The letter sent by Sun Yuhou was also very appropriate. Because it was a matter of family separation, it was obviously inappropriate for Shaoan to write a letter asking Sun Shaoping to come back. It was Sun Yuhou who asked Sun Yuting to write the letter.
Shaoping:
There has been no news since you left home. Your family misses you very much. There are some things at home that require you to come back as soon as possible. Please come back as soon as you receive the letter.
Everything is fine at home, don't worry about it.
Father
After Sun Shaoping read the letter, he was worried that something had happened to his family, and he had not received any work yet.
I was ready to return to the village as soon as possible, but it was already dark and it was obviously unrealistic now. After Jin Bo's persuasion, I calmed down.
Stay one night here in Jinbo and go back early tomorrow morning.
It turns out that Sun Shaoping doesn't care about the Sun family.
The responsibility of supporting the Sun family has always been shouldered by Sun Shaoan.
Growing up without any pressure to survive, Sun Shaoping had no sense of family responsibility for the Sun family. Deep down, he believed that only his own happiness was the most important.
Obviously, it is impossible to be like Sun Shaoan and put the Sun family collective first and then think of yourself.
The consequence is that when one's own selfishness is satisfied, one naturally does not care about the Sun family as a collective.
On the surface, it seems that Sun Shaoping abandoned the old and young of the Sun family and went to the colorful world outside.
Although Sun Shaoping treated Jin Bo in a normal way, Jin Bo was definitely a good friend to Sun Shaoping.
Jin Bo first made a large basin of noodles for Sun Shaoping, put five or six eggs in it, and entertained Sun Shaoping.
Then he and Sun Shaoping discussed their respective current situations.
Jin Bo's current situation is pretty good and he has learned to drive with Jin Junhai.
I just learned to drive, but I still can't find a formal job in a state unit or factory. Now I can only work as a temporary worker at the post office.
It's normal to not be able to find one, not to mention how many people are competing for the job of driver, the most popular and sought-after job in the 1980s.
A large group of urban youths who have returned to the city cannot find jobs, and there are no job placements at all. How can Jin Bo, who was born in rural areas, be recruited?
Sun Shaoan also told Jin Bo everything about his current situation, including his two months in Huangyuan, why he came to Huangyuan, what kind of work he was doing, and his inner thoughts.
Sun Shaoping also knew that he had gone too far, and said to his friend Jin Bo: "The elders in the family are the elders, and the younger ones are the younger ones. I am so old, and I should stay by the old man's side to fulfill my filial piety. Now, I leave everything to my dad and
My brother."
Jin Bo naturally wanted to comfort a group of friends: "People like us actually value friendship the most. We will never shirk our responsibilities to our family and parents at any time. But we also have our own ideals in life. Shaoping,
You can’t become Brother Shao An at all.”
The hidden meaning of Jin Bo's words is of course to support Sun Shaoping in choosing his own life ideals when faced with dilemmas.
After all, there is still a Sun Shaoan in the Sun family.
Jin Bo's words, which he himself did not believe, might have comforted Sun Shao'an and made Sun Shaoping's heavy mood much better.
If Jin Bo was not a good friend of Sun Shaoping, Jin Bo could also express his support for Sun Shaoping without conscience at this time.
He didn't hesitate to use himself as an example, but the actual situation of the two families was so different that Sun Shaoan could deceive himself into accepting it.
There are only Jin Bo's mother and a younger sister in high school in Jin Bo's family. There is only Jin Bo's mother in the village, a woman in her prime who is less than fifty years old and has not worked in the fields since she was young.
Even if the household quota is now implemented and he needs to farm his own land, Jin Junhai has gained countless favors in the village because of his status as a driver and his ordinary and generous person. There is no shortage of people to help Jin Bo's family farm.
Jin Bo did not come to Huangyuan blindly, because of the implementation of the succession system, as long as Jin Bo was willing, without any surprise, Jin Bo could take over Jin Junhai's position and become a post office driver that most city people would envy.
As long as Jin Bo takes over Jin Junhai's job in a down-to-earth manner, he will have fulfilled his responsibilities in the family.
Sun Shaoping's family has a grandmother who is over 80 years old and has a lot of ailments, and her parents, who are nearly 60 years old, have reached the age where they need care.
In an era when the average life expectancy is more than sixty years old, and his grandma and parents are at the same age, Sun Shaoping still doesn't want to fulfill his responsibilities and obligations to the elderly. How long does he want to wait?
He fled the countryside recklessly and came to Huangyuan alone. How could he compare with the situation of Jin Bo's family?
Two good friends who had lived together for more than ten years met rarely and unknowingly spent the whole night talking.
After Sun Shaoping got up the next day, he bought some soft pastries for his grandma, Huzi bought candies, and everyone else in the Sun family also got gifts.
Unfortunately, Jin Junhai's mail train was not available, so Sun Shaoping got on the bus from Huangyuan to Mijia Town and rushed back to Shuangshui Village.
When he found out that Sun Yuhou called him back because of the family separation, Sun Shaoping finally calmed down.
For Sun Shaoping, the separation of the family is really not a big deal. Regardless of whether the family is divided or not, Sun Shaoping is not at home, so it is still Sun Shaoan who takes care of the elderly.
As for the income issues that Xiulian and Sun Yuhou both cared about, Sun Shaoping didn't care even less about organizing Sun Shaoping's wedding and hoops for cave dwellings.
The only woman in Sun Shaoping's heart right now is Tian Xiaoxia, even though the two have lost contact for nearly a year.
Sun Shaoping has not considered other women yet.
As for the family situation of Tian Xiaoxia's family, the gap between Sun Shaoping's family and Tian's family is as huge as whether they have money for a wedding or a new cave dwelling. Sun Shaoping certainly doesn't care that it won't change at all because of these.
After understanding the situation, Sun Shaoping could generously persuade Sun Shaoan not to be sad about the separation.
After all, Sun Shaoping was more experienced in this matter. It was not difficult to accept that he ran away directly to Huangyuan and abandoned the elderly at home.
Sun Shaoan just separated from the old man, but still lived in the same village. He could still see and take care of the old man every day, so there was nothing to feel sad about.
Sun Shaoping could run away and live a comfortable life without any news from his family for more than two months.
Of course it is impossible for Sun Shaoan to accept this. This is the difference between having a sense of family responsibility and not.
As for the issue of support for the elderly raised by Sun Shaoan, Sun Shaoping naturally didn't care.
Sun Yuhou is now able to take good care of his family and support his family.
Even if Sun Yuhou really has no ability to make money, Sun Shaoping still has a mysterious confidence in himself and believes that money has never been a problem for him.
Without this kind of self-confidence, I would not go to Huangyuan alone.
Although the conversation between Sun Shaoping and Sun Shaoan did not make Sun Shaoan feel relieved about the family separation.
However, Sun Shaoping's nonchalant attitude toward the family separation also aroused Sun Shaoan's temper.
I no longer feel so uncomfortable about the separation of the family, and I want to see if Sun Shaoping is capable of shouldering the responsibilities of the Sun family.
