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Chapter 23: Official Household Affairs (5)

Zhao Jiaren took a shower and returned to the bedroom very late. He thought his wife was asleep, but he didn't expect that as soon as he lay down, he heard his wife lying on her side say quietly: "Sanlang, what happened to these children suddenly."

To his wife's answer, Zhao Jiaren just found a comfortable sleeping position, and then said, "They grew up and began to try to live their own way. In a few years, these people will get married and then leave home to live independently." Speaking of this, Zhao Jiaren was very impatient with his rational model, so he changed his opinion.

"Just like the nests of birds in our house, the little swallows grew up a little, and they all squatted on the nest with their butts facing outwards, chirping. Every day, we have to pull the ground all over, and we have to use slag to mat the ground to clean it. But after a while, the little swallows start to learn to fly, and then they will grow up and leave the nest."

Without his wife speaking, Zhao Jiaren was ready to go to bed. His children could still use swallows as metaphors, and those officials could only be described as vultures. Dancing with these guys is really a difficult job. Or it requires a lot of patience. Sometimes Zhao Jiaren really wants to use large-scale derogatory and heavy responsibility to deal with these people. He should pay attention to maintaining his spirit in daily life so that he can concentrate on dealing with them when he needs energy.

Just as Zhao Jiaren was about to fall asleep, he suddenly heard Qin Yuzhen sobbing sounds. Zhao Jiaren wanted to ignore it, but he couldn't let it go, so he could only force himself to sit up and ask, "What's wrong? It's inevitable that the child will leave us. Look, isn't the same with Yanzi?"

"If I knew they had to leave, why did I give birth to them?" Qin Yuzhen said sobly.

Zhao Jiaren's first thought was whether his wife had menopause. Menopause syndrome is also called perimenopause syndrome. The fundamental reason for the occurrence of perimenopause syndrome is ovarian failure caused by physiological or pathological or surgical. Once ovarian function fails or is removed and destroyed, the estrogen secreted by the ovaries will decrease. There are more than 400 estrogen receptors in the whole body of a woman, distributed in almost all tissues and organs in the whole body, and is controlled and controlled by estrogen. Once the estrogen decreases, it will cause degenerative changes in the organs and tissues, and a series of symptoms will appear.

This theory of reaction and neuronal connection is the two basic knowledge pillars for Zhao Jiaren to become a materialist completely. The so-called soul term refers to people having a unique soul, and the purity or contamination of the soul or other characteristics determines the different behavioral characteristics of each person.

However, from a medical point of view, any human behavior is related to the reaction of the human body. Hormones, the morphological rewriting of neuron connections caused by the power of various neurons after being stimulated determines human behavior.

With such a purely materialistic proof, the soul has nowhere to live. This has created the existence of Zhao Jiaren, a staunch materialist. Of course, this is not just Zhao Jiaren, but doctors are actually similar. They may have mystic ideas, but they really cannot believe in the gods of religious propaganda.

Today, I talked to my son Zhao Qian about something based on materialism. Now I have to talk to my wife based on materialism. Zhao Jiaren is quite helpless.

Of course, Zhao Jiaren did not teach his wife a physiology class. He just said, "I said, your parents didn't accuse you of coming to my house after marrying me. My mother never accuses me. After getting into the Jinshi, she ran around to become an official. After getting married, we moved around in Quanzhou, Fuzhou, and Guangzhou. You never complain."

This kind of action of moving with emotion seemed to have some effect. Qin Yuzhen sobbed a few times and asked Zhao Jiaren, "Sanlang, are you angry if I'm so unreasonable?"

"I'll never be angry with you." Zhao Jiaren said the big words he should have said.

"But I was very angry today. He was actually taking his own initiative in marriage at such a young age! We sent him to school to let him study hard." Qin Yuzhen preached in a very serious tone.

"I think, what our three kids do is a bit unexpected. But what they do is normal? What do you think?"

"Normal? What's the way to explain this?" Qin Yuzhen couldn't understand Zhao Jiaren's starting point.

"That is to say, their reactions are all very normal reactions. You can say that these reactions are not progressive enough, or are not mature enough, or are more radical. But as human beings, they are all very normal people. Their various thoughts and wishes are all normal human wishes. It's not right or wrong, but we just feel abrupt as parents."

"...This..., they are all normal. You are not normal." Qin Yuzhen, who didn't know what to say, left a criticism, then turned her head and gave Zhao Jiaren a back.

Zhao Jiaren is too lazy to defend himself. The job of a psychologist is to make people realize that they are normal or abnormal people. They realize that their behavior is normal or abnormal. They realize that their thoughts and actions are appropriate or inappropriate. In short, their job is to make society as normal as possible and not disturbed by society. However, psychologists who do this kind of work are often considered abnormal.

This was the case in the previous life, and in this life, Zhao Jiaren was able to feel at ease. Seeing that his wife was about to go to bed, Zhao Jiaren also lay down to sleep. Without anyone disturbing him, Zhao Jiaren fell asleep quickly.

When he woke up the next day, it was another working day. Zhao Jiaren had breakfast and was about to go out and suddenly turned around and said to his wife: "I just assume a possibility. If Erlang was serious this time and talked to me seriously, then we have to think about whether to meet the little lady and meet the little lady's parents."

"Do you really take this matter seriously?" Qin Yuzhen asked in confusion.

"If we don't take it seriously, what else can we do?" Zhao Jiaren expressed his opinion, "We have always taught children that we must be an example. Even if we don't agree, we must have a result of not agreeing. Besides, I remember you said that you were happy when you married a Jinshi. But if you asked you to marry into the royal family, you would definitely refuse. If you are as smart as you, I think our son would not like a fool."

"Hmph! I'm so cute and charming at such a young age, and I don't think I'm a smart person!" Qin Yuzhen said hatefully.
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