The title of the song "Good Dad, Bad Dad" made Zheng Jiamin think about it at the beginning, but after listening to the children's singing, Zheng Jiamin realized that she was overthinking it!
"What father doesn't curse?
What child is not afraid?
Hitting is a relative, scolding is love,
Who is not a good father?"
It turns out that it does not mean that there are really two fathers, one is a good father and the other is a bad father. It just explains the difference in the way fathers care for their children - they may not be as gentle as mothers, but they care for their children after all.
In the education of children, sometimes spanking is not bad, and children should not resent their parents for being strict. It is just another way of caring for their children that is different from doting!
Zheng Jiamin still felt a little emotional after hearing this. Of course, it had nothing to do with "Dad", Zheng Jiamin just thought about her son's education.
Just like she lost her temper just now and locked Chenchen in his bedroom to let him reflect. Sometimes, she couldn't control her emotions and acted too harshly.
But mom loves you! Chenchen, please don’t hate mom...
"Dad, dad, dad, good dad, good dad, I have a good dad..."
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Zheng Jiamin didn't pay much attention to the TV in the second half. Firstly, it was because the second half of the song was just a simple repetition. Secondly, out of professional habits, she was also thinking about a topic related to children's education.
question.
Is it useful for parents to hit and scold their children?
She had never given birth to children before, but when she was a teacher, Zheng Jiamin believed that children should not be beaten or scolded.
Beating and scolding cannot solve the problem, but will arouse the child's rebellious psychology, or may be subtly learned by the child, making his character even more irritable.
But after becoming a mother, Zheng Jiamin really couldn't control her temper.
Although she reflects on herself every time and regrets it every time, she can't do it without scolding her - she has never spanked her child.
This little guy Chenchen is so naughty! If he doesn’t hit or scold him, he will help you in just a few days!
When Zheng Jiamin was thinking about this problem, suddenly, she felt her arm being hugged.
I turned around and saw that it was my son Liu Chenyu!
At some point, his son crawled from the sofa on his side to his side, hugged his arms and curled up into a ball.
"He is not a good father, Liu Chaojun is a bad father! I have a good mother, but I don't have a good father!"
When little Liu Chenyu was crying, his little mouth was so loud that it was no worse than when he was yelling about going to the supermarket!
Hearing what he said, Zheng Jiamin was stunned for a moment, and then a flood of warmth and tenderness surged in her heart.
This brat...
In fact, he is usually a bit skinny, but my son is still sensible!
Moreover, at such a young age, just over five years old! He already knows how to distinguish right from wrong and how to protect his mother!
"Chenchen, I can't call your father by his name. No matter what, he is still your father."
Although Zheng Jiamin was moved in her heart, she just hugged her son and then criticized him softly.
No matter how bad Liu Chaojun is, there is an inextricable blood connection between him and Chenchen. No matter how much Zheng Jiamin hates him, no matter how much she laments her misfortune, she will never ask her son to be hostile to his biological father.
She would even educate her son, hoping that he would look at the divorce of his mother and father calmly, and not want the thoughts of hatred to be shrouded in his son's supposedly innocent childhood.
Liu Chenyu fell silent, but he still held his mother's arm, nestled in her arms, and continued to watch TV.
Zheng Jiamin gently stroked her son's hair, with an expression of relief in her eyes.
This little guy usually keeps silent about his father's affairs, but in fact he already understands everything.
With your recognition, no matter how hard and tiring a mother is, it’s all worth it!
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Two days after the weekend, Zheng Jiamin sent her son to kindergarten early as usual, and then rushed to school non-stop.
"Students, did you have fun on Children's Day the day before yesterday?"
Before Zheng Jiamin gave Chinese lessons to the children in her class, she also followed the usual practice of talking to the children about some holiday topics to arouse their enthusiasm.
"happy!"
The atmosphere in their class was very good. Before Zheng Jiamin finished asking questions, the children in the classroom started answering them all.
"So happy? Where did you go to play? Is there any classmate who can share with us your Children's Day experience?"
Zheng Jiamin made vertical gestures with her two forearms, raising her hands.
Immediately, a dozen little arms were raised in the classroom, and they were all very active.
"Zhou Yu, please share it with everyone!"
Zheng Jiamin smiled and clicked the name of one of her classmates first.
"On Children's Day, my parents and I went camping! We had a tent and brought a lot of delicious food, and we played from morning to night before going back."
Zhou Yu's description is relatively fresh. After all, although camping has been a popular activity in recent years, not many people really have the time and energy to go camping.
Just like Zheng Jiamin, she would definitely not take the time to take her son to camp, not to mention whether she knew how to set up a tent. She didn't even think about the trouble, she just wanted to cross her arms - refuse!
But the children listened very enthusiastically. One or two children also raised their hands high and said that they also went camping. Most of them opened their eyes wide and their faces were full of curiosity and yearning.
"Zhou Yu, where are you and your parents going to camp? Is it in the wild?"
Zheng Jiamin asked with a smile.
The child's explanation was not detailed enough, so Zheng Jiamin asked other children to ask him to give more details.
"It's not in the wild. We went to the forest park. There was a big grassy area with a lot of people camping and RVs! We set up a tent."
Zhou Yu also saw the envy of his classmates, and he was even more excited when he said it.
Zheng Jiamin called two classmates one after another, and finally gave the opportunity to tell the story to the class entertainment committee member.
"Okay, we are finally going to class to listen to a classmate. Chen Qiuyun, come and share with us!"
After being called, a fat little girl in the class stood up happily.
"The happiest thing about Children's Day is that my parents bought me a record. It's a new children's song by Teacher Yang Qian. It's a children's song record! Teacher Yang Qian even signed it!"
Chen Qiuyun stood up with a serious expression on her face. Although she didn't organize her words well, she still spoke eloquently.
etc!
Zheng Jiamin was stunned.
Yang Qian?
Why do you think this name sounds so familiar?
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