"We all follow the trend of the times and don't have much choice. You have done well enough! They just don't have your experience and don't understand that you are prepared and put your own incompetence and grievances on you.
Not to mention the money you saved, if anything happens to them, you can get the money without saying a word."
The third uncle’s little eyes were wide open, yes! What could he have done wrong?
He had never thought that his education would turn out like this. He felt like his wife was separated from his wife. The shock was so great that he was stunned.
Now that I think about it, yes, no one is hungry. Where did all the nonsense come from? Just give him a beating. The third uncle wants to beat him now!
Yi Chuanzong saw it. The third uncle's eyes were very similar to the second uncle's. He understood this look. Isn't that what Lou Xiao'e looked like? He had already learned enough!
"You have to think twice before you act. The second uncle's trick is good and everyone can use it, but your current situation is really dangerous. If you don't make trouble with this one, there will be no one behind you."
As soon as the third uncle came back to his senses, his little eyes swayed in his sockets, and he said seriously: "Zhuan Zong, I am so lucky to have you here this time! Otherwise, I don't know when I would have figured it out!"
"Oh, I was just saying casually, and I have to thank you for the wine."
Yi Chuanzong replied with a slight smile on his face, but he didn't take it seriously in his heart.
I want to understand?
I'm afraid the third uncle doesn't understand.
I may have figured it out later and realized that what I did was wrong. I didn't have the nerve to look for the children, and I also knew that it might be useless to look for them.
This plan worked in the right place, picking up trash and paying stupid people living expenses. This person is really awake.
But if you want to make it more clear, I'm afraid it's not always the case. If you want to understand it, at least you can take your children back for retirement.
How much hatred can a family have? After living together for twenty years, it is impossible to say that there is no love. The children of the third uncle's family are not as cruel as Liu Guangqi, but the lock in their hearts is too heavy. He has been kissed by his own father since he was a child.
Mom is scheming, who can feel better?
When the third uncle gets old, if he can be like Silly Zhu and his father, he can go over with his head down, explain the matter clearly, and let He Yuyu grab and rub him. The resentment in the child's heart will come out, and he will make things difficult for him twice at most.
How difficult can it be for an old lady like the deaf old lady to serve a meal? If you ignore her, the old lady can sit by herself for a day and be overjoyed to see her children.
The third uncle waved his hands and said: "A little wine and food are nothing, even a thousand dollars can't buy one." Then thinking of the situation at home, his face darkened and asked, "Chuanzong, what do you think about this kind of thing in my family?"
solve?"
The words sounded quite tactful, not at all like the third uncle’s style.
However, Yi Chuanzong's eyes became strange.
Just now, he just watched the third uncle and listened to it, and he was almost done. He was afraid that if he tried harder, the third uncle wouldn't be able to listen anymore.
If something goes wrong, if you can't think about it and your mind goes into a dead end, you won't be able to get back out. If something happens, it will be a big deal.
In this case, he returned a wave of blood to the other side and took away some mistakes. As a result, he found that the third uncle seemed to be too open-minded about this matter and felt no pressure. This was not conducive to the subsequent solution.
"Isn't it a little too early for you to talk about the solution now? We haven't straightened it out yet. If you don't listen to what you say next, solve it, and don't talk about it if it can't be solved. Are you good at talking about relationships?"
The third uncle was stunned for a moment. He is really not good at talking about relationships. Now he thinks that being kind is not a recipe for disaster. There is no regret medicine when he gets old.
"Any other questions?"
Yi Chuanzong lowered his eyelids slightly and said calmly: "Third uncle, we just finished talking about those who have no money, now let's talk about those who have money!"
The third uncle was stunned for a moment and said directly: "They don't have any money!" After saying that, his face looked a little hesitant and said, "Maybe a little, so it means they have more money in their hands."
Yi Chuanzong couldn't help but put his hand on his forehead. This categorical statement that they had no money really made people feel a little distressed.
Maybe a little bit, I'm afraid they learned from the third uncle's calculations. They probably don't have many friends in school, right?
The three children had many scheming plans, but Yan Jiecheng couldn't come up with the plan, and he couldn't be as reasonable as the third uncle.
I am afraid that these three children have not had many friends since they were young, and it is very difficult for them both financially and mentally.
"I just said that you gave them four cents. I just said that the distribution is unfair. Now I will tell you what they think."
"There is no need to think about things that are fair. The children are all different in height and spend different amounts of money. Coupled with their age, Yan Jiecheng is now working on his own. They must not be the same.
Might think it’s fair…”
"Originally, it's a good thing that you spend money to buy things for them, but your financial conditions are not that generous. After all, you can't let them eat all at once. Even if their stomachs are full, their eyes may not be full. If they care about who has more and who has less,
I feel uncomfortable because you spent money but in the end you didn’t get a good product."
The third uncle's face was very tangled. Now he admitted that there were indeed some big problems in his education, "How do you think we can solve this problem?"
Yi Chuanzong's eyes widened and he said, "How do you solve this? You can't solve it."
The third uncle also widened his eyes and said: "There is no way to solve it?"
Yi Chuanzong spread his hands and said: "Yes, there is no way to solve it. This is human nature. How do you solve it?"
