Chapter 670 Are you sad?
There was a private dining room in the teahouse when listening to the opera. Sanya followed Daya in, while Erlang stayed under the teahouse, fearing that he would bump into Daya's little sisters and friends if he went in.
In fact, there are no little sisters in it, just Yao, who is eating melon seeds and listening to a book.
When you open the window, you can see the storyteller outside. From time to time, he uses the gavel to shoot again and again, and his speech is very exciting.
Seeing Sanya enter, he quickly called the waiter in, ordered fresh and delicious pastries for Sanya, etc., and placed several plates in front of Sanya, all of which Sanya had never seen before.
"Come here, my eldest aunt invites you to listen to a book and have something to eat today. This is a time-honored teahouse in our Shazhou County. The pastries are delicious. You girl has never been to Shazhou County, and I guess you have never tasted them. Since you are here to relax,
Relax, Auntie will treat you to a meal, don’t be formal, it’s good to eat, drink and have fun, it’s a good day.”
Invite Sanya to sit down and give her the best seat.
Sanya was flattered.
Da Ya said, "Originally I was going to introduce you to my little sisters, but my mother said that today is the first day, so I don't want to scare you. I want you to get familiar with it for a few days first, and then I will introduce you to my friends. Let's go together as a family."
It's also good to listen to books. In a few days, we can also go to the theater, which is more fun than this. Come, eat, you're welcome."
As he said that, he picked up a piece of pastry and started eating it deliciously.
Sanya swallowed her saliva, picked up a piece of pastry, carefully placed it to her mouth, and took a sip. An unprecedented sweet and soft feeling filled her taste buds.
Although the life of Lao Xu's family is better now, after all, in the countryside, this exquisite life is still worse than in the county town.
"Thank you, auntie."
Yao said, "We are all a family. We don't want to thank you or anything. It's just because you are such a pitiful girl that Da Ya asked you to come out and relax. Tell your aunt, what are you thinking?"
Those people are so hateful and they all hope that you will not find a good husband in the future. Are you sad?"
Sanya was about to cry.
"Don't cry either. You ladies are right. Don't care about the opinions of outsiders. Take what those people say as a joke and don't feel bad about yourself. However, it's okay for others to say this. I guess it's the person involved.
, not so free and easy, I feel sorry for you, a good girl." Yao advised.
These words made Sanya feel even more aggrieved, and it got to her heart.
Others told her to be more open-minded. She understood this truth after being told it many times, but she still felt pain, fear, and sadness.
"Auntie...I..."
"Good girl, it's not convenient for me to advise you when there are many people. If you really want to silence the country people, it would be better for you to find a good family in the city and marry in a glamorous manner than to do anything else. Think carefully about it.
Is this true? Some of what your old lady said is right, but she is also a little girl herself and did not think carefully about some of her words. How can any woman not marry? "
Yao continued, "What should a woman do when she gets old if she doesn't marry? Her parents are gone, her brothers and sisters are all old, and they all have their own families and children and grandchildren. You are all alone? When you are sick or weak, you have your daughter-in-law to take care of you and guide you.
, you are old, sick and can’t walk, who cares whether you live or die? Not to mention these, it is bad luck for an unmarried woman to stay in her parents’ house all year round. Did you know? This is one of the symptoms of a unhappy family.
, in the future, it may even affect the career of your fourth brother Xiaoshan. The bright future cannot be ruined in your hands, and no matter how good your second brother is to you, he cannot let bad luck happen because of you.
If your sister-in-law or brother-in-law has passed away, they won't say anything on the surface, but they will dislike you privately and chew on the root of your tongue. It's hard to live like this, isn't it?"
Sanya's face turned a little pale again, country people are superstitious about these things.
There are many older unmarried village girls who have people in front of them and everyone behind them giving them advice.
Not only was he criticized outside, he was also unpopular at home.
In Lao Xu's family, she has the support of her old aunt, so she won't eat free food at home, but there is no guarantee that her future sister-in-law will not gossip with her younger siblings.
Even if he doesn't say anything in front of others and treats her secretly, she feels sad.
Mrs. Yao continued to say, "What your old lady said about recruiting a son-in-law is even more inappropriate. When someone recruits a son-in-law, it is because there is no male son in the family, or it is a particularly favored youngest daughter, just like your old lady.
Like that. But you have an older brother above you, a younger brother below you, and someone with a bad reputation. Would you bring trouble to your family by recruiting a son-in-law? Besides, who in the countryside doesn't know your situation now? As long as he is a good man.
I won’t even come here to be your son-in-law. Do you think you can still recruit someone like your Uncle Liao Qing? Impossible! I can only recruit some rags. Not to mention I’ve wronged you, I’m afraid it will be the same in the future.
It's hard to live a life full of excitement, and the children you have in the future will probably be crooked and bad. Is this the life you want to live?"
Sanya's eyes were blurred with tears.
I can't even eat the cakes in my mouth.
Da Ya said, "Mom, what are you talking about these spoilers? Sister Sanya, don't cry, eat cakes and listen to books. Now in the county town, no one knows you. Out of sight is out of mind. Don't worry so much. Besides,
You don’t have to worry, I’m older than you, so I’m not in a hurry.”
Yao smiled and said, "Don't cause trouble for me. You and Sanya are in a different situation. Sanya is on the cusp of the storm now. It's best to find someone to marry in order to calm down the storm. Sanya, give me a
That’s right, are you willing to do the marriage that eldest aunt has given your attention to?”
Sanya promised, "My parents said that if there is a suitable family, it will be possible..."
Mrs. Yao smiled widely, "That's right. The family with the surname Zhao I mentioned is quite suitable. If you don't object, will you come with me to take a look in secret?"
Sanya blushed, "How can that be done?"
"Why not? Now your third uncle and second brother must have listened to your aunt's arrangement and will not let you go to see others. No one will help you to see them. You can go and see for yourself. If it works, you
Go back and tell them that they will definitely believe you. You have to make your own decisions about your own marital happiness. Others, as bystanders, will only advise you. What’s the use of persuading you? If it doesn’t happen to you, who can really make the decision?
Do you understand your suffering? It would be better if you were Erya. Your sister Erya will not do anything in the future and her life will be good. The people who seek marriage are all serious people. You are different. If you don’t seize the opportunity, you will
Your life is definitely not as good as Erya’s…”
Sanya was given a drink of ecstasy soup, and her heart was shaken a little.
Chapter completed!