Therefore, there are many things that cannot be said without practice. Yan Jiecheng complained about Yi Zhonghai every day for not raising a child by himself, and taking care of his own child was quite tiring both physically and mentally.
Taking care of a child also depends on the person, and some can be relaxed. When Jia Zhang takes care of Sophora japonica, she just feeds her some food and changes her diaper. At other times, the child can cry if he wants to, and stop crying when he is tired. When the child takes care of him, he will
Stop making trouble.
But you can't take care of your own son like this. Lao Yan's family has this condition and there are so many people, so they can't bear to wrong the child. If the child is not wronged, the adults will suffer.
Taking care of one's own children is a test, let alone asking someone to take care of a child that is not one's own. Since they are not one's own, there is no way to raise one's own child while having someone else do it for free. Shrewd is Yi Zhonghai.
If the brain is not smart and flexible, even a mechanic cannot reach level 8.
Yan Jiecheng first visited the black market. How could he have such a leisurely time during this period? Even when he came to the black market, he came and went in a hurry. He bought meat stamps, food stamps, industrial stamps, replenished the tobacco and alcohol stamps, and bought some game.
, fruits and vegetables that I don’t have.
I took the things back to the courtyard. Recently, the third uncle has contributed a lot of crucian carp. Although they cannot be sold for money, there is still some progress. The third aunt has also been busy with the work. When there is no need to pay, Lao Yan’s family also
Don’t be stingy about your efforts. Your family should also celebrate when your child is one month old.
Several dishes were prepared in the evening, including chicken, meat, vegetables and eggs, which were pretty good. Yan Jiecheng hadn't drank much for a long time, so he asked the rest of Lao Yan's family to eat together and also prepared a portion in his room.
Yan Jiecheng came to the backyard and called Xu Damao, and the two of them came to his house to drink. Damao was the only one in the courtyard who brought gifts to look after the children, so it was necessary to entertain him. Qin Jingru, forget it, this silly girl will never be able to live without the influence of Widow Qin, so she should stay away.
good.
After three rounds of wine and five dishes, Xu Damao was almost drunk.
Xu Damao took a sip of wine and said: "Jie Cheng, it's hard for me, brother. Look, you have a son now. I am so much older than you and I still don't have a child. The last time Qin Jingru finally got pregnant, it was fake. For
You lied to me about divorce, just divorce if you say so. Anyway, Lou Xiao'e is an old hen who occupies a nest but can't lay eggs. You say you can marry Qin Jingru, but we have both been well for a long time, and there is still no movement at all.
."
It seems that Xu Damao, who is married to his younger wife, is not as happy as he shows outside every day. What is the purpose of marrying Qin Jingru? She is from the countryside, or is she uneducated? She just wants Qin Jingru to give birth to a fat boy.
"Having a child is not a matter of urgency, it still depends on fate!" Yan Jiecheng said.
"You tell me why I'm so unlucky, marrying a woman who can't have children, and then marrying a woman who still can't have children, let me marry a woman who can't have children." Xu Damao's eyes turned red as he said this.
"Da Mao, I've mentioned to you several times that giving birth to a child depends on science. Tell the truth. I suggested you go to the hospital for a checkup before. Have you gone?"
"There's really nothing wrong with me. Everything is normal. I've played with more women than Silly Zhu has ever seen. There's nothing wrong with my body at all. It's just that these two women's stomachs are not up to par." Even though Xu Damao was 70% drunk,
, I still care about this issue.
"Then what are you going to do if Qin Jingru is unable to give birth?"
"I have so many home remedies and secret recipes that I will prepare for Qin Jingru to eat starting tomorrow."
"I'm not talking about you. If your home remedies and secret recipes are effective, your children will be troubled now. Even if it's Qin Jingru's problem, I suggest you take her to the hospital. If she can be cured, treat her. If she can't, then treat her.
You can't make plans in advance," Yan Jiecheng advised Xu Damao.
If it were not possible to tie Xu Damao to the hospital, Yan Jiecheng would have wanted to tie Xu Damao to the hospital and have Xu Damao examined. After how many years of marriage without children, it is a matter that everyone in the infertility hospital knows. What is there that cannot be seen?
People don't dare to go to the hospital because they firmly believe that if they don't get diagnosed, they won't have the disease.
"Not to mention the distant ones, the old Wangtou in our front yard, his son and daughter-in-law have never had children, and they have not been treated by the hospital. Others do not look at people strangely. It is not shameful to go to the hospital when they are sick."
Yan Jiecheng took great pains to persuade Xu Damao to go to the hospital. I don't know whether Xu Damao listened or not. It was all for Xu Damao's own good.
It's really not all about seeing Xu Damao's reaction when he finds out that he can't have children.
The reason why Xu Damao was unable to have children is also a problem that has troubled many people for many years.
If Xu Damao is sterile because he was beaten by Silly Zhu, how will Xu Damao take revenge on Silly Zhu?
After handing the drunk Xu Damao to Qin Jingru, he left the Xu family directly. The Xu family without Lou Xiaoe would not be good, and there was nothing to talk about with Qin Jingru. This was a lack of heart. Who dares to take advantage of Qin Jingru?
, that is, the relationship with Widow Qin is unclear.
Yan Jiecheng returned to the house and thought about it. He had done a good thing. Xu Damao had discovered the fact that he was infertile early. Not only did he have hope of cure, but he would also suffer no loss.
It is impossible for Qin Jingru to divorce Xu Damao. She is still a girl who has just entered the city. She cannot go back to the countryside without Xu Damao. Now is the most suitable time. It will really benefit Xu Damao without any harm.
When Qin Jingru's wings hardened, she found out that Xu Damao was going to beat him up. Yan Jie Chengdu felt that he was so kind. People like Xu Damao were able to help, and they were worthy of Xu Damao's ordinary local specialties.
After all the good things were said to Xu Damao, Yan Jiecheng no longer cared about Xu Damao's affairs. Even if he liked going to the theater, there was nothing he could do if Xu Damao failed to live up to his expectations.
As his wife and children are away, Yan Jiecheng has more time to work on the new house.
Decoration is not very necessary, it can basically be moved in with a bag. If you need to buy furniture, buy furniture. It is practical for ordinary people. There are not many new tricks, so it is practical and low-key.
After getting ready, it’s time to ventilate and ventilate the house. The newly renovated house, doors, windows, and furniture are all painted with paint. Now people just don’t move in immediately because of the smell. Yan Jiecheng understands better. Besides, you have to bring it with you when you move in.
For the sake of my child's health, I have to wait a month or two before moving here.
Of course, Yan Jiecheng now has a place to live, so he is not in a hurry. Like many people who are short of housing, they move directly after getting the keys without thinking too much.
