107 The point is to be pretty, big sister!
Su Kejie's sudden appearance interrupted Hu Qiang's words and focused everyone's attention on Su Kejie.
"Teacher Ajie?" Shalele said with a smile, "Have you finished the meeting?"
"Yeah." Su Kejie nodded, "What are you doing?"
"We are worried about Teacher Xiaobai's condition and are still discussing it," Shale said.
"That's right!" Ouyang Murphy answered, "Old Hu said that he took Xiaobai to the hospital to see a doctor before, and he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, but Xiaobai refused to admit that he was sick. The problem now is, how
Find a way to get Xiaobai to admit that he is sick, Lao Hu, am I right?"
"Yes, that's right." Hu Qiang nodded.
"No wonder." Su Kejie nodded.
"What's the reason?" Hu Qiang asked.
Su Kejie said: "That's right, I passed by the conference room before and happened to find that the brand department was having a meeting, and there was a newbie among them.
I didn't want to eavesdrop, but Henry, the deputy director of the brand department, scolded Xiaobai so loudly that I could hear it clearly from outside the door.
Then I couldn't help but stop and listen to a few words, and found that Henry had been scolding Xiaobai inside.
As for the extent.
Let’s put it this way, if Murphy’s meanness when he scolds Manager Hu is ten, then Henry’s meanness when he scolds Xiaobai is probably...six!"
"Ah?" Sha Lele looked surprised and pitiful, "This is too tragic and heartbreaking. How could you do this to Teacher Xiaobai?"
Hu Qiang couldn't help but look at Sha Lele and didn't know what to say for a moment.
Sha Lele looked at Su Kejie at this time: "Then have you gone over to comfort Teacher Xiaobai?"
"How can I comfort them?" Su Kejie said, "They are having a meeting. It's already wrong for me to listen outside. How can I go in and comfort people?"
Speaking of this, Su Kejie sighed: "So I left there quickly, and then came back to the Ministry of Emergency Affairs, and then I found that there was no one, and then I found that you were all here."
"What did Xiaobai do when he was scolded?" Jin Ruoyu suddenly asked.
Su Kejie said: "I took a look through the glass outside the door and found Xiaobai smiling and looking straight at Mr. Henry without saying a word."
"It's over!" Jin Ruoyu half-squinted his eyes and sighed, "Xiao Bai, this is getting more and more serious."
"This can't go on like this." Shalele said, "We have to help Teacher Xiaobai."
"So," Hu Qiang said, "I asked everyone to hold this meeting, just to work together to help Xiaobai and make him realize that he is sick and stop running away.
Do you know?
The doctor once told me privately that the first step in treating a mental illness like Xiaobai’s is to let the patient accept the fact that he or she is ill. Only by accepting the fact that he or she is ill can the patient face and treat it effectively.”
Jin Ruoyu said: "So, what Manager Hu means is that we need to take turns trying to persuade Xiaobai, saying that Xiaobai is sick?"
Ouyang Murphy said while playing on his mobile phone: "Huh, Xiaobai has always thought that he is a genius. If you insist on saying that he is sick and make him angry, be careful to change your limits."
Hu Qiang smiled slightly: "Murphy is right. People who are sick, especially people with this kind of mental illness, will care about other people's opinions, unless they are surrounded by fellow patients!"
Ouyang Murphy was stunned and turned to look at Hu Qiang: "What do you mean?"
Hu Qiang said: "What I mean is this, we pretend that we all have a mental illness, and then pretend that we are fellow patients with mental illness, and hold a mutual aid meeting together, and we have held it for a long time without telling Pang Xiaobai.
Then, when Xiaobai came back, he accidentally discovered that we were holding a mutual aid meeting.
Out of curiosity, he will definitely ask.
Once he knows that we are holding a mutual aid group for patients, and that we all have mental illnesses and that we are all the same kind of people, he will feel better and be able to accept the fact that he has bipolar disorder."
"This is a good method." Jin Ruoyu nodded, "This is to use empathy to make Xiaobai put down his guard and face his own problems."
"You're right!" Hu Qiang snapped his fingers with his right hand, "This is empathy!"
Immediately afterwards, Hu Qiang said: "So, each of us must define a mental illness that suits our own personality.
If you take me for example, I have an anxiety disorder and can’t sleep every night. It definitely fits my personality!
Another example is Tang Haixing, his character is even simpler, a typical delusion!"
"I object!" Tang Haixing raised his hand and said, "Why do you say I am delusional? Giving you the trophy shows that I am creative, and writing the story about me and Batman shows that I have imagination!
