh, I understand." Dr. Bai Ye smiled and nodded: "If that's the case, actually...have you often suffered from insomnia recently, and have great mood swings, and occasionally feel like crying for no reason?"

"Yes." Cao'e nodded.

"Are there any other symptoms?" Doctor Bai Ye asked.

Cao'e thought for a while: "It feels like a big stone is weighing on my heart, and I can't breathe. The rest is gone."

"Oh, then I understand." Doctor Bai Ye nodded and said, "If that's the case, then you don't need to worry. Because in fact, strictly speaking, you don't have any mental illness, you just have too much psychological pressure.

It’s just a little nervous breakdown caused by it.”

"Really?" Meng'er was overjoyed when she heard this. She was really a little afraid that Cao'e would have some kind of mental illness!

"How could I lie to you?" Doctor Bai Ye explained: "This is actually a situation that everyone will have. It is a series of problems caused by too much mental load. It is not serious. Of course, it cannot be ignored.

If such a small problem is allowed to develop, it will definitely lead to big problems in the future. But if it is prevented in advance, then there won't be so many problems."

"How to prevent it in advance? Isn't it too late?" Cao'e asked.

"You should thank your teammate." Doctor Bai Ye pointed at Meng'er with a smile: "You are only in the early stages now, and you came just in time! You don't even need to take medicine, just to adjust your mentality. Go back and get some soothing tea, and sleep

Drink a little beforehand. Then find something that makes you happy and sit for a while. Don't always worry about these troubles. Within a month, I guarantee that you will have nothing."

"So simple?" Cao'e didn't expect that the thing she had been worrying about could be solved so easily.

Doctor Bai Ye shook his head: "No! In fact, it's not simple at all. Because the troubles you face are still those troubles. And maintaining a peaceful mind is not that easy to do. Everything else is external, the key is still yours

Heart. If you can regulate your heart well, then nothing will happen. If you can't regulate your heart well, then it will be even more serious in the future."

"How serious can it be?" Cao'e asked quickly.

Doctor Bai Ye thought for a while and said, "Then let me give you an example. If you continue with your current mental state, the pressure will accumulate little by little. You can't feel it, but this is a process of quantitative change to qualitative change.

Then it is very likely that one day in the future, the pressure will accumulate to an extreme and produce a qualitative change. At this time, it only takes one trivial thing to completely collapse you and make you unable to bear it. It may even completely affect your life and work.

.Seriously speaking, no one may have to chase you away. You will be unable to bear the thought of leaving the group and your job as an idol.”

"That day will never come." Meng'er quickly held Cao'e's hand: "Ouni, you can't leave!"

"I won't leave." Cao'e smiled and took Meng'er's hand, then turned to Dr. Bai Ye and said, "Thank you, doctor! But, I think I will not leave. In fact, from the bottom of my heart, I

I really like being an idol. Today you have untied a little knot for me, so let me untie the rest by myself. I must stay and become a successful idol."

Doctor Bai Ye nodded: "I also wish you success. But... give me a piece of advice. The combination is not very popular now, so your psychological pressure is because of the future. Then if one day in the future, your combination

If it really becomes popular, then the pressure you will endure will be countless times greater than it is now! That will be the time when your mentality is really tested."

"It's already a big trend, why do you have to worry about it!" Meng'er said she didn't understand at all: "It's great to make a lot of money and eat a lot of fried chicken!"

"Haha, you are so cute." Bai Ye was amused by Meng'er, then shrugged and continued to say to Cao'e: "You have to know that what you are facing now is just a pressure, and you are already exhausted.

Then there will be more pressure in the future. And this is a question of quantitative change to qualitative change. If you can't adjust your mentality in time, then when you really collapse one day, you won't be as calm as you are now after treatment.

The tea will be fine!”

"Doctor, your words are a bit scary." Meng'er shrank her neck.

Bai Ye sighed and said: "The most painful thing about psychiatrists is that 99% of people in the world will never come to see a doctor in the early stages of mental illness. By the time they arrive, they are all on the verge of collapse.

, even a useless person!"

Cao'e asked blankly: "Will such a situation happen?"

"This..." Before Dr. Bai Ye could say anything, he heard a sudden noise outside the door, and then the door that had just been closed was kicked open!

"Bang!" The door was kicked open, and Meng'er and Cao'e were so frightened that they almost sat down on the ground. Even Bai Ye was shocked.

At this moment, a man in black clothes was standing at the door. His face was expressionless, even a little cold. Looking at the white night in the room, he smiled, showing his neat white teeth: "Doctor Bai, happy Qingming Festival?"
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