When it comes to reputation issues, there is naturally a period of silence.
Wang Manyin may know more about other issues, but the issue of reputation and its impact on a girl.
Orchid, who often hangs out in women's groups, knows more and feels deeper.
Orchid can ignore Sun Yuting's reputation problem. Of course, these bad things are easy to ignore because his family members selectively don't want to think about them.
It is easy to forget oneself, but others will not forget it, and families who are engaged in weddings and funerals will not ignore this issue.
"Oh, Wei Hong, this child, is suffering a little."
Lanhua sighed and said, not sure if she was thinking of herself.
The oldest child in the family is suffering a little more, and Lanhua feels it deeply.
The eldest brother Lanhua is illiterate, the second child Shaoan graduated from elementary school, the third child Shaoping graduated from high school, and the fourth child Lanxiang has the opportunity to go to college.
Of course, there are reasons why people’s lives are getting better and better over time.
But it also shows that in this era, ordinary families, the older the children in the family, the more sacrifices they make to the family.
"When you have time, go back to Shuangshui Village and inform Wei Hong to come to us and learn tailoring to earn money. Since your second father's family doesn't have enough food to eat, don't let Wei Hong go back at noon and stay at our house.
Just eat."
Wang Manyin is not a holy mother, and the poverty of Sun Yuting's family is self-inflicted, if it weren't for Lanhua's love for her three cousins.
Even if Wang Manyin goes to help strangers, he will not help the Sun Yuting family who look down on him.
"Okay, I'll tell them next time I go back to Shuangshui Village."
"And tell Shaoan, you don't need him to buy a sewing machine for your second mother. Even if Shaoan buys it for them, our family will not let your second mother take over the work."
It is not easy for Sun Shaoan to earn money "burstingly" every day. He cannot let Sun Yuting's family waste it in vain, Wang Manyin still added.
At the weekend, Lanhua took the children back to Shuangshui Village.
Wang Manyin used the excuse that he had many things at home, but actually he didn't want to see Sun Yuting and his wife, so he didn't go back.
He Fengying didn't "borrow" money, nor did she get a sewing machine, so of course she wasn't satisfied.
However, Lanhua was willing to take Wei Hong with her so that her eldest daughter could make money, which reluctantly allowed He Fengying to accept it.
After that, Sun Weihong came here in the morning and went back in the evening, learning tailoring with Lanhua and other women every day.
A sixteen-year-old girl, wearing patchwork clothes, it can be said that this kind of clothes can no longer be seen in Guan Village, because there are no such poor families.
The little girl is not only hard-working and responsible, but also smart. Not long after she arrived, she learned well.
It's a pity that such a smart child has two "educated" parents.
Sun Yuting and his wife thought they were scholars in vain, allowing such a smart child to go home to help after he finished primary school.
In other families, in terms of cultural level, each generation is getting better and better than the previous generation.
The only rural family Wang Manyin has seen is Sun Yuting's family, and the children's education level is not as good as their parents.
Sun Weihong is also much more grateful than Sun Yuting and his wife. Not only does she learn tailoring seriously, but she also learns it quickly.
Because Wang Manyin left Sun Weihong at home for lunch, the little girl helped Lanhua clean the house, feed the animals, wash clothes, and cook in her free time without stopping her.
It fully illustrates that the growth of a child is related to the education of the parents, but it also has a lot to do with the nature of the child.
Sun Yuhou’s family can raise Sun Shaoping.
Sun Yuting can also raise Sun Weihong.
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Sun Shaoping, when the family was separated, although he promised Sun Shaoan that he could support the family.
But because I only worked part-time for two months, I didn’t have much savings.
I bought a set of clothes for myself, and brought gifts for everyone in my family when I returned home. Finally, I went to the county town and left twenty yuan for Lan Xiang, so there was not much money left.
After returning to Huangyuan, he began to live as a job seeker again.
Coming back under the Huangyuan Bridge, Sun Shaoping, who was waiting to get a job, had escaped from the first embarrassment.
Thanks to the most difficult thing the first time, he was introduced by his cheap cousin Ma Shun to get a job. After two months of training, Sun Shaoping is finally no longer the thin-skinned and tender image he had before, but looks like an authentic job hunter.
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Coupled with Sun Yuhou, Sun Shaoping was born and raised as a tall man, and it was much easier for Sun Shaoping to come to Huangyuan Bridge to get a job again.
When a contractor comes to look for young workers, of course he likes to select those who are young and capable and can do the job just by looking at them.
Sun Shaoping is just satisfied, although Sun Shaoping is still just a good guy.
However, Sun Shaoping can also be said to be a ruthless person, who can leave three elderly people in his family who are 200 years old together.
A little hardship, a little pain in the flesh, is nothing to Sun Shaoping.
Therefore, Sun Shaoping's job hunting life during this period was quite smooth.
Although they are all farmers on the outskirts of the city and have their own cave dwellings, they cannot be busy at a construction site for long.
After working for a while, you have to go back to the Huangyuan Bridge and wait for the next job.
However, Sun Shaoping relied on his excellent physical condition and stood at least half a head taller than most people. He was rewarded every time he got a job, and he never failed to get a job.
Recently, Sun Shaoping has moved to another place to work.
This time he was working as a laborer on a construction site in the city - the company was building dozens of "bargain cave dwellings", so he would not be "unemployed" within a few months.
Sun Shaoping's job has always been to carry stones, but this time there is a difference.
This construction site is not a cave dwelling for ordinary villagers.
This is a privately contracted state-owned unit construction. The project is large and there are many people. In order to make a lot of money, the contractor wants to use the craftsmen as cattle and horses.
Start working when it's dark, and stop working when it's too dark to see.
Because of the long construction period, all large and small workers were selected for this project through fierce competition.
No one dared to be lazy. Anyone who did not agree with the foreman would be dismissed immediately.
Although Sun Shaoping could successfully get a job every time under the Huangyuan Bridge.
However, Sun Shaoping did not dare to be lazy when the competition pressure among job seekers was so high.
Although he was a little tired, Sun Shaoping still persisted at this construction site.
He worked until late autumn, when the weather turned cold, so Sun Shaoping asked his foreman to take an afternoon off and planned to buy a fleece jacket to wear.
After finally going out to ask for leave, Sun Shaoping finished buying clothes and was ready to find a good gay friend.
But halfway through, I happened to meet Party Secretary Cao, whom I had met for the first time when I was looking for a job.
When Party Secretary Cao met Sun Shaoping, he wanted to talk to Sun Shaoping.
Party Secretary Cao was not polite and asked Sun Shaoping when they met.
"Have you started a family yet?"
"Are you engaged?"
"Do you have a partner?"
Sun Shaoping always prided himself on being very smart, but when he encountered such a direct blind date introduction and asked three consecutive questions, he never thought that Party Secretary Cao was going to introduce someone to him, and he didn't know whether it was a real fake or fake.