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Chapter 388 Letting go of obsessions is the only way to be free(2/2)

However, in general, the predecessor Hu Qiang did not do it on purpose, but because he had no choice but to do so.

The beast who made his predecessor work likes to exploit employees.

According to memory, when my predecessor Hu Qiang was at work, he was extra careful for fear of being fired for doing something wrong.

At that time, Weiwei had just given birth to a child and had no job, so the family had to rely on Hu Qiang to make money.

To put it bluntly, wouldn’t the former Hu Qiang get off work at a later time and spend more time with his wife and children?

No, he has to work, make money, and support his family. Otherwise, if there is no source of income, the family will have to drink from the northwest wind.

Therefore, the source of all contradictions is one word - poor!

Because of poverty, my predecessor did not dare to give up his job at will, and did not dare to slap the table with the boss casually, so he had to listen to the boss and keep working overtime and overtime.

Because of poverty, Weiwei had no choice but to give up her job when she gave birth to a baby. She couldn't afford a nanny or a confinement nanny, so she had to ask her mother to come over and help take care of the baby.

Poor and humble couples have everything to suffer from, and they don’t have the courage to speak out if they don’t have money.

The predecessors Jing Xiao Shenwei and Wei Nuo Nuo, to put it bluntly, were both pressured by money.

Looking back at himself now, if he didn't have a system, would he be able to live so carefree?

In short, he is indeed not good at raising children, and his relationship with Xiao Hutao is indeed not very close.

In fact, Hu Qiang also thinks this is good and doesn't want to change it too much.

After all, he couldn't bear to be in contact with Xiao Hutao all day long. He felt weird.

That's why he spent a lot of money to hire a nanny just to make everyone feel at ease.

In this way, his cheap mother and Xiao Hutao can be taken care of, and he can work and live with peace of mind. Everyone is happy.

But I only thought about this in private. Now that my mother in this world has mentioned it, I feel a little ashamed.

"Humph, you are still ashamed, which proves that there is still hope!" Hu Qiang's mother curled her lips.

"Haha." Hu Qiang smiled dryly, "I'm sorry, Mom, I, I..."

"Okay, stop talking." Hu Qiang's mother waved her hand, "I'm not blaming you. After all, you are a big man and it's not easy to work to earn money to support your family. That's what I said. Listen to me.

Enough."

Upon hearing this, Hu Qiang scratched his head and didn't know what to say.

Hu Qiang's mother suddenly smiled at this time: "So, Qiangzi, it's fine if you are alone, but now that you have Little Hutao, you can't be the same as before.

As for me, I still don’t know how long I can live. The worst-case scenario is just over two years.

What will you do in two years? In other words, if I am gone in two years, who will take care of Xiao Hutao and you?

So, after much thought, I think you still have to have a wife and let your wife take care of you."

"Mom, I..."

"Shut up!"

Seeing that Hu Qiang was about to interrupt again, Hu Qiang's mother glared: "I haven't finished speaking, don't interrupt!"

After Hu Qiang shut up, Hu Qiang's mother looked out the window, looking at Su Damiao who was still pruning flowers and plants, and said: "Qiangzi, I understand what you said, and Xiao Su understands it too.

However, here and now, sometimes, you should not belittle yourself, let alone think of others casually.

Let’s just talk about Xiao Su. It’s good for her to be a nanny, but after all, it’s a job of serving people. It’s not good-looking, and she can’t be a lifelong nanny.

Also, although Xiao Su earns a lot as a nanny, given her age and income, it is even more difficult for her to buy a house and settle down in Shanghai.

If she can find a reliable local man to marry, then she can settle here, which is still very attractive.

Qiangzi, although you are not a local at all, but you already have a Shanghai registered residence and own a house here, you are a serious Shanghainese.

You have a Shanghai registered residence, a local house, and a high-tech job. In addition, you have a good personality, are not stingy, are generous enough, and your key people are handsome. These are all good conditions.

I have a pretty good idea of ​​Xiao Su's situation. She also has a daughter, but she is already in college and will start working as soon as she graduates from college, so it is not a burden.

Coupled with Xiao Su's age, even if she marries you, she probably won't have any more children.

If she doesn't have a child with you, then Xiao Hutao will naturally be treated as her own.

And after these days of contact, I can also see that Xiao Su is a truly kind-hearted person, not just pretending.

Not to mention, she and Xiao Hutao get along very well, and Xiao Hutao is willing to listen to her words.

If she becomes Xiao Hutao's stepmother from now on, she will never treat Xiao Hutao badly.

Of course, this is all secondary. The most important thing is that I made some insinuations before and discovered that Xiao Su is actually quite satisfied with you.

So, Qiangzi, I think it’s not that Xiao Su doesn’t want to start a family again, she just has some concerns, and is not determined to be single.

The key is you. As long as you are willing to treat others well and bring you together based on your own conditions, I don't think there is any big problem.

Fortunately, thanks to your medicine, I will be fine for at least two years.

While I am still in good spirits and not confused, I want to settle your marriage as soon as possible. I can see with my own eyes that there is a reliable person to take care of you and Xiao Hutao, and then I will feel at ease.

By then, even if there is an eventuality and I really have to leave, I can leave with peace of mind."

Hu Qiang said speechlessly: "Mom, don't worry about it, I really don't mean it.

Besides, it wouldn’t be appropriate for me to talk to Sister Su.”

"Why is it inappropriate?" Hu Qiang's mother asked.

Hu Qiang blinked: "Nowhere is suitable.

And don’t forget, from a legal perspective, I am still married, not truly single.

If you let me, a married man, fall in love with Sister Su, isn't this cheating in marriage?"

Hearing what Hu Qiang said, Hu Qiang's mother frowned: "What are you talking about? What kind of marital infidelity? Although you are still married in name, Weiwei has been gone for more than four years. What is the difference between you and being single? If you were

If you go and get a divorce now, it will definitely be done immediately.

Speaking of this, I've mentioned this to you several times before, why don't you get a divorce?"

Upon hearing what his mother said, Hu Qiang blinked, lowered his head deliberately, rolled his eyes, and said with a look of lamentation and loneliness: "Mom, stop talking, Weiwei just left in anger, wait until she gets over it."

Angry, he will come back sooner or later. So, before Weiwei comes back, I can't get a divorce. This is inappropriate, really inappropriate."

Seeing Hu Qiang's appearance, Hu Qiang's mother was so angry that she subconsciously raised her hands, as if she wanted to give her son a big-eared melon seed.

But in the end, I still felt sorry for him. Instead of fighting him, I put down my hand and said angrily: "Silly boy, what a stupid boy! How can you be as stubborn as your father if you don't have much ability?"

Having said this, seeing that Hu Qiang still lowered his head and said nothing, Hu Qiang's mother sighed and said warmly again:

"Qiangzi, I know that you haven't let go of Weiwei in your heart, and you always feel that you owe her, but she has been gone for so many years, and you have been waiting for her for so many years, which is enough.

Even if it's for your mother, Xiao Hutao, and this family, just let go of Weiwei and don't deceive yourself.

Then, you can try to get in touch with Xiao Su and have a good talk. Maybe your true destiny lies here.

As a human being, you should be more realistic and objective, and don't cling to the past, as that will only harm others and yourself!

Let go of your obsessions and you will be liberated.

Qiangzi, don’t make a mistake!”
Chapter completed!
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