The third uncle was hesitant for a moment and didn't know what to say, "This...this...the inheritance of the clan, didn't you say you want to smooth it out? Why can't this be solved?"
Yi Chuanzong shrugged and said: "You really can't solve it. You should know that Kong Rong asked Li, right? When he grows up, he will be recorded as a selfish, unfaithful and unfilial corrupt official."
"Who doesn't want more? Who doesn't have the benefit of having less? Kong Rong lets the pears, as long as he wants to eat them, unless he knows that after he gives up, his father will give him something better, so he lets the pears! Otherwise, it's fine
If he doesn't eat a pear, is he sick?"
The third uncle was stunned for a moment. He was still thinking about how to be fair, how to appease the children's emotions, and tell them the principle of humility. But he was told that humility only had other agendas?
Yi Chuanzong said with a troubled expression: "Third uncle, aren't you still thinking about cultivating some noble qualities in them?"
"It's easy to talk about it, but the reason why nobleness is respected by others is that human nature is selfish and it is not easy for him to achieve it! What is nobleness if you can do it all? Only when you are truly admired by others can you be called noble.
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"You asked Yan Jiecheng to try giving Yan Jiefang five yuan! He specifically asked you if you were crazy and said you were partial! Even if you gave Yan Jiefang five yuan in vain, Yan Jiecheng would still hate him.
He paid for it! Maybe what you gave him is his! My younger brothers and sisters will also be jealous, and they blame you for not giving it to them."
The third uncle's expression suddenly changed. Yan Jiecheng asked him to give five yuan a month as pocket money to his younger brother, unless he could give five yuan to one.
Yi Chuanzong continued: "Third uncle, you are going too far. You don't need to solve this problem at all! You raised them and taught them knowledge. Now you should also teach them life experience and social life."
"You gave me the things. You just let them divide it among themselves. What are you going to do with it? The easiest thing for you to do is to arrange for them to work. Whoever does more and who gets more does not want to do it. I'm sorry.
,No!"
"Just think about the benefits. Everything is so easy to get. This is what you have earned through hard work. Can you serve them for the rest of your life? If you don't pay, you just think about the gains. Is it pie in the sky?"
The third uncle was stunned on the spot when he was told this.
It suddenly dawned on me.
The things belong to him, and he only cares for these boys when he gives them to them.
Why would he get involved in these children's fights?
"Don't just mess around. They will divide it among themselves. Whoever makes more sense will take it. Let them negotiate on their own. They have to learn! Guarantee your own interests to a certain extent. Maybe you will take it this time.
Next time, I will take it. I will give you a big one and I will take two small ones. If we fight at home, we will have to fight in the future."
"It's the same as when we work for the government. I'm a seventh-level fitter. My salary is high. If others don't have my ability, then their salary is less. It's getting harder and harder with each level, and the increase is slightly higher. What the public can do
It means planning contributions to a certain extent, stipulating the amount of wages, reducing wealth differences, and making society more stable and harmonious."
"That's what you can do. We are all brothers and sisters, we can't eat each other. Just sit leisurely on the table and drink tea. At most, you can say a few words when their conflict is about to escalate. The two brothers will
If you insist, there is really no other way. You can give me a suggestion by asking, and let the two brothers decide whether they want to do this or not."
"Unless neither of them wants it anymore. If you don't want it, then don't do it. If there is any leftover, you don't have to worry about it. There are other children, and there will always be someone who wants them. The two brothers don't want to give them to others. If they get angry, they will
Once you soften up, you can come up with a way to divide it after discussion. This is called a rule!"
After saying that, Yi Chuanzong also frowned, "Actually, it is easy to deal with this matter, but it is difficult to tell children the truth. We are also surprised. I have thought about it for a long time."
"Take Yan Jiecheng and Yan Jiefang as an example. They are trying to grab a cherry. If you tell them, 'Give it to the boss this time. The boss is the eldest son in the family. If you give the boss face, he will help you in the future.'
Yan Jiecheng was so happy that he didn't even remember helping his brother. Instead, Yan Jiecheng was thinking about giving face to his brother so that he could help him in the future."
"But if you say, 'I gave it to the eldest last time, let's give it to the second this time. The second is the younger brother, and the older brother should be generous. You should let the younger brother be a little bit.' Yan Jiecheng designated that he would not be happy, and would directly say what you said
Although it turned a deaf ear, he still acquiesced that it was fair. Yan Jiefang was happy and thought in his heart that the elder brother should let the younger brother go."
As he talked, Yi Chuanzong got a headache, and he didn't know what the temperament of Lou Xiao'e's two things was.
But since they are two sons, they will inevitably fight each other in the future.
It's easy for him to deal with the conflict between the two brothers. He just needs to catch the two boys and give them a good beating.
But how to educate them, how to teach them some principles, and how to make the two brothers harmonious is difficult.
He has no experience!
In fact, what he hopes most is that the sons he gives birth to will be little fools, and they will suffer some losses in a daze without taking it seriously. How easy would that be?
Don't be too smart.
Why are you so smart? How much do you want to do? How promising can you be?
How much face can you bring to him?
When he gets old, his capable son will not see anyone, but he will have an honest child by his side, and he can still have some fun here.
The main reason is that the child's mother is happy, and he prefers his wife to his son.
I was thinking about it when I didn't have children, but after having children, it felt like an accident.