When I returned to work, I asked my assistant what kind of dream he had.

My assistant said to me, "He dreamed that Guanyin Bodhisattva said to him, let him pick me up."

I was a little surprised why Guanyin Bodhisattva would send him a dream. Because I don’t want other people. If I have any disasters or dangers, Guanyin will send him a dream, then there will be no problem. I have no problem at all. I just came back from my comrades and what is the reason for Guanyin Bodhisattva to send him a dream? It’s really a bit incredible to think about it.

According to this reasoning, this should be like this. However, Guanyin Bodhisattva asked him to pick me up, because Guanyin Bodhisattva had other plans. Otherwise, it would not be the case.

No matter how he is, he will do whatever he wants.

When I arrived at the company, I was busy with some things about the company.

At this time, the company's assistant said to me: "Look at this time, are you busy?"

I said to my assistant: "Say whatever you want to say!"

He said he wanted to tell me some life problems, so I told him, if there are any problems, you can just say whatever you have.

He said: "That's right, that's what I do."

I said to him, "How old are you now?"

My assistant Jiang Tao: "He is almost twenty-five."

I said to him, "Have you found a partner now?"

He replied to me, "No."

"Speak whatever you want to say to me!" I said to him.

I know that I have told him now, and I will say anything or not, because since he asked me this way, he will definitely believe me. If I don’t tell him, he will definitely have an opinion on me. What’s more, he said to my subordinates, as a person who has experienced this type of thing, I think I can definitely give him some help. As for the big and small help, of course I don’t know, and only he said it himself.

Although I said this, Jiang Tao still stumbled for a long time and didn't say a word. Was he thinking about the problem or suddenly changed his mind? I don't know, but since he said that just now, he must have wanted to say it at that time. Now he may not want to say it anymore, I thought so.

Why are problems prone to communication between people? Why are there prone to poor communication? It means that two people are not at the same point. For example, I want to ask a question, I want to ask this question, is it just to imagine that you can give me a positive answer, or to support Fanfan's statement? I want to get some other opinions and understanding from your mouth. This is another statement.

Also, for example, if a person suddenly breaks up a love affair, if he tells you this matter, wants you to give him a solution to the problem, or wants you to comfort her. If you don’t know what kind of result he wants, just say what thoughts in your heart, will he be satisfied? Surely not, so if you dare to give others an answer, you must know what kind of answers others want? Otherwise, you can just say it casually and speak nonsense, which will not help you solve the two of you problems.

So I asked him: "You see if it's convenient for you now. If it's not convenient, we can take some time to talk about it next time."

After I finished speaking, he said, "What's inconvenient? As a conversation between two big men, is there anything to hide?"

I told him this way that I wanted to eliminate the doubts in his heart, or what he didn't want to say, and could give him some steps and drag him down with his eyes closed. This not only did not help us in communication, but made him feel embarrassed. It should not be what I wanted to do, nor was it my way of being a human being.

So he slowly said, "I think so, as your assistant, I don't know how you think I'm doing, but now I have a clear goal for myself, and I mean, how good I can do in the future, can you give me some clear instructions?"

I smiled and replied to him, "It's great to ask this question. I don't know how you position your job. If you just position you, like a nanny, then you are very wrong. There is a higher positioning. That is to say, you should have thought about how to replace me in the future and how to become a boss, instead of serving me well and taking good care of me. If you don't compare that, you will just find a woman who is more gentle and thoughtful, isn't it better than you? Of course, in terms of your current abilities, you may not meet that requirement, but you should demand more strictly from your heart, such as how many things you need to learn every day? How many books do you have to read? And, every day, when listening to me dealing with things, you have to think about what you will do if he asks you about this kind of thing? This is where you should learn from me."

I know that it is very direct for me to say such words to him. Of course, my explanation will not hurt him, because my identity is here, and I don’t need to say to him around the bush, that if I do that, it will not be like my leader. More importantly, I am also completely considering him. If I consider myself, there is no need to say this or think about her.

Including, when dealing with things, he should see how I should deal with it from his perspective. If you said it was his leader, I don’t know if they would say that, but since that is what he said, it must be based on the other party’s position to consider the other party, rather than saying some high-sounding words.

"I don't know, are you satisfied if I say that?"

"Oh, can such a leader be more specific?" Jiang Tao asked.

I said to myself, it is not that it is impossible for me to be more specific, but it is absolutely possible to do your job well by yourself. If you can't do it well, it is because you don't have the ability, which means you are not suitable for this job. Although I think this way, I haven't said it, and he will definitely be unhappy if he says it. We both bow our heads and look up. It's this kind of relationship, why did I offend him?

"Say this way!" When I said this, I didn't dare to think about it, that is, I didn't know him very well, so I wanted to get a complete understanding of him from scratch.

"What major do you study?"

I asked him a question like this, which seemed a bit idiotic. But I want to say one thing, know how much he has understood his profession? How much is it used? Can he not answer at all? But in terms of his current work performance, I see if it is related to his profession.

"I learned Chinese language and literature, I told you before." Jiang Tao said.
Chapter completed!