My mother and sister brought the food from the kitchen, and my sister Mingyue was not polite at all.
"Don't be dissatisfied, Haiyang. Who is looking for you right now who doesn't want good looks, a family, a decent job, and no burdens?
That’s you guys. If you change it to a woman, like Sister Li in our unit, she is such a capable person, just because she is over 30 years old. As a result, now people are introducing people to her who are divorced and widowed. , maybe in a few years I will be missing arms and legs..."
Brother-in-law Dashan echoed, "The market has changed and the shelf life has passed half..."
The eldest sister glared and said, "Stay there, you will be everywhere!"
This is the real society. In the gender market, you can know your own weight by the weight of the person you are dating on the scale of the other person.
The family sat down to eat, and her mother told her, "After Haiyang finished eating, she was tidying up. In the afternoon, an old sister came over and came to the door. Her girl is famous for her water spirit. She has a good personality and knows each other well; I She works in a bank, and your sister has asked someone to inquire about her. She has a good reputation in the company..."
Bei Haiyang usually would not refuse in this situation, so why should he refuse? If the old couple is happy and everyone is happy, why should they throw a happy thing away from Hutchison? As for the future, there are too many unpredictable things. I’m not asking you to sell yourself now!
Many people cannot accept blind dates because blind dates are carried out under one condition. For example, if you have a good personality, I have an apartment; for example, if you graduate from a prestigious school and I work in a foreign company... Modern people do not accept this because it is more like a marriage. This kind of transaction equates love with vulgar things.
Bei Haiyang doesn't think so. There are good deals and bad deals. The reason why he is still single is that he has never encountered a good deal that satisfies him.
In modern society, love and marriage can actually be separated; in theory, of course, it is the most perfect to fall in love, get married and stay together for a lifetime, but in real life there are not many such situations, so the simplest way is Separate love and marriage.
When you are young, enjoy love to the fullest without considering whether the conditions are equal. If it is intense and easy, it may not last long; when you are older, you can use blind dates and negotiate terms to determine marriage. The relationship will be dull but because of the equality. The conditions support it, so there is a foundation to go on.
Bei Haiyang has been in love many times, but like most people, he has not yet found the person who can enter the middle and later stages of his life; and he feels that he has no plans to completely settle down yet?
But I dare not say this to my parents.
He didn't say anything, but someone didn't intend to spare him. The eldest sister Mingyue stared at him,
"Hayang, don't pretend to be a good baby with everyone here. I don't know you. On the surface, you can do whatever you want and follow the arrangements, but in fact, you are holding back bad thoughts and have made up your mind! Tell me the truth, are you planning on Don’t you want to go on a blind date at all? Let’s make it clear, our mother doesn’t have to be so shameless and scan around to find out how other girls are doing!”
Bei Haiyang felt embarrassed. He had been afraid of his sister since he was a child, and it didn't change much as he grew up. Seeing that the dinner table was getting dull, he kicked his brother-in-law under the table.
Dashan coughed dryly, and Mingyue became impatient, "Just talk, what are you coughing about? Do you think this is your company preparing to make a report?"
Dashan bit the bullet and said, "The main reason is that the part of speech of the word "blind date" has been changed. In ancient times, blind dates had nothing to do with the person. They were all a matter of parents and matchmakers. Nowadays, blind dates are done by the person themselves, so it is very... well
, not easy to accept..."
His mother glanced at him and said, "Da Shan, what do you mean, I can make decisions for him in the future?"
Dashan hesitated, "I can't say that...actually, I think it's not bad in ancient times. When you really lift the hijab, you will either be at the peak of your life, or you will be discouraged. Anyway, it is exciting enough, too
It’s so romantic…”
This brother-in-law is quite interesting. Although he didn't really want to block the gun for Bei Haiyang, he successfully attracted the firepower of the two female generals!
After finishing the meal, Bei Haiyang tidied up a little, mainly out of respect for others. This was a matter of politeness. Dad took this very seriously. He didn't need to ask for results, but he must treat others with courtesy.
At three o'clock in the afternoon, my mother's old sisters came to visit on time. This time was chosen very carefully, so that it would not delay the host's lunch break, nor delay the blind date until dinner in the evening. They were all considered by experienced veterans.
Very comprehensive.
The girl is very beautiful and delicate. In this sense, my mother is not boasting; but what is interesting is that, like Bei Haiyang, this girl also brings a cat!
My mother is becoming more and more satisfied. They both have cats. Isn’t this fate?
According to the procedure, the two were arranged to chat in the same room, which is also the norm for blind dates. Bei Haiyang was no stranger to this.
Don't rush to chat, but observe the girl closely. Based on the girl's performance, you can roughly analyze her personality characteristics.
How to quickly enter the topic in front of a stranger can reveal a lot from this aspect.
The girl was a little shy, but it was obvious that she was trying to overcome it, "Auntie said you are a pilot?"
Bei Haiyang nodded, "That's right, I'm a deputy and haven't gone solo yet."
The girl's eyes were full of reverence, "It will happen sooner or later! Such a career is so romantic, walking through the blue sky and white clouds every day, traveling around the world..."
Bei Haiyang is very down-to-earth, "Sometimes there are not always white clouds, there are also storms! Romantic? Maybe, it should be a kind of frightening romance; the blue sky, well, is just a bit high..."
The girl covered her mouth and laughed, "Does everyone who is blessed not know how blessed they are? In a profession like piloting, many people can't get into it even if they break their heads!"
This girl is very proactive, and Bei Haiyang knows that this is definitely not because she is particularly attractive. In his opinion, at this girl's age, she shouldn't be so eager to get married, right?
Blind dates are really interesting. The key point is to talk about the most substantive conditions with the most indifferent attitude as much as possible. Bei Haiyang never talks about this. It's not that he is noble, but that he knows these things like mom and sister.
Just ask for it for him, so he doesn't need to do it again himself.
The girl is active, while he is passive. This is in line with his usual personality, both in terms of character and professional needs. There are very few pilots who talk too much.
Just when the two of them were still beating around the bush and had yet to get to the point, Jiaojiao ran in shouting.