Chapter 66 Just dig a hole(1/2)
"Jianbin, since you have told your eldest brother all this, let me tell you the truth. At first, eldest brother and He Wenhui slept separately. On the big day, He Wenhui returned to her own home.
Others don’t know, but Wen Hui’s mother still knows.”
Liu Hongchang did not let Li Jianbin grieve alone. He also shared his misfortune and comforted Li Jianbin.
"Brother, do you also live in separate rooms?" After hearing the same experience, Li Jianbin's mood improved obviously.
Although I am miserable, if there are people who are worse off than me, I will certainly feel much better.
"Yes, separate rooms."
Except for the fact that He Wenhui returned to He's house in the first few days, He Wenhui at least slept in the same bed with Liu Hongchang later.
Liu Hongchang will not explain in detail, otherwise Li Jianbin will be even more sad.
"No...brother, if you and Wen Hui have been living in separate rooms, how can you have a child?"
When he was about to be fooled, Li Jianbin came to his senses.
In this era, all kinds of customs are much more open, and people understand a little bit about things between men and women.
Unlike in previous eras, many couples, without any education or pre-marital education, thought they could have babies just by holding hands and lying on the same bed.
"It's not like we've been together for a long time, and He Wenhui is mentally prepared to have a child. So, you have to give He Wenhui some time."
The real situation is still difficult to tell, so Liu Hongchang chose to fool Li Jianbin and was not prepared to give any advice to Li Jianbin.
He clearly said that if no measures were taken, He Wenhui did not like contact with men and was somewhat afraid of men.
If we had waited for He Wenhui to be mentally prepared, there might have been no results for ten or eight years.
Liu Hongchang is quite satisfied with how Li Jianbin and He Wenhui are doing now.
It makes no sense that Liu Hongchang married He Wenhui just to work as a long-term worker for the He family.
If Li Jianbin marries He Wenyuan, he can really be He Wenhui's man.
Li Jianbin and Liu Hongchang had the same experience, but Liu Hongchang was more mentally balanced.
"Hey..." The melancholy Li Jianbin drank another glass of wine.
"You also understand He Wenhui. Their family's life is like a mess now. How can they think about this matter? I also helped their family solve a lot of troubles before Wenhui accepted me.
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Liu Hongchang even said a good word for He Wenhui this time.
After staying out of the matter, it is indeed easier to stand and talk without back pain. When you marry a wife, you can see whether you can touch such things.
It's very pleasant to do it on yourself, but it's quite fun to do it on others.
"Help their family solve their troubles." Li Jianbin felt painful thinking about this: "Brother, I understand why you divorced Wen Hui?"
"Long live understanding." Liu Hongchang and Li Jianbin bumped into each other:
"Their children are a bit difficult to deal with. It doesn't matter if they cause trouble outside, but they still have to fight in the house when they get home. But you are different from me. I was just a cook at the beginning, with no ability, and I can't bear this. But you are a cadre, and your status
You are very knowledgeable, I believe you can handle these things well."
Seeing Li Jianbin being negative, Liu Hongchang still chose to encourage Li Jianbin.
No matter what, the He family's responsibility still needs to be carried by Li Jianbin.
Otherwise, it would be difficult for Liu Hongchang to turn a blind eye to the He family because of his daughter.
The other members of the He family are easy to say, and no matter how miserable they are, they are still okay.
He Wenhui is always the biological mother of her daughter. For the sake of her child, she also has to take care of her face.
He Wenhui's life was so miserable that her daughter would always feel uncomfortable when she saw him.
"Brother, believe me, I don't believe in myself now. Ever since I got married, everything has been going wrong. I lost my job, I can't get anything done when I ask for help, and I have all kinds of troubles at home. The old man went to the hospital.
Children call their parents..."
Although Li Jianbin said it a bit concisely.
But Liu Hongchang still understood what was going on. It was something Liu Hongchang had experienced.
Asking someone to give He Wenyuan a job is of course a difficult task.
For Li Jianbin, asking for help is a difficult task.
It would be embarrassing to succeed, let alone not succeed.
