Chapter 665 Three choices

He Wenhui was holding a hot tea cup in her hand after hearing Xu Damao's question.

The tears on my face immediately turned from sporadic light rain to moderate rain. It seems that this situation has a tendency to develop into heavy rain.

He Wenhui cried miserably and stammered, telling the whole story in detail.

After hearing this, Xu Damao was not in a hurry to express his opinion, but after He Wenhui calmed down.

He picked up the phone and called Hao Hongmei over, and then he spoke.

"There are most trivial matters in a person's life, and a small matter will often turn into a big event inexplicably in the end."

"That's because people's minds are naturally biased, and they will always think best of themselves when it comes to choices."

"Everyone has their own choice, so it's not absolutely right or wrong."

"This matter of yours may be difficult to say or easy to say. The most important thing is to see how you choose in your heart."

He Wenhui: "Uh-huh., but I don't know what to do now?"

Xu Damao: "Prioritizing boys over girls is a deep-rooted idea, and it cannot be changed overnight."

"Some parents do it very skillfully and naturally, making their children willing to pay."

"Some parents are very direct. They just ask you to pay without hesitation. Otherwise, you would be unfilial."

"Then I will make all kinds of troubles with you and ruin your reputation. These are all helpless things."

"I called just now and asked a girl who is your age and in a similar situation to come over."

"I asked her to tell you about her own experience and her final choice. Of course, these are just for reference."

"The choice is always in your own hands. No matter whether you make the right choice or not, you must bravely bear it."

While Xu Damao was talking, Hao Hongmei came running over.

"Principal Xu."

Look at Hao Hongmei, this little girl has thoroughly experienced herself, even the spring in her eyes is about to overflow.

When outsiders were present, she still greeted them politely.

Xu Damao: "Hongmei, you came very quickly. I have something I need you to help me with."

"This is He Wenhui. Her family's situation is the same as yours, but the methods of handling it are different."

Xu Damao waited for the two women to finish greeting each other before continuing.

"You two, please stay calm. There are some situations that I would not be comfortable talking about directly."

"If she doesn't come back at night, then you can take her to live with you."

"Xiao He, if you two are about the same age, let's talk first and think about it carefully based on your actual situation."

"Whenever you make a decision in your heart, just tell me directly."

"The two of us are quite destined. As long as you pay attention, I will try to help you do the best."

After Hao Hongmei heard Xu Damao say they were destined, something seemed to flash across her eyes when she looked at He Wenhui.

He Wenhui: "Thank you, Teacher Xu, I am causing trouble for you."

Xu Damao: "What's the trouble? Don't rush this matter. You must think it over carefully."

"You probably didn't bring anything with you when you left home this time. If you need anything, let Hongmei buy it for you."

Xu Damao then picked up the teacup on the table. Hao Hongmei took He Wenhui's hand and said, "Hao Hongmei."

"Wen Hui, I live not far from here, how about the two of us go over there and have a nice chat."

"Principal Xu is very busy here. When something happens, we can send a page quickly."

"Ah, then goodbye, Teacher Xu."

"goodbye."

Just like that, He Wenhui was taken away by Hao Hongmei to have a heart-to-heart talk. Xu Damao waited for them to leave and got up and went to the middle courtyard.

Hao Hongmei was very good at getting things done, and she could tell at a glance that He Wenhui had not had a good rest yesterday.

First I took her to buy some daily necessities and two pairs of clothes, and then found a place to take a bath.

Finally they returned to the place where they lived, with two people, a copper pot and a few bottles of wine.

After three times five divided by two, they became good friends who talked about everything. Hao Hongmei told her about her excellent parents.

How did Principal Xu let her go to school for free in the first place, and what was the treatment like at the school?

How to settle down in Sijiucheng with the help of Principal Xu, how to finally get rid of her parents, etc.

Hao Hongmei: "Sister Wenhui, let me tell you, Principal Xu once said that there are three ways to solve my problem at that time."

"I will tell you these three methods today: accept, change, and leave."

"Or just accept your fate and accept your parents' arrangements. That way your life will be just like what you want, and you can see it at a glance."

"Or we can change our parents' minds, but it's hard for us to do this because we are so humble."

"The last way is to leave. I thought about it for a long time, but I still had no choice but to leave."

"Because my family sent me to school just to increase my worth."

"In the future, if I can find a husband with good conditions, I can also ask for more betrothal gifts."

"This good husband's family allows me to continuously supplement my mother's family, but what will happen if I do this?"

"Be beaten, despised, divorced, and then sold again."

"If this cycle repeats, won't I have to live in pain for the rest of my life?"

He Wenhui burped and asked with a look of disbelief.

"No way, after the divorce, you will be sold by your family again?"

Hao Hongmei: "Haha. You are better off in Sijiu City. Aren't our daughters in northern Shaanxi just commodities?"

"Whether you are divorced or become a widow, even if you are forty or fifty years old."

"My mother's family usually marries you once so that they can receive a bride price."

"They will also say that we are doing this for your own good. You must find a companion, otherwise you will be lonely and miserable when you grow old."

He Wenhui: "You have to be sold even if you become a widow? Then your husband's family won't care?"

"Care? How to care? Our place is poor, and the food harvested from the fields is simply not enough to eat."

"After the son dies, unless the woman has given birth to several grandchildren for the family, she will be able to stand on her own feet."

"Otherwise, my husband's family would rather have one less person at home eating, so that the rest of the family can have more bites."

He Wenhui: "It's terrible. If I compare with you, I'm already living in a sugar jar."

Hao Hongmei: "Yes, our things are still different, so you have to think carefully about what you want to do?"

He Wenhui smiled bitterly after hearing this. Accept it? If you accept it, you will have to be a nanny for your younger brother at home for the rest of your life.

In the end, there is no use value anymore, so they accept a bride price to marry themselves to a widower?

Change? Is there any hope for change? He Wenhui thought about it for a long time.

She picked up a glass of wine on the table and drank it hard. Her mother would never compromise on this situation at home.

Otherwise, they wouldn't be secretly making plans behind their backs, if they hadn't accidentally discovered it.
Chapter completed!