"middle age crisis?"

Everyone in the love apartment was surprised.

"That's right!" The writing type Xiao Hei nodded, "It's the mid-life crisis that modern urban men and women are most afraid of!"

Lu Ziqiao frowned and said, "No, of course I understand the mid-life crisis, but Zhang Wei isn't one, right?"

"That's right." Chen Meijia followed, "You have to say that I still believed it before, but now that Zhang Wei has a successful career and a good love life, and friends like us are still by his side, what reason does he have to go through a mid-life crisis?

?”

"That's right!" Hu Yifei also reacted, "Xiao Hei, don't be alarmist! Tell the truth quickly!"

The writing type Xiao Hei shook his head: "So, although you have been Zhang Wei's old friends for many years, if you really talk about it, your understanding of Zhang Wei's true inner thoughts may not be as good as mine.

Yes, you live under the same roof and have been good friends for many years. You seem to be the ones who know him best.

But your understanding of Zhang Wei is only superficial, and you have no real understanding of his inner world.

Of course, you don't know much about his inner world, but that's understandable.

After all, you have grown up and have your own small career and family. You can no longer hang out with friends all day long and talk about everything as you did in the past.

And you probably don’t think there’s anything wrong with Zhang Wei now.

In terms of career, Zhang Wei is now a practicing lawyer and has his own law firm, and his career is booming.

In terms of love, he also has a young, beautiful, all-round, super awesome girlfriend who is supportive of him in all kinds of ways.

In terms of friendship, he has always been accompanied by several of your old friends, and we can handle any difficulties together.

From the looks of it, he does have a happy life, with good career, love and friendship, and nothing to worry about.

But in fact, if Zhang Wei really has a happy life, why does he often wake up in the middle of the night? And why does he often sigh in front of the mirror alone after waking up in the middle of the night, and then stay in a daze until dawn?

Do you really know these situations?"

After hearing what Xiao Hei said, Hu Yifei, Lu Ziqiao and others looked at each other, then turned their heads, blinked and said to Xiao Hei: "I didn't know that Zhang Wei would often wake up in the middle of the night, and I didn't know that he would often wake up to Xiao Hei.

Looking in the mirror and sighing, is there a problem?

We are just neighbors and good friends. We don't live in the same room or sleep on the same bed as Zhang Wei. If he didn't tell us this, how would we know that he would be like this?

Besides, if he really has something on his mind, he can tell us. If he doesn’t tell us, doesn’t it mean the problem is not big?”

The writing type Xiao Hei smiled and shook his head: "So, people who live in happiness always think that others are also happy. This is the same as not eating minced meat."

After sighing, the writer-type Xiaohei continued: "Actually, Zhang Wei, despite his careless appearance, seems to have a strong ability to withstand stress because of constant misfortunes. He claims to be the most classy man in the love apartment, but he

In fact, I have always been very sensitive and have low self-esteem.

Why, you will know after thinking about it.

When he was in the love apartment, Zhang Wei was the only orphan with no real family, so his desire for family and friends was beyond your imagination.

Because of this, Zhang Wei knew that his fiancée did not love him, but loved someone else, but in order to have family affection and love, he still endured it silently, chose to forgive, and pretended not to know.

I waited until he was abandoned on the wedding day and became a big joke, then I hid in the love apartment and officially became friends with you.

But in fact, he came to the love apartment just to escape and have a place to stay.

Therefore, because you accepted him and took him in when he was at the lowest point in his life, he has always been grateful to you.

It is precisely because of this that even if he has low self-esteem when facing you, he never dares to express it. Instead, he puts on a clown mask and embellishes your life with funny things and jokes.

As the saying goes, the core of comedy is tragedy.

Have you ever thought that in a love apartment, the funniest and funniest person is often the one who has the worst life?

Before Zhang Wei came, the most miserable comedian in the apartment was Zeng Xiaoxian.

But since Zhang Wei arrived, the worst comic person has become Zhang Wei.

Zhang Wei used his own tragic experiences to bring laughter and happiness to everyone in the love apartment again and again.

And how did you do it?

You didn't really realize Zhang Wei's situation, and you didn't really help him fundamentally. You just consumed his pain time and time again to fulfill your own happiness."

"Nonsense!" Zeng Xiaoxian immediately retorted, "How can we consume his pain again and again to fulfill our own happiness? Stop talking nonsense!"

"That's right!" Hu Yifei followed, "We have been doing our best to help Zhang Wei!"

The writing guy smiled coldly at Hu Yifei and curled his lips: "Hu Yifei, do you remember Zhang Wei's ex-girlfriend got married and invited Zhang Wei to attend. Zhang Wei didn't want to go, so you forced him to go and be the bridesmaid.

Bar?"

Hu Yifei blinked: "I remember, so what happened?"

The writing type Xiao Hei shook his head: "Obviously Zhang Wei has said many times that he doesn't want to go to that wedding, why do you have to force him to go?"

