Feimin laughed heartily and said, "This is a happy event, how can there be any reason to blame it?" Although Feimin said this, he seemed to have no grudge at all, but in fact, in his heart, besides regret, he also felt guilty.
There is some dissatisfaction.
It is a pity that after Fei Qian married the daughter of the Huang family of Jingxiang, even if Fei Min's family found a suitable woman, it would not be suitable for her to marry Fei Qian again.
Because unless Fei Qian divorces the Huang family, she will only have the status of a concubine after marrying her. And such a concubine status will be a humiliation for the woman who heads the Fei family and is absolutely impossible to accept.
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Of course, if Fei Qian's status can be greatly improved, then naturally there will be a large number of people willing to be maids...
When aristocratic women in the Zhou Dynasty got married, they needed to be married by sisters or aunts and nephews of the same clan, who were called concubines. The concubines would become concubines and had a higher status than concubines. Later, concubines and concubines gradually became indistinguishable. "Book of Rites* Nei Principles" says: "When the wife is absent, the concubine
I don’t dare to stay in the evening."
In the Han Dynasty, unless you made special contributions, you could have eight concubines, that is, "if you are awarded a title, you must have eight concubines." However, ordinary officials could only marry three concubines at most, that is, "one for the minister and one for the minister".
"Wife and two concubines". If you are a commoner, you are not allowed to marry a concubine. "Common people have one husband and one wife" and can only live with one woman.
So if in the Han Dynasty, someone like Fei Qian, whose official position did not reach the level of "Qing Dafu", dared to take concubines privately, hey, if they were investigated, the happy event would immediately turn into a funeral...
Therefore, Fei Min's dissatisfaction also came from this. He had clearly written a letter to Fei Qian, hinting that he would find a match for Fei Qian, but he did not expect that Fei Qian not only refused to accept it, but also married him without informing him.
After killing the Jingxiang Huang family, Feimin's original plan came to nothing, which naturally made Feimin feel uncomfortable.
But after all, it was a hint in the letter without saying it clearly. Although Fei Min knew clearly that Fei Qian could definitely see what the letter meant, in the end it was still not made clear, right? Therefore, Fei Min was dissatisfied, and also
It's hard to say anything about it.
Although Fei Qian could not see any expression of dissatisfaction from Fei Min's expression, from one detail, Fei Qian could still detect the true emotions in Fei Min's heart...
If you are really happy for your descendants from the bottom of your heart, then since you are not there to see it with your own eyes, you will at least ask about the circumstances of the wedding, some situations of the two people after the marriage, etc. Even if Feimin is a male
, and as the head of the family, he pays more attention to the interests of the family and does not care about those detailed issues, so he should also pay attention to whether Fei Qian has gained any benefits after marrying the Jingxiang Huang family, and whether the Huang family has gained anything.
What are the places that support Fei diving and other questions.
But it is a pity that Feimin did not mention any of these issues, but only verbally expressed congratulations. In this way, Feimin's true attitude is obvious...
Fei Qian cursed in his heart, it seems that the head of his family is not a tolerant and kind-hearted person. Maybe he will hand over a pair of small shoes to wear...
Fei Min stroked his beard slowly and asked casually: "It is said that my nephew has taken up an official position in Liu Jingzhou, is there anything wrong?"
After all, Fei Qian is not a person who just stomps his feet and shakes the world. If the news coming from the Jingxiang land is not deliberately inquiring, even if someone of Fei Qian's level has some information, it will not be as big as the current Kanto noble clan's crusade against Dong Zhuo.
It attracts people's attention, so it is normal for Feimin to lag behind the news about Feiqian.
Although this sentence is light and airy, it is as casual as the elders in later generations often ask the younger generation, how are you doing at work?
But hearing such a sentence in Fei Qian's ears, Fei Qian couldn't help but immediately start thinking. After all, no one is easy to be the head of a noble family, even a small-scale noble family like the Fei family...
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In this sentence, Fei Min and Fei Qian guessed that it has at least three meanings:
First, in the current Han Dynasty, being an official often means being loyal to a certain person. Fei Min's words naturally meant to ask whether Fei Qian chose to be loyal to Liu Biao, the governor of Jingzhou;
Secondly, Liu Biao had multiple stigmas on him. He was a member of the royal family, a high official in the border areas, and at the same time he was within the scope of the Guandong gentry. Although he did not explicitly display any banner, everyone was familiar with the Guan Gong gentry.
He understood something, so Fei Min also asked Fei Qian which side he was on, whether it was Dong Zhuo's side or the Kanto nobles' side, or whether he was like Liu Biao, a kind of wait-and-see kind of person;
Third, it is natural that since Fei Min went to work in Jingxiang, why did he suddenly come back to Luoyang? Is there something special? Of course, Fei Min would not ask openly, so he would ask in this way.
Fei Qian, if Fei Qian could say it, he would naturally say it. If he couldn't say it, Fei Min didn't ask explicitly, so everyone wouldn't be embarrassed by the difficult answers...
Fei Qian said: "Qian has resigned from office..." This matter will be known to everyone sooner or later, so there is no need to conceal or deceive, it is better to tell the truth.
"Huh?" Fei Min straightened his body a little, and paused while stroking his beard, and asked, "Why did your good nephew resign?"
If Fei Qian develops in Jingxiang, then Fei Min naturally doesn't have too many opinions. This is the purpose of the gentry's expansion, but Fei Qian resigned from his official position in Jingxiang, which soon means...
So Fei Min felt a little uneasy. After all, his children were getting older, and they also needed a platform to show their abilities and achieve certain achievements, so that they could naturally inherit the title of head of the Fei family for the next generation.
Bit.
Originally, in the Fei family, there was no suspense of competition for the position of head of the next generation, but now a young Fei Qian was born. Although he has not yet achieved a high position, there are figures standing behind him.
It is really difficult to estimate the potential resources. Maybe the originally stable family head will slip from his hands...
How can Feimin not be nervous in this situation?
I have been running the Fei family for so many years, isn’t it to pass on the Fei family business to my children in the future? Although Fei Qian has not shown any intention to compete, who can ensure that Fei Qian will not give birth to a child in the future?
This kind of thinking? Besides, it was clear that Fei Fei could be comfortable hiding in Jingxiang, but now he resigned from his job and came to Heluo. What on earth did he want to do?
Although the smile on Fei Min's face remained unchanged, his eyes were staring at Fei Qian, as if he wanted to penetrate Fei Qian's surface and dig out his true inner thoughts...
After Liu Bei took control of Xuzhou, there was a famous blacksmith in Xuzhou. Liu Guan and Zhang wanted to forge a sharp weapon for each of them.
Liu Bei was the first to visit, but the blacksmith declined and said, "General Liu, you have a sword to use."
Guan Yu then visited, but the blacksmith politely declined and said, "General Guan, you have a knife you can use."
When it was Zhang Fei's turn, Liu Bei hurriedly took his hand and said, "Third brother, depending on your temper, it's better not to go..."
