Fei Qian originally thought it was fast when he complained about the marriage between Liu Biao and the Cai family. But when it was actually his turn, he found that this process was not much slower.
The main reason is that both parties agree on this matter, so there are no so-called considerations, details, decisions, etc., and many links are just a formality, just a formality.
For example, most of the roles that Fei Qian's parents were supposed to play in this marriage were replaced by Pang Degong.
Fei Qian's parents both passed away due to a typhoid fever a few years ago. Although the mourning period was long over, because there was no one to take care of them at that time and the family was poor, no one talked to Fei Qian about marriage.
Later, Fei Qian himself suffered a serious illness. After changing his soul in later generations, he felt uncomfortable for a while. In addition, Fei Qian in later generations did not take marriage to heart at all. After all, in later generations, twenty
Many people get married very early. In larger cities, there are many people who get married in their thirties, and there are not many people who get married later than forty years old.
Therefore, Fei Qian has never taken his unmarried life seriously. It was only now that he was ridiculed by Pang Tong that he realized that he had become a proper young man who married late in the Han Dynasty...
In the Han Dynasty, men were generally allowed to get married at the age of fifteen, and for women, fourteen... However, due to the lack of the ancient household registration system, the age, month and day of birth cannot be accurately recorded, so the age is sometimes
There is one more applicable rule, that is, a wooden pole is used to measure height. Once the standard line is crossed, you can get married.
The standard line is still based on the Qin Dynasty. A man can be considered an adult if he is six feet five inches tall, while a woman can be "allowed to marry" if she is six feet two inches tall.
However, the rulers in ancient times were relatively small, so six feet five inches was only about 1.4 to 1.5 meters in later generations, and six feet two was only about 1.3 meters.
Fei Qian's current situation is of course the best of diamonds. Everything is excellent. He has a house and a car. He has no parents-in-law or younger siblings. He is also a national official. In addition, he has a wife behind him.
Standing were Cai Yong and Liu Hong, two academic giants, and the looming figure of Pang Degong. Even if such conditions were to be left to future generations, it would still be the rhythm of twenty-four lights...
Although marriage in ancient times was relatively troublesome, this time, after all, the elders of both men and women agreed in advance, so the "acceptance" step was basically just a formality. Fei Qian prepared a pair of wild geese and sent them away.
As for the subsequent steps, such as "asking for names" and "Najib", there is no problem. Since this kind of thing is made clear and must be brought together, how can anyone dare to do it without opening their eyes?
Tell me what is inappropriate here or there between two people?
Naturally, everything is a match made in heaven, a perfect choice.
Fei Qian originally thought that she had to at least prepare for the "recruitment". After all, she was the daughter of a big family. Naturally, the betrothal gift had to be more particular and required some effort to purchase and collect.
But he didn't expect that Mr. Pang De had already thought about it for him. All the items were readily available and extremely generous. He just had to deliver them to his door...
While he was grateful to Mr. Pang De for treating him with great care, Fei Qian also felt that this was just a matter of taking one step at a time.
However, Fei Qian can somewhat understand such a rapid progress. After all, in ancient times, the first few steps of the six rituals of marriage still belong to the intention stage. Since it is intention, there may be changes...
Only after passing the "recruitment" stage can the man and woman officially finalize this major marriage matter, and basically there will be no more changes or modifications.
Anyway, since it was something that had been decided upon, there was nothing to hesitate about. Of course, Fei Qian would not do anything like that, so he obeyed Mr. Pang De's kindness and went to "acquire the bequest" with a bunch of betrothal gifts.
The "recruitment" matter naturally went very smoothly, and Fei Qian came back not long after.
As soon as he returned to the wooden house, Fei Qian immediately rushed to Pang Tong, grabbed him tightly, stared at him and said, "Pang Shiyuan! Did you know this already? Why didn't you tell me earlier?"
Pang Tong looked up at Fei Qian's face, couldn't help but smile, and said: "Hahaha, I'm still wondering if you won't know until the day of the wedding..."
Zao Zhi, who was standing by, was still confused. Didn't Fei Qian go to deliver the betrothal gift? Why did he go to find Pang Tong as soon as he came back? He really couldn't figure out what happened, so he kept asking what it was.
Fei Qian was a little depressed. He let go of Pang Tong's hand and snorted, not wanting to talk.
Pang Tongtong, on the other hand, laughed and said: "Hahaha... Zijing, it's nothing, it's just... haha... Ziyuan discovered this new person... turns out... haha... he is an old acquaintance..."
Fei Qian recalled Pang Tong's slightly weird expression when he told Pang Tong who his marriage partner was. He couldn't help but feel a little annoyed at being teased, and asked, "When did you know about it?"
"Let me think about it, um..." Pang Tong felt that since Fei Qian already knew the situation, there was no need to hide it anymore, so he said simply, "...On the day Liu Biao got married, didn't you drag me with you?
Are you going to find the Yiboji? I was stopped halfway when I walked..."
"Then what?" Fei Qian asked, pretending that if he didn't confess properly, he would deal with Pang Tong immediately.
"Then I'll ask you to confirm whether it's really that person..." Pang Tong, who was very sensible, naturally had something to say in this situation and would not hide it.
"It turns out that you deliberately said some vague words that day just to make me lower my head so that I could see more clearly?"
Pang Tong clapped his hands and said, "Zi Yuan, you are really smart! That's right!"
Xu Shu, who was studying in the golden room, also heard the noise outside. He couldn't help but be curious and pushed the door out. After looking around, he went to find Zao Zhi, who was more talkative, to understand the situation.
Zao Zhi explained to Xu Shu what he had just learned.
After hearing this, Xu Shu couldn't help but smile and said: "Congratulations Ziyuan, isn't this a good thing? New people are old acquaintances, it's a match made in heaven!"
Although there is nothing wrong in saying this, and Fei Qian seems to have some comfort in his heart, at least in this way, his marriage that is too political is not that he married someone with whom he has no relationship before, but this kind of being
The feeling of being kept in the dark is not very good, especially the way Pang Tong spoke just now, it really makes people want to beat him up...
"Does Mr. Pang also know about this?" Fei Qian asked, could I be the last one to know?
"Pang Gong, of course... I've known it for a long time!" Pang Tong gave Fei Qian a heavy blow cleanly...
