During the Chinese New Year in the countryside, in addition to eating, drinking and having fun, there is another one, that is, walking...

The elders in the village are close relatives, and greetings to close relatives is part of the journey. After walking through the close relatives, they will go to the distant relatives next.

It’s not like every household that is a distant relative to you, but it depends on how far the distant relative is, and how close you are to your own family... It’s too far apart, although your blood is close, but your relationship is unfamiliar.

Of course, I won't go around.

The first person to leave when a distant relative is called to leave. For a married woman's house, it is called to go back to her parents' home; for a married man, it is called to present a New Year gift to Lord Taishan, which is to bring good cigarettes, good wine and a big red envelope.

The children went to the door; for the children, they were called to greet the grandmother, uncle and aunt, and the little guys, of course, went to collect red envelopes.

Some people have many distant relatives, and they all live not far away, and their relationships are not bad, so they have to leave in the first lunar month... After paying New Year's greetings to their close relatives in the village on the morning of the first lunar month,

I started walking and could walk until the seventh and eighth day of the first lunar month, or even the tenth day of the first lunar month... It would be fine if I had a small car at home, would it be convenient? If I had to take a car or even walk, it would be miserable.

However, some families are like this. For example, all the brothers and sisters of the woman's family made an appointment to come to her parents' house that day, and greet each other and have a good New Year together, and be lively together. It's OK

, much easier.

Gao Ge has many relatives at home. Gao Shuan also has his Taishan, so their family has to leave. Fortunately, Gao Shuan has a car, so he is very relaxed. Moreover, the family's economy is better, so he feels superior.

This relative feels very proud when he walks.

Gaoshou’s father-in-law had long died. One of his two brothers was crying and repenting in the class room, and the other had not been in contact for several years. Their distant relatives did not need to leave, so they were relaxed in the first month...

Luo Hui is also quite relaxed. All his relatives, grandparents are in Gaojia Village; his uncle is in the United States and his sister is in Canada, which is a matter of phone calls... As for Lord Taishan, haha, this is even easier.

In the next few days of Luo Hui's first month, the whole family will be together, enjoying family and life.

“…”

The sound of firecrackers stopped, the fireworks dissipated, and the atmosphere of the New Year gradually faded.

The New Year is indeed the number one solar term for the Greater Chinese nation every year. From the government to the common people, everyone attaches great importance to it. In fact, objectively speaking, the New Year is indeed a kind of thing for some people.

Enjoy. But for some people, it is a torture - a very sad and helpless torture.

These people who enjoy themselves are naturally people like Luo Hui. They have power and power, real money and silver, like fake ones, a real tycoon, respected, flattered and sought after by others, and they don't need anyone to go to.

Who is going to pay New Year's greetings at home...

And these people who were tortured by the Chinese New Year are naturally the silly people, short and poor.

The poor silk people work outside, and they are suffering from the evil capitalists' hard work, exhausted physically and mentally... During the Spring Festival travel rush, it is harder to buy a ticket than to grab a robbery... I finally got it

If you have a seat or no seat, you will suffer if you take a canned sardine train...

Shaking and shaking on the train, after more than ten or twenty hours, I finally returned home with my extremely tired body and mind.

If the elderly at home prepare all the things for the New Year, it would be better. If they are not prepared, they will be too busy to light up their feet... New Year's Eve and Spring Festival, after the Spring Festival, they will start to visit relatives. Remote like Gaojia Village,

If you are inconvenient to travel, such as Gaoshuan, you are not afraid. But how many people have cars? If you don’t have cars, you will have to go through the rhythm of breaking your legs.

When you arrive at the home of Taishan, it would be better if your father-in-law had only one daughter. If you have two daughters or even three daughters, if your other son-in-law is almost the same as you, it doesn’t matter. It’s hard for brothers and brothers to have a relationship.

If they do better than themselves, or even much better, they will naturally compare themselves and make themselves lose face.

People are realistic and snobbish, especially when Lord Taishan and his mother-in-law are.

The rich son-in-law, they naturally like it the more they look at it. If it is a turtle son-in-law, please go farther and don’t choke on my eyes. Just look at you with just one word, annoyed... Like those who have a few son-in-law, Tai Zhang

It is obvious that you will be more intimate with your son-in-law who has done well, and you will neglect your son-in-law who has done poorly.

When working as migrant workers outside, they are inferior to others. They are used to being neglected and looked down upon. You can come and come for mental torture... The biggest torture of the Chinese New Year is the torture in the pockets. They don’t seem to be praising them.

Civil servants who have a gold rice bowl and employees of state units, if they don’t go to work, their wages will still be paid, and their benefits will still be paid, and they will be more generous during the Chinese New Year... And the sad dicks, if they don’t go to work, they will mean they have no income...

The family needs fares to take the bus, and it takes a lot of money to buy New Year’s goods, and a large stack of red envelopes that must be given...

A married rural small silkworm, after the Chinese New Year, spending 45,600 yuan, this year is considered very economical.

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As the world becomes more and more ancient, people's surnames are gradually lost, and everything in the world is in line with profit and becomes more secular and snobbish. Whether it is the festival or the Chinese New Year, in many places, there is only one surface and one appearance left.

...The so-called atmosphere of festivals or New Year is actually deliberately created, perhaps hyped up... In this overall situation, we can't help but have to act according to the so-called customs and rules... So people's laughter

The voice is not from the heart, it is just a forced smile.

This is the sadness and helplessness of the silk people. If there were no festivals and New Year, some things that could not be seen may be lost. However, the silk people should be free and easy to paint, and will not spend it again, whether in the body or in the heart.

I have to be so tired, so depressed and even sad...

The saying in the countryside, "Adults are looking forward to planting in the fields, and children are looking forward to the New Year" is the most powerful proof of these tortures and helplessness of the silkworms.

Adults hope to plant the fields because planting them is labor, and labor makes people feel physically and mentally fulfilled. After hard work, they will bring people a harvest. During the Chinese New Year, apart from the warmth of family reunion, many others are basically torture.

Spiritual health, and the triple torture on the waist bag.

Children are looking forward to the New Year because they are ignorant and carefree. There are so many delicious food, drinks and fun during the New Year, and New Year's money... When children grow up and grow into silk, they probably won't be able to do it again.

Looking forward to the holidays and the New Year, it is a waste of money... The holidays and the New Year, please let me go, this poor little silk...

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(I don't want to write the above, which will affect the overall harmony and atmosphere of the whole book. But as a little diva, Lao Shui feels deeply about the helplessness and sadness of the New Year and the Festival... I really hope that China will cancel it.

Festival and New Year... Can't the family be reunited just after the New Year? Nonsense...
Chapter completed!