If creativity and imagination are paranoia, then the history of mankind is the history of paranoia!”
"Okay, okay, stop talking." Hu Qiang waved his hand, "Since you don't want to, then you can do your best. You can have whatever illness you want, just don't get involved."
Immediately afterwards, Hu Qiang looked at Ouyang Murphy: "The next step is Sha Lele."
"Me?" Shalele pointed at herself.
Hu Qiang nodded: "If even an optimistic, lively and positive person like you, Lele, has a mental illness, it will definitely make Xiaobai feel a lot better."
"That's right." Shalele nodded, "Then what disease should I have?"
Hu Qiang smiled slightly: "What you said is a split personality."
"Split personality?" Shalele was stunned.
"That's right!" Hu Qiang said, "Look, Lele, you are so optimistic every day. This cannot be erased. If you want Xiaobai to believe that you are sick, you can only start with split personality. If you can let Xiaobai know that you are
There are two personalities, one in front of the person and another in the back, he will definitely believe it."
"Oh, I understand." Shalele nodded.
"Then it's Murphy's turn." Hu Qiang looked at Ouyang Murphy beside him.
"Me?" Ouyang Murphy put away his phone and looked at everyone, "Who do you think I am? What should be wrong with me?"
Jin Ruoyu blinked, looked away and said, "Solitary!"
"Violent tendency!" Tang Haixing continued.
"Don't tell the difference between male and female!" Su Kejie followed.
"Handsome!" Sha Lele suddenly smiled and raised his hand.
"Okay!" Ouyang Murphy said calmly, "Then let me focus on the problem of being 'handsome'."
"Okay Murphy." Hu Qiang said, "Stop making trouble. According to your settings, you have social phobia!"
"Sociophobia?" Ouyang Murphy frowned, "Me?"
"It's just acting, don't be so excited." Hu Qiang said, "If you say you have social phobia, Xiaobai will definitely believe it, right, Ajie?"
Su Kejie nodded.
Ouyang Murphy looked lazily at Hu Qiang, then at Su Kejie, then at everyone, and found that everyone was nodding.
"Okay, social fear is social fear, I don't care." Ouyang Murphy lowered his head and played with his mobile phone again.
Seeing that Ouyang Murphy had done it, Hu Qiang said to everyone again: "Then there is Ajie, Ajie, you are the highlight.
Ajie, as Xiaobai's good friend, you must make Xiaobai feel that your illness is much more serious and miserable than his.
His bipolar disorder is nothing compared to yours."
"Why is this, Manager Hu?" Sha Lele asked.
"Isn't this simple?" Hu Qiang said, "You think, in the same ward, although everyone is sick, you will still be jealous of people who are less sick than you, but if you see someone who is more sick than you
people, you will feel better.
The same goes for Xiaobai. He feels better when he sees that you are worse off than him, and it is easier for him to accept the fact that he is sick."
"I understand." Sha Lele raised her hand, "Is this what it means to hate people and laugh at others?"
"Yes, that's pretty much what it means." Hu Qiang nodded, "So Xiaobai, you must be more miserable than Xiaobai, and let Xiaobai feel that you are worse than him, do you understand?"
"I understand." Su Kejie nodded, "I know what to do."
Hu Qiang smiled slightly, then straightened his face: "However, Xiaobai is very smart and very wary, so even if Ajie is worse than him, he may not be able to make him accept that he is sick and face his problems.
At this time, we have to have a beautiful big sister and tell him a tragic story to distract him and make his sympathy overflow, thus giving him the final blow!"
"I'll do it!" Tang Haixing suddenly raised his right hand, "Telling stories, I'm a professional!"
Hu Qiang looked at Tang Haixing speechlessly: "Is the story the key point? The key point is beauty, big sister!"
Tang Haixing then lowered his head and put down his hands.
"Don't worry!" Jin Ruoyu squinted his eyes, then posed, "I'll give you the last blow!"
"Very good!" Hu Qiang snapped his fingers with his right hand again, "Then, before Xiaobai comes back, we will rehearse immediately. After Xiaobai finishes the meeting and returns to the Ministry of Emergency Affairs, we will take action immediately!"
Speaking of this, Hu Qiang took the initiative to extend his right hand: "Come on, comrades! Let us join hands and advance and retreat together!"
The others looked at each other and then put their hands on each other one after another.
After everyone put their hands on it, Hu Qiang narrowed his eyes and nodded.
Chapter completed!