"These five resentful spirits have not turned black, which means that the revenge ritual has not been completed yet.
The people who bullied them are still alive in the world, but what they care about most and want to go to is not where the bullies are, but where the people they love deeply are.
I don’t understand why many people who have never experienced domestic violence aggressively blame victims of domestic violence and ask them why they didn’t choose to leave, but they never understand the reasons why those victims choose to endure in silence.
These people did not choose to drop out of school when they were corporally punished by the teacher for the first time, and did not choose to resign when they were subjected to unpaid 996 for the first time. However, they can confidently ask the victims: Why didn't you choose to be decisive when you were subjected to domestic violence for the first time?
separate?
I can't understand these people. It's more like they want to promote a set of absolutely correct ideas to appear superior. They talk about stop losses, unwinding and other profit-related words, but don't care about those living people.
To care about people who are being bullied by the partner they want to spend their lives with.
Being hurt by someone who says they love you, does this kind of hurt only exist on the body? Can every ordinary person be absolutely rational?
There are too many self-evident facts, but these people care more about ideas than living victims.
The same is true for evil disaster situations. It is always like this.
Lao Liang, I don’t understand, I don’t fucking understand.”
Li Zhixian picked up the bottle and drank it all. After losing her job, she had become accustomed to being in a trance. Without the company of alcohol, she was afraid that she would do something irrational if she continued to be sober.
Liang De opened a new bottle of beer for her, and used Huanhai Xuanqi to make a beer glass big enough, filled it and handed it to her.
He understood that he was not a suitable person to talk to, and he and Li Zhixian could not be called good friends. He just happened to encounter a situation where his inner water was full and overflowing.
The first