Hearing this question, the students around him, especially those who were interested in "exercising" in school, couldn't help but feel secretly envious.
On the first day of school, I asked the dean to remember it!
Lan Tenghong, Wang Jiao and others felt increasingly weird and wanted to shout: He is not from our school!
Wei Qingfan didn't expect that his casual answer would have such an effect. There was absolutely no reason not to answer at this time, so he had to say: "Wei Qingfan, reed's reed."
"very good."
Dean Weng still smiled and had a gentle expression, "Your answer is very good. Sit down."
"Thank you, Dean."
Wei Qingfan thanked him politely and sat down.
Dean Weng went to ask other students. After Wei Qingfan sat down, he saw his senior looking at him with a strange expression. He couldn't help but feel a little embarrassed. He took her hand again and handed her a "Have such an outstanding and handsome boyfriend."
Are you proud?" look in his eyes.
Li Wanyi only thought it was funny. It was not convenient to speak at this time, so she had to bite her lip to hold back.
Weng Yijun asked three or four more students, and the answers they all got were similar, such as "realize your dream", "better self", "work hard without regrets", etc. Some people also said more honestly "want a better life".
"Everyone gave very good answers. Of course, in terms of language expression, the first student's answer was better and superior."
Weng Yijun thought about the ending several times, but always felt that it would not achieve the original effect, so he simply stopped worrying about it.
"This classmate said it well. The most painful thing is not failure, but what I could have done... I sincerely hope that everyone here will not experience this kind of pain personally in the future.
"Of course, since you want to work hard, you must have a direction, so here comes the second topic I want to talk about today: pointing.
"When Wang Yangming was enlightened in Longchang, he once wrote a dogma, which is an instruction to students, called "The Dogma Shows All Living Things in Longchang". It proposed four things, one is to be determined, the other is to study diligently, and the third is to
To correct one's mistakes, the fourth is to rebuke one's good deeds, and to be determined to be number one, and to be in front of those who study diligently.
"Without determination, nothing can be accomplished in the world." This is the original text, and the meaning is very straightforward. You can understand it as saying that you must first have a goal when doing things, or you can also understand that you must have lofty ambitions as a person.
"This ambition can have many kinds, but it must be clear and clear. Only when it is clear will you have a direction. For example, you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, study for a Ph.D., get a scholarship, or it can be I want to become a world-renowned university scholar, or I want to become a world-renowned university scholar.
Twenty or thirty years from now, I will also become the dean and president of Xiamen University, and I will speak to the freshmen like I do now... all of this will be fine."
Weng Yijun stood on the podium with a casual tone. Then he caught a glimpse of Wei Qingfan saying something to the beautiful girlfriend, so he added casually: "Of course, you can also find a beautiful girl like this classmate Wei."
friend."
There was another burst of laughter in the big classroom.
Wei Qingfan was a little speechless. He didn't understand why the dean didn't seem to appreciate him, but seemed to resent him... Wasn't my answer very good?
Why are you still making fun of me?
Li Wanyi's hand was still held by him. When she saw the dean teasing the two of them again, she secretly glanced at Wei Qingfan. Although she was shy, she felt it was funny and sweet at the same time.
"As the saying goes, everyone has their own ambitions, I won't ask about this matter. I hope everyone can think about it clearly, work hard towards their own ambitions and goals, and achieve them."
After another burst of applause, Weng Yijun continued: "The third topic, I have just mentioned it, I want to talk to you about love.
"Of course, I am not good at falling in love, and free love was not so popular at that time. After I graduated from college, I was introduced to blind dates by others, so I am not that good at falling in love. I am not good at it.
Talk for yourself...at least I'm definitely not as good as this classmate, whose girlfriend is so beautiful and sweet in love, right?"
Following Dean Weng's teasing, there was another burst of laughter in the large classroom.
Li Wanyi's face turned red, and Wei Qingfan was also speechless. She suspected that the dean was jealous of having such a beautiful girlfriend, and even further suspected that she might be a sanctimonious person... Wasn't there news on the Internet in later generations?
There is a lot of filth and evil in prestigious schools.
He was going to turn around and remind his senior sister, and he was secretly furious. If any old pervert dared to make plans blindly, he would be killed!
"What I want to tell you is that our school's attitude towards love does not encourage or prohibit college love. The following are my personal views and do not represent the school or college. Don't go back to fall in love or quarrel.
He said the school asked you to fall in love."
The audience laughed again, and Weng Yijun continued: "I hope our students can do two things when it comes to love: if they like it, go for it; if they don't like it, don't delay.
"How should I put it? If you like someone, you have to learn to fight for it. This is easy to understand, right? Of course, you don't have to fight for it under all circumstances. For example, if someone has a boyfriend, a girlfriend, or even married,
This is not recommended to strive for..."
There was another burst of laughter from the audience, and Dean Weng also laughed, and took Wei Qingfan as an example: "Just like this classmate, his girlfriend is so beautiful that boys like her, right? This is normal, but she has a boyfriend.
No matter how much you like it, I don’t advocate fighting for it...this needs to be explained clearly."