"I did it for his own good!" Hu Yifei said, "I asked him not to escape, to be firm and face his past bravely, so that he can welcome a new future!"

"But those are just your thoughts and actions, not Zhang Wei's." The writing gangster said, "You think it's good to be tough, but how do you know that Zhang Wei likes this kind of tough stuff?"

"If you don't confront the issue head-on, are you just like being a coward?" Hu Yifei frowned and said, "Escape is very shameful."

Writing gangster: "Although escaping is shameful, it is useful! At least that is the case for Zhang Wei.

Hu Yifei, not everyone is like you.

For you, being positive and tough is your philosophy in life.

But for Zhang Wei, proper escape is his optimal solution.

After all, you are all completely different in terms of your own personality and original living environment, and you cannot simply apply one blanket to the other.

But you always force your will on Zhang Wei and ask Zhang Wei to do things according to your code of conduct. This is wrong.

For example, you once forced Zhang Wei to attend his ex-girlfriend's wedding as a bridesmaid. Have you ever thought about Zhang Wei's mood at that time?

No, or in other words, you don’t care about Zhang Wei’s mood at all, you only think about how your own mood will be.”

"So what?" Hu Yifei said with a serious face, "Zhang Wei runs away when something happens, and I help him correct his shortcomings. Is it still my fault?"

The writing type Xiao Hei spread his hands and said: "Look, this is the problem!

Neither you nor they think you are wrong, they always think that what you do is beneficial to Zhang Wei, and they never really ask what Zhang Wei is thinking.

Zhang Wei lives here, no matter how unhappy he is in his heart, in order to continue to be good friends with you, in order not to lose several of your good friends, no matter how unwilling he is, he must endure your will, continue to make changes for you, and continue to

Be that stingy clown in front of you.

In other words, when he is with you, Zhang Wei actually has to put on a mask, then enter his own persona and play his role well.

Only when he is alone in the room can he really put down his mask and stop being an actor in life."

Hu Yifei frowned and said: "You mean, Zhang Wei has known us for so many years and has been acting in front of us? He has never revealed his true thoughts?"

The writing type Xiao Hei nodded: "Although Zhang Wei gradually became more and more like the person he played, but in essence, when he gets along with you, he is indeed entering the acting state subconsciously.

Of course, this is not because he has any worries about you, but it is his survival instinct.

After all, if you want to integrate into a group, you must find your own position and personality, otherwise you will be excluded.

This chameleon-like life skill is especially important to Zhang Wei, an orphan born in a welfare institution, and has become an instinct for him.

In fact, let alone Zhang Wei, don’t you all have another side of yourselves that no one knows about?

Just like Meijia.

If Meijia hadn't misunderstood that Lu Ziqiao had an affair with Curry Sauce before when she was pregnant, and suddenly ran away from home and disappeared without a trace, who among you except Lu Ziqiao would have known that Meijia had so many pasts, and even once was in a girl group

member?"

Everyone subconsciously looked at Chen Meijia, and then looked at the writing type Xiao Hei again.

The writing type Xiao Hei calmly pushed up his glasses and continued to elaborate: "So, seeing may not be true!

The old friends we usually know may be completely different from what you imagine in private.

Just like Zhang Wei.

Zhang Wei's usual appearance gives people the impression that he is very flamboyant, very stingy, very upright, very classy, ​​very talkative, very annoying, but also very unlucky.

But do you know that privately, Zhang Wei doesn’t actually like to talk, and he likes to be in a daze, and he also likes fluffy pillows.”

Hu Yifei blinked: "Even so, what does this have to do with mid-life crisis?"

"Of course it does matter!" said the writer-type gangster, "I said before, in your eyes, Zhang Wei has a successful career, a happy love, and is accompanied by good friends like you. There should be nothing unsatisfactory in life.

You should be happy and free from worries.

But do you know that you yourself are the source of Zhang Wei’s biggest troubles?"

"What do you mean?" Hu Yifei asked subconsciously.

The writing-type gangster said: "It's very simple. Those people living in the love apartment, so far, are all in pairs and happily in love.

For example, you are married to Zeng Xiaoxian, Meijia is married to Zi Qiao, Guan Gu is married to Youyou, and even Zhanbo and Wanyu are back together in Europe. It is said that they are engaged and will get married soon.

In other words, the only elderly people in the love apartment who are still single are Zhang Wei and Qin Yumo."

"Wait, wait, wait!" Hu Yifei suddenly interrupted, "You said Yu Mo is still single, so I won't say anything to you. After all, she has high demands.

But you said Zhang Wei is still single, which is obviously wrong, right?

Zhang Wei has always had a girlfriend called Dali!

When you say that, where do you put our efforts?"

"This is exactly another question I want to talk about." The writing type Xiao Hei looked at everyone, and then smiled faintly.
Chapter completed!