As Yu Qiuhua gets older, it is normal for her to have various minor problems. Regardless of whether she has any problems, Yu Qiuhua's eyes also need to go to the hospital frequently.
The one who needs to call the parents is He Wenda. Although this child is not causing trouble.
But he has a weak personality and is easily bullied.
He is just a little doormat who gets bullied at every turn.
It's okay that no one saw it, but the teacher couldn't be indifferent even if his face was swollen and he was suffering from the pain.
At school, not only do naughty children often call their parents, parents of children who are often bullied also need to go to school.
"It's normal to have a lot of troubles after getting married, and no one can avoid it. In the past, when you lived alone, of course you wouldn't have so many chores. Now that two people are married and have to deal with the affairs of two people and two families, of course you can
You will feel uncomfortable. Just wait, it will take a long time..."
Liu Hongchang was quibbling.
After getting married, it's certainly not as easy as when you were single.
But it is rare for someone to cause such trouble to the He family.
Generally speaking, if a well-off family recruits a son-in-law, there will be no trouble other than being looked down upon.
But the He family's family background is so poor that it requires a man's full dedication, which is close to being a clique.
The purpose of finding a man is to solve problems, and of course he will be troublesome.
"As time goes by, if we solve the problem, there will be no more trouble, right?" Li Jianbin answered hopefully.
"No, I mean that after a long time, Jianbin, you will get used to it."
Liu Hongchang attacked Li Jianbin in the hope that Li Jianbin could accept such a life and his mentality would naturally become calmer and calmer.
Otherwise, if something happens to the He family, Li Jianbin will have a mental breakdown, and it will be difficult to continue to take the blame.
"Brother, how long has this been, and you're still kidding me?" Li Jianbin didn't want to believe it, smiled awkwardly, and said in a self-deceiving tone.
"Jianbin, I'm really not kidding you. This is really the case. If you don't believe me, ask He Wenhui if she has adapted to her younger siblings causing all kinds of trouble."
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Li Jianbin took another sip of wine, obviously trying to drown his sorrows.
"Jianbin, don't sigh so much. No one has a smooth life. Life is so long, and who doesn't encounter some bumps in the road? As a grown man, there is nothing you can't get through. Think about it, no matter how difficult it is for you now, why is Wenhui like you?
Is it difficult for a person to drag a whole family? She can survive it. You can't be worse than a woman."
Liu Hongchang gave Li Jianbin a try and found that the reverse treatment was not very good, so he gave up the percussive treatment.
I replaced it with encouragement and tried a little provocation.
Although Li Jianbin has grown a lot in his work, he has not made much progress in his mentality.
Li Jianbin came from a good background and had good academic performance. Although he repeated his studies for a year, he was still admitted to university. For more than 20 years, Li Jianbin's life was very smooth.
I haven’t gone through many twists and turns, but I’m still not very good at bearing it mentally.
In this regard, Li Jianbin's mentality is obviously far less civilized and intelligent.
He Wenhui endured all kinds of things, including her mother going blind, her brother committing murder, and her sister going to jail.
I won’t be like Li Jianbin. It’s just that my work has been adjusted a bit and my future is a little worse, so I almost broke down.
"Brother, I just want to get drunk now."
Li Jianbin, who was so drunk that he couldn't listen to anything anymore.
Although the cup is not big, it can still hold one tael. Although Li Jianbin is also a cadre who has been tested by alcohol.
But after drinking several cups one after another, I got drunk very quickly.
"Okay, big brother will accompany you."
Li Jianbin was already half drunk, and Liu Hongchang's inner counseling could only be temporarily stopped.
It's not a big problem to let Li Jianbin get drunk.
Being drunk won't help solve the problem.
But it can allow people to temporarily escape some reality, and it can also relieve a little bit of stress.
If you want to treat Li Jianbin mentally, there are plenty of opportunities.
It's hard to tell others about the troubles caused by the He family.
Li Jianbin could only talk to Liu Hongchang.
"He Wenhui, He Wenhui!"
To be continued...