Wei Qingfan could confirm that this old man didn't appreciate him at all, but he just didn't like him.
"Secondly, if you don't like it, don't delay. How do you say this... We have many classmates. Of course, I am not talking about everyone here, but I am giving an example. Some classmates are greedy and want to see others fall in love.
Talk, if you don’t like someone, you can just find someone to talk to.”
The audience burst into laughter again, but some people couldn't help laughing.
Dean Weng continued: "Dating is not like eating. At least at the university level, you can do it, but it is not necessary. It doesn't mean that you have to do it after seeing others do it. It will delay yourself and others... It's time for dinner.
Yes, you have to eat, even if you have no appetite. Falling in love is different. It does not mean that you have to fall in love in college.
"As for the saying that 'a college career is incomplete without falling in love, skipping classes, and failing exams,' I've seen it too. It's nonsense. It's just the losers who stick together to keep each other warm, you know?
"A group of people who delay their studies because of falling in love, who insist on falling in love even if they don't like it, who don't study well and fail their exams, who make such remarks as if they are handsome... This all has a price. As for the price,
I have already explained my first topic clearly, so I won’t go into details here.
"I don't object to everyone falling in love, but you should also fall in love seriously."
After Dean Weng finished speaking, he probably felt that the atmosphere in the audience was a bit too serious, so he looked at Wei Qingfan again: "This classmate...Wei Qingfan, right? Come on, come on, stand up again, let me see
Let’s see if you have anything surprising to say.”
Seeing that he asked Wei Qingfan to ask questions again, many students in the audience couldn't help laughing, and the somewhat depressing and serious atmosphere just now became relaxed again.
Wei Qingfan had no choice but to stand up again. Dean Weng said with a smile: "Don't be nervous, just chat casually. After all, I see so many students in the audience... there may be some who have been in love, but you are the only one I know, right?"
Isn’t that right? I’m too embarrassed to ask this girl..."
Wei Qingfan smiled and said, "I understand, just ask."
Dean Weng came down again with the microphone and asked: "In your heart, what does the most perfect love look like?"
While saying this, he came to Wei Qingfan's side casually and leisurely, glanced at Li Wanyi who was sitting next to Wei Qingfan, and felt secretly proud in his heart.
For a boy of this age and with his girlfriend nearby, it is quite predictable how he would answer this question.
I don’t believe you can give me this answer that I have summarized for half my life!
Dean Weng felt confident and his expression became more and more leisurely.
Li Wanyi was also very curious about Wei Qingfan's answer and couldn't help but look up at him.
Wei Qingfan thought for a moment, then smiled and said, "I think the most perfect love... should allow for imperfections."
The smile and leisurely expression on Weng Yijun's face froze at the same time.
He regretted asking this guy to ask questions again... Damn it, he was robbed of his line again!
Li Wanyi was stunned for a moment, then she understood the meaning of this sentence and bit her lip gently. The first thought that came to her mind made her feel confused.
Because the first thing she thought of was Li Miaoyu!
This made her a little funny, and she quietly blamed herself for being suspicious and distrustful.
Then I thought, this is also a kind of "imperfection"... I am just an ordinary girl. It is normal and allowed to be so suspicious and petty...
The whole large classroom was quiet. Dean Weng was also silent for a few seconds, and then he laughed, looked at Wei Qingfan again and said: "I found that you... your classmate is a little different, very different.
Can talk."
Wei Qingfan showed him a simple smile.
Dean Weng asked again: "Tell me, what is imperfect about your relationship with the female classmate next to you? They both entered the ideal school together. Xiamen University is the most suitable university for falling in love.
What’s not perfect?”
"I."
Wei Qingfan smiled and said, "I'm not perfect."
"Oh, you really can talk!"
Weng Yijun saw that none of this troubled the boy and couldn't help but laugh, "No wonder such a beautiful female classmate is chased by you and can talk... The male students here should follow suit."
Wei Qingfan's two answers can be regarded as "classics" in a sense. Not only the students, but also many teachers sitting in the first row felt amazed.
"That's very good. I hope you can keep it up."
Weng Yijun saw that he was handling things perfectly, so he no longer made things difficult for him. In fact, he really wanted to pat this guy on the shoulder, but unfortunately he was seated closer to the inside and couldn't take a photo, so he smiled and said: "Work hard. If you go to graduate school in the future,
You can apply to my graduate school. I rarely take on graduate students, but I am quite willing to take you... Sit down and work hard. Your speech is very good, but learning is not just about talking."
Rather than speaking, what he actually admired more was how calm and collected this kid was from beginning to end, which was much better than many old students.
Of course, this is just empty talk. In the end, results will speak for themselves.
"Thank you, Dean, I will study hard."
Wei Qingfan had no other choice but to answer like this, and then sat down.
Weng Yijun asked a few more questions, and then ended his speech with the theme of "imperfection".
The dean's speech to the freshmen was very exciting. After the speech, all the freshmen in the School of Management and the teachers present remembered this boy named Wei Qingfan.