1138, long years (155) three in one(1/3)
Long years (155)
After eating, Qinghui said hello and took Ye Zi away first.
First, there are the procedures for going home to get the house. Ye Zi asked: "Do you have your household registration book and ID card with you?"
Of course I brought them all with me. When I went to go through these procedures, I couldn’t bring any documents with me. He said ‘hmm’, packed up the things, and the two of them went out without stopping at home.
After getting in the car, Qinghui asked: "Where do you keep your ID? In the store or at home?"
Ye Zi turned her face to look at him. It wasn't until Qinghui asked her a second time that she smiled and said, "I have it with me." Then she suddenly said, "I have to go somewhere first. You turn right..."
oh!
Qinghui didn't ask where she was going, she just said which way to go.
When he stopped, he discovered that the place where he stopped was the Civil Affairs Bureau.
Qinghui looked at Ye Zi without answering: "What do you mean?"
"Let's get the marriage certificate first." Ye Zi got out of the car first, "The wedding can be held anytime."
Qinghui was stunned for a long time before he unbuckled his seat belt and got out of the car: "You have to think about it, you can't regret it after you get the certificate."
Ye Zi was speechless, but he raised his feet and left first: "Hurry up!"
Queuing up to get the certificate was very time-consuming. The two arrived late and got the certificate before getting off work. The transfer of the property was definitely not successful.
Qinghui looked at her: "Aren't you afraid that I will regret it?"
Ye Zi laughed: "What's yours is mine now, so go ahead and regret it!"
Qinghui really smiled this time and pulled her into the car: "Let's go!"
"Where are you going?" Ye Zi shouted, "The wedding isn't happening yet, you have to take me home first!"
"Do you think I will take you back to my house? What a beautiful thought!" He teased, "The transfer of ownership cannot go through. They are off work. I guess the jewelry store is not off work?"
Then there was a valuable diamond ring on Ye Zi's hand.
She smiled, as if she understood something. In fact, the husband in front of her, who is younger than herself, can be considered a sincere person. You treat him with sincerity, and he treats you with sincerity. It's that simple.
Sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, and this is the long-term way. I am afraid that holding a sincere heart will be ignored, ignored, or even trampled in the mud.
She said: "How about I go home with you?"
He said, "No, I'll take you home and let's go get the wedding dress another day."
Qinghui's wedding was prepared very quickly. Ye Zi's parents said they wanted a house in the capital, and even said that it would be fine if it was placed in their daughter's name. Ye Zi's aunt directly responded by saying, "Save some for the child."
Think about it. Who said we didn’t want her anymore? Over the years, has she eaten a bite of your rice and spent a penny on her schooling?”
Qinghui found out about Chen Zhizhi's rotten millet story and found out that Ye Zi was the eldest daughter in the family. Later, she gave birth to two, three, four, and five other daughters, all of whom were given away after they were born. It was not easy to get a son. In order to give his son
You won't be fined if you apply for household registration. You must not let the eldest daughter Ye Zi, who is already over twelve years old. No matter whose family it is, they will take her away with two hundred yuan. You are talking about a half-year-old girl, 10,000
As soon as someone with evil intentions takes the child away... this will not ruin the child's life. The kind person gave Ye Zi an idea: "Go to your aunt..."
Zi Zi's uncle is an educated youth. When he was cutting in line here, he fell in love with Zi Zi's aunt. But he was not a heartless person. He took Zi Zi's aunt back to the city when he returned to the city. Zi Zi's aunt is a more successful person.
, I would sing songs wherever I went to the mountains. When I got to the city, I enrolled in night school and actively prepared for the exam. After that, I went to a junior college at a medical university. Later I worked in a hospital. Whenever I had the opportunity to study, I was more active than anyone else. I studied abroad several times.
Secondly, she had a poor foundation in professional subjects. It was not easy for her to become a surgeon, pharmacist, anesthesiologist, so she majored in nutrition, which was just starting at that time.
After that, I first worked in a nursing home. Then I met Yao Siyun.
The nursing home is mainly populated by retired cadres who are recuperating there. She loves to talk and laugh, has a lively temperament, and has slowly built up a network of contacts. Speaking of which, Ye Zi's uncle is a kind-hearted person, but his temper is not as rounded as hers.
After marrying into the city, her aunt Ye Zi handled everything very well, whether it was work or family. Her father-in-law and mother-in-law also complained in the early years, but they couldn't stop her daughter-in-law from competing. Later, she was coaxed by her daughter-in-law and she liked her very much.
Ye Zi called her aunt, and her aunt rushed back to her hometown the next day, handed over two hundred yuan, and took Ye Zi away. At that time, it was unrealistic to take Ye Zi back to the capital to go to school, and the child didn't even have a household registration.
.I am twelve years old and I have not studied for a day.
So I thought of a way to apply for household registration, and then arranged to study at an elementary school in a town on the outskirts of Beijing. Because I was older when I was studying, I completed my studies by enrolling in a technical secondary school.
After I came out, I borrowed some money to open a pharmacy, and slowly started running it.
The handling of the relationship with the family is a matter of personal consideration.
In the early years, when you were an aunt, you always thought about your children when they were young. If you say you don't let other people's children recognize their parents, what should you do if the children grow up and complain? After all, they are still relatives! And no matter how unsatisfactory that person over there is, he is still his brother.
There was a quarrel at that time, she took care of the child, the problem was solved, and they were married again. No matter what, she was still the daughter she had raised for twelve years. The child was also sensible and remembered things. This can't be broken off by just saying goodbye.
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Later, when the children grew up, they seemed to be no longer close to their parents. But what do you mean, they have been dating for so many years, and they are close. How can you really say that you will ignore them and ignore them?
Who doesn’t have two relatives in their family who don’t want to move around but have to move around?
The aunt had good intentions, and she thought that as long as her brother treats the child better, the child would have nothing to worry about. If you have a child, you will have everything you need to be filial.
But after all these years, who knew it would become like this.
The child has a grudge to begin with, and then you do this.
You won’t agree, right?
Back then, you said you would give 200 to take the child away. I gave you 200, and I took the child away. I arranged for her to go to school and work. What do you think you are doing?
Ye Zi's mother immediately started to groan: "It was a joke back then. How can you raise a daughter for twelve years with two hundred yuan?"
Two hundred yuan at that time was not a small amount of money. Although you could not raise the child for twelve years, did you really raise the child for twelve years? He worked for the family when he was six or seven years old. Who fed the chickens, ducks and geese?
She still has to step on the bench when cooking in the kitchen! Can’t she earn a meal from all the work she does?
She doesn't go to school, and she doesn't buy new clothes. She goes around picking up unwanted clothes. What do you think she spends on you?
The sister-in-law and sister-in-law quarreled back and forth, and in the end, Ye Zi’s mother started complaining: “I won’t talk about the other money... I’m just asking, if she eats my milk, how much should she pay for this milk?”
She lived in my belly for nine months, and you ask her, how does this count?"
Ye Zi took 100,000, and as a mother, she got up and wiped her tears before accepting it.
This is the end of it.
For Ye Zi, this is considered complete.
The 100,000 I gave you was for breast milk and rent for living with you for nine months.
To what extent is the breakup going?
After the breakup, Ye Zi decided not to tell her parents about the wedding date.
After the money was given, the relationship ended. Qinghui had seen it, and she had blocked the other party's phone number.
The woman was originally quite complicated, but now the bride's natal family is extremely simple. Fortunately, her aunt and uncle followed her back to her hometown and attended the wedding, so the wedding was considered a success.
This was the first time Qing Ning heard a saying: Up to now, the view of her family is that if the woman’s family does not agree and does not come to the wedding, then the wedding will be ridiculed. This is not the etiquette of marrying a matchmaker!
What are the three media and six certificates? Today there is no such thing as the six certificates, but the three media are indispensable. Although most of them are symbolic, they are also indispensable.
At that time, it was important for parents to order a matchmaker. The man's parents would hire one, the girl's parents would hire one, and there would be another one to communicate with in the middle.
Regardless of whether the man is missing or the girl is missing, everyone knows that one of the families is unwilling. What will happen if the girl marries herself?
This is completely contrary to the concept of freedom of marriage.
She told her father: "The ideas in our hometown are still too old..."
Changing customs is not a matter of one generation or two. Their generation couldn't do it, but Qing Ning's generation will definitely do it. Most children like Qing Ning sneer at this. So.
In the future, when their children grow up, this old routine may really be buried in the dust of history.
Qingyuan laughed and said, "Why are those people so free? They all regard it as a way to meddle in other people's affairs. In front of my third uncle, he muttered that my third uncle handled this matter.
It's not authentic. It's wrong not to call the child's biological mother. The child's biological uncles and aunts must all be present."
He Xiaowan's natal family has a particularly large family.
There are not many good people in any family, but there are many people who help the He family to speak up. The matter of not inviting the uncles, cousins, and cousins of the He family is done irregularly.
The third child has troubles that he cannot express.
He and Qinghui had discussed it before, and they would do it once in the capital, and asked Yao Siyun to stay in the capital. The excuse was to help Qingjuan look at front houses and so on... The father and son went back and did it in their hometown. He Xiaowan
Please come and follow the procedures.
We all agreed with He Xiaowan, and she also said that she would definitely go back. The third child also said, please see who Uncle Qinghui should tell and who he should not tell. He Xiaowan said that he had not been at home for several years and would discuss it when he went back.
look.
Unfortunately, when the day came, He Xiaowan's daughter Qingtian had a fever. She said she couldn't leave because she couldn't live without someone at home. I told my relatives, but I couldn't say that I had changed my life just for you. You said you wouldn't even come back.
, should we invite the relatives of the He family or not? He asked angrily, and then He Xiaowan might be busy over there, and the nurse was calling the patient's family. I don't know if he didn't hear it or didn't care, but he didn't say anything anyway.
Hang up the phone.
Then forget it! What else are you asking for?
Where is Yao Siyun? I am not staying in the capital for life or death, and my son’s marriage has not been canceled. How can I still rest? When can I not look at the front house?
Didn’t you say before that you wouldn’t buy the appearance? These two men changed their minds so quickly.
Anyway, in the eyes of his family, Qinghui’s marriage went very poorly?
To be continued...