Chapter 284 "About the author writing the paper in the VIP chapter" 4.5k(1/2)
One day later.
"Brother Lu, what are you doing?" In the evening, after Qingshan completed his independent training, he returned to the dormitory and saw Lu Ling typing on his laptop.
"Write a paper." Lu Lingdao.
"Is it a graduation thesis?" Qingshan asked.
"No, an ordinary academic paper. Psychology."
"Ah?" Qingshan looked closer, "Brother Lu, are you going to take the PhD exam?"
"It depends on the situation in the future. Maybe I will study in the future, maybe I will take the on-the-job exam, but...actually it doesn't matter to me." Lu Ling said, "It's just...I have been working for a year, I have some ideas, and I want to write a paper.
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This is probably one of the biggest differences between graduate students and undergraduates. Generally speaking, after graduating from an undergraduate degree, if you do not engage in university or scientific research-related work, the probability of writing a thesis is extremely low. Although the graduate students are not that high, they are better than the undergraduates.
The student is much taller.
This is a change in thinking. Learning itself is not about acquiring knowledge itself, but more about improving one’s learning thinking and improving the ability to transform the unknown into the known.
"Oh, it's rare that Professor Miao doesn't have class tonight, so I also want to ask you if you want to go to the combat training hall." Qingshan no longer bothered about Lu Ling's matter.
"There are no classes in the evening?" Lu Ling was a little uncomfortable, "Okay, let Professor Miao have a rest. That's okay, I'll save it first and go with you."
"Yes." Qingshan nodded and stood waiting for Lu Ling.
Lu Ling quickly packed up, changed his clothes, and followed Qingshan to the combat training hall.
Today is so rare. I have nothing to do at night. There are very few people in the combat training hall, only six or seven people. Now I come here every morning and evening for two and five kilometers to continue to exercise. There are too few people to do more training. Everyone will become police in the future.
It's not a war.
After completing the preparatory activities with Qingshan, the two began training.
Lu Ling has been practicing something with Qingshan every day recently, which is actually a bit shocking. Every time he works as a sparring partner for Qingshan, it is extremely painful, even wearing protective gear is still painful...
Unknowingly, Lu Ling's ability to resist being hit has also improved a lot.
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At eight o'clock in the evening, dragging his body that was about to fall apart, Lu Ling returned to the dormitory.
Others in the dormitory were playing the black game of Honor of Kings. After Lu Ling arrived, the others asked him to play together. Lu Ling was not unsocial, but he hadn’t played this game for three or four seasons. Last year in Suying
When I was at the police station, I was still a diamond, but now I'm at a gold level, and these roommates are generally above Xingyao and can't form a team, so they don't participate.
Then write a paper.
"On the Impact of Meeting Thresholds on Behavior"
Lu Ling came here this season last year and is finally coming to the end of his internship period. In this year, he has been exposed to so many things, and his understanding of psychology has also improved by leaps and bounds.
What happened yesterday reminded him of the suicide he encountered in Suying Town. It was the disabled son who committed suicide on the fourth day of the first lunar month. He left his mother to take care of her until she died, and then chose to end his life and put a sticker on the door.
I asked the village to help me pick up the body.
Wang Dewei is also an ordinary person, a miserable person.
Yesterday, Liu Liwen did not chat about this project in the group, and everyone just came back. Lu Ling and others, because they participated in this project independently, for the sake of fairness, no points will be awarded.
This eucalyptus operation sounds ordinary to outsiders. It involves taking toothache medicine and drinking alcohol, and then something goes wrong and the person dies. However, the people who ran the eucalyptus operation did not chat much along the way, and the two cars returned to the base in silence.
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The other students were naturally full of curiosity, so Professor Miao told everyone about Eucalyptus. After listening, everyone felt uncomfortable and didn't know what they were thinking.
In short, this actually calmed down the originally excited students.
In addition to these scams, Lu Ling has also seen countless ordinary people being deceived, seen the second generation of rich people murdering people, and seen...
Too many.
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What is meeting the threshold?
It is the critical value that produces satisfaction.
The higher the satisfaction threshold, the more difficult it is to satisfy; the lower the satisfaction threshold, the easier it is to satisfy.
From this point of view, having a high threshold is not a good thing, but it is not entirely bad. It can help you set your sights higher.
Wang Dewei's threshold for satisfaction is very low. Even after he ate a piece of Chicken McNuggets before he died, he felt comfortable.
Li Hao (the one who chopped off Han Shan's head in Snow Town Murderer) has a very high threshold of satisfaction, and daily things can no longer make him comfortable.
The satisfaction threshold of the rich is often very high. They will not feel happy eating lobster, king crab, and this is especially true for the rich second generation.
The rich class and the poor class, in some cases, are not two classes at all, but more like two species.
Some rich second generations have everything they want, and their needs for satisfaction are getting higher and higher, and some have to turn to crime. It is good to be young, with strong hormone secretion in the body, and a persistent pursuit of beautiful girls. Once the hormones begin to decline
, if there is less demand in this area, it will be really troublesome. Some healthy people will pursue games and are willing to spend millions, but they can always be satisfied to a certain extent.
If you reach a certain level and have no pursuit of games, women, etc., and if you don’t have a strong sense of propriety, justice and shame, you will easily develop into someone like Li Hao or Shang Xiaohan.
In the final analysis, it is the parents who have responded to requests since childhood, which raised their satisfaction threshold to a state far beyond the normal value.
In history, not counting premature death, many emperors only lived to be twenty or thirty years old. When they were about ten years old, they were embraced by palace maids who could quickly satisfy their desires until their bodies collapsed. The last emperor, Puyi, was very
When he was young, he was visited by countless palace maids. In his words, he lay there without moving. Until later, he was inhumane.
In his research, Lu Ling found that people at the same level of society, for example, those who could earn the median salary in their city twenty years ago, compared with those who can earn the median salary now, modern people
The satisfaction threshold is higher.
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The reason is very simple. Richer ways to obtain happiness allow you to obtain excessive happiness in advance, which will make it more difficult to obtain happiness in the future. This is also one of the root causes of the decline in social happiness.
Many people are addicted to the second dimension, like girls such as Tifa, or have seen beauties with countless filters on Douyin, so they have no interest in real girls, or they are not very interested.
Why is masturbation bad for your health? In fact, it is not a big deal in itself. However, when you face the most beautiful women every day, they are two-dimensional goddesses, and you will lose interest when you see your wife again.
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It’s okay to be young, but if you are seventeen or eighteen years old and your hormones are secreted, it will be okay no matter what. As a 40-year-old person, do you try again? If the threshold is too high, you will really lose interest.
In addition, Lu Ling studied that many people who were deceived had a threshold that was too high. They were not interested in a salary of several thousand yuan and were obsessed with higher investment returns, so they were deceived. Modern people have entered this scam.
of, more and more.
Lu Ling put forward several main points.
First, the satisfaction threshold will continue to decrease over time, but every time it is satisfied, the satisfaction threshold will increase.
For example, you like to eat meat, and you enjoyed eating at the buffet today. If I ask you to eat it tomorrow, you will not feel as happy as you did today. But if you wait a month and eat it again, you will still feel as happy. In addition to food, "a break is better than a wedding."
It also has similar effects.
In the movie "Party A and Party B", there is a boss You who got tired of eating lobsters, geoducks and clams every day. Later, he went to a poor place for two months. He had eaten all the chicken and his eyes were glaring. This is because he had a long time.
Bad environment.
This leads to the second point of view.
Second, the worse the environment, the faster the threshold is reduced.
Chicken-eating Boss You is a representative figure. Similarly, once a person experiences a severe blow, or simply goes through war, it only takes a month to meet the threshold to be very low. For example, if Boss You is thrown into the ancient war period, it doesn’t take more than a week.
In the past, when I saw millet, I would be so excited that I shed tears.
Third, illness, accidents, and spiritual baptism may lower the threshold of satisfaction. For example, if you suffer a life-threatening injury, you will cherish many things more.
Why can't I stop betting on dogs? His satisfaction threshold is too high and he can't satisfy it at all. As long as he wins once, he will no longer care about his salary. The satisfaction threshold is too high and he won't be able to lower it for a while.
How to stop dog gambling? It can only be a test of life and death. Some people really lose their money and calm down. Some people are sold to foreign countries, rescued by the police, and then wash their hands in a golden basin... Of course,
More people will never be able to stop for the rest of their lives.
The same goes for yellow and poison. Once you have been exposed to it, it will be difficult to stop.
Fourth, the satisfaction threshold for only children is relatively higher.
This is easy to understand. Being favored is so powerful. Therefore, don’t think that finding an only child as a partner will definitely be good. Sometimes, it is difficult to take care of you! This point must be paid attention to when looking for a partner.
If the person you are looking for is someone with a very high satisfaction threshold, so high that it is difficult for you to be satisfied, and I advise you to leave, he will not cherish you, and you will not be able to satisfy him at all. You can only do this in the first three months, when your hormones
You can handle it during the period of strong secretion, but you won’t be able to handle it later.
Fifth, the easier it is for the rich second generation to be satisfied, the less promising they may be.
The second generation of rich people is the most troublesome, especially the generation whose fathers got rich too quickly and too easily. This kind of child has been lacking everything since childhood, which is very troublesome. If the parents know how to teach their children, they are willing to let their children endure hardships.
, that would be much better.
We can find that as long as the rich generation is willing to let their children endure hardships, their children will often be fine. If those children ask for money, they will give it to them. There is a high probability that the children will accomplish nothing. If they can avoid getting into trouble, they are very lucky.
This point applies to the aspect of educating children. There is a slang saying: "To spoil a child is to kill the child", which is not wrong at all. Many educationists now hope to "delay gratification" for children's requirements, and some hawks
Educational methods allow children to endure more hardships from an early age.
Many aristocratic schools in the West are really difficult. Most of the aristocratic schools in China are really... rich second-generation alliances. Teachers do not dare to criticize children. This kind of education method is not so desirable.<
To be continued...