"Actually, it's all like this. Some people only believe what they want to see and only talk about arguments that are beneficial to their own opinions. I also thought about whether I should post a video to show everyone my college certificate IV...
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Wang Panpan hugged a warm cup and nestled in the big sofa.
"If you want it, if you want it, you have to show it and slap them in the face!"
Dai Yuni sat next to her, waving her arms, eager to go into battle herself.
Yang Qian stood aside setting up the dining table and didn't let them help, but he listened to their conversations.
Dai Yuni's impulsive words did not sound stupid to Yang Qian, she was just more warm-hearted.
These days, when everyone is smart about protecting themselves, where can I find a girl with such a true temperament?
"You can't beat me. These people who slander you will always find ways to criticize you. I passed the CET-4 exam, but they started to say that I failed the CET-6 exam. Why did I go to college and just fall in love instead of studying seriously?
What's the explanation? I really don't have this certificate in the CET-6 exam. Even if I did, they would put it another way and say that you, a reporter from CCTV, only got such a small score in the CET-6 exam?"
Wang Panpan's current performance is still very calm.
"Yes, Yang Qian also told me that if people don't believe in you, it will be in vain if you tell them ten thousand times."
Dai Yuni was good-natured and her attitude changed quickly.
"In addition, I don't think there is anything to clarify about emotional matters. I did fall in love when I was in college and lived with my boyfriend. Our relationship was considered very good at that time, so I decided not long after graduating from college to get married.
He got married. But at that time, he only held a wedding ceremony and did not receive a marriage certificate..."
Wang Panpan said.
"Why did you have a banquet without getting a marriage certificate? Is his family a wealthy family? Or is there a succession to the throne?"
Dai Yuni was a little confused.
Dai Yuni has seen a lot of domineering people from wealthy families, and their family is considered the most normal one among the wealthy families.
Yang Qian next to him had a different guess.
Because the scale of the wedding doesn't look big from the photos. If it were a wealthy family, a scene like this would be a bit unjustifiable.
Then there is another possibility. The man may want to wait until he gives birth to a son before asking for evidence!
Why does Yang Qian know so much? Because similar practices exist in many small counties in Guangdong Province. Yang Qian has heard about it many times in his hometown!
Many young people hold a banquet first when they get married, and then decide whether to get a certificate based on the woman's fertility status.
Of course, this is a bad habit of favoring boys over girls, and Yang Qian can't stand it.
He and Dai Yuni discussed choosing a good day to get the certificate, first get the certificate, and then get married.
"They are not a wealthy family, they are actually a very ordinary family. It's just that we had a falling out before we even had time to get the certificate..."
Wang Panpan smiled bitterly.
This was something she didn't want to tell anyone at first.
Very few of my former colleagues in Northeast China knew about it.
But this time it was all exposed, and Wang Panpan also took this opportunity to express the pain he had accumulated in his heart to his two good friends, Dai Yuni and Yang Qian.
What happened was not as Yang Qian thought, it was the bad habits of Guangdong Province.
In fact, the real reason is the ideological gap between Wang Panpan and her boyfriend.
When she was in college, although Wang Panpan had her own little tempers, she was mostly submissive to her boyfriend.
But maybe girls are more mature than boys, especially when Wang Panpan started an internship in her senior year, stepped into the society, and did her favorite job as a reporter, she gradually came to have her own opinions.
"The rift between us appeared in his attitude towards my work. He and his family hoped that I could find a job that would make me less busy and less necessary to travel on business."
After so many years, Wang Panpan recalled it again, and he was actually relieved. Not only did he let go of the past, but he also let go of the quarrels and grudges in the past.
Maybe my ex-husband at that time said some serious words to his family, but isn’t it just a matter of letting the past go? What else is there to be resentful about?
Therefore, she spoke lightly and covered up the fierce arguments.
"But I also have my own ideals. I want to be a good reporter. Yang Qian should know this better. People in our field, especially journalists, are actually a little bit idealistic.
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Wang Panpan smiled.
"Indeed, your situation is somewhat similar to that of my teacher. Although he has a child and has a bond, in the end, the two of them parted ways because of different ideas and different goals."
Yang Qian nodded.
"Yang Qian is talking about Teacher Ouyang, Ouyang Xiaoqing's father. You also met Ouyang Xiaoqing at the airport last time!"
Dai Yuni explained to Wang Panpan.
"Oh, yes, I know her. How is she doing now? Didn't you say that she is taking tutoring classes at her mother's place in the capital and is preparing to take the art exam?"
Wang Panpan still has time to care about others.
"It's good. She got the first place in Beijing Dance's Dance Performance (Musical) major, and the third place in Yang Opera's Musical Theater major. She should choose Beijing Dance, because there is a very good professor there.
I am very fond of her and want to accept her as my disciple."
Yang Qian made the arrangements and called them to come over for dinner.
"That's good. I didn't expect this little sister to get the top prize!"
Wang Panpan was happy for Ouyang Xiaoqing.
He is indeed the top pick. There are so many people across the country applying for Beijing Dance. Ouyang Xiaoqing ranks first in a major, isn't he the top pick?
In fact, Yangzhou Opera is better than Beijing Dance, but the musical theater major of Yangzhou Opera has just been open for more than a year, and Ouyang Xiaoqing is considered a second candidate. For such a major, the teachers and background are not as good as Beijing Dance, not to mention that Beijing Dance has another
The old professor valued Ouyang Xiaoqing very much and wanted to train her well.
Dai Yuni still wanted to hear Wang Panpan's story. After she brought the soup to Wang Panpan, she brought the topic back.
"So, Sister Panpan, did you break up with that man because he stopped you from becoming a reporter?"
Dai Yuni asked.
"Half of the reason is this. He doesn't understand my work, has inexplicable distrust, and checks my mobile phone. The other half of the reason is the sarcastic remarks from his family, who often say this and that about me behind my back. At that time, I lived in
In their family, they feel like an outsider every day, neither this nor that.
We were married for less than half a year, and the conflicts intensified, so I divorced him. I don’t know if it counts as divorce, but since we don’t have children, it was easier to separate. I happened to have changed my job at that time and went to Xidu.
He works for a newspaper and has also lost contact with him."
Wang Panpan said softly.
"It's definitely not a divorce. You just had a wedding and didn't get a certificate. Legally, you're not a legal couple."
Dai Yuni defended her.
Wang Panpan smiled, then sighed softly and said nothing.
It would be a lie to say that I don't care, after all, this is someone I once loved.
But it is impossible to say that I still miss him, after all, I have suffered so much harm because of him.
Even now, Wang Panpan still doesn't know if any of his family members are hidden behind the scenes in this exposure.
However, Wang Panpan did not want to pursue the matter or question him.
Because whether it was the quarrel that lasted for half a year before the separation or the verbal criticism this time, Wang Panpan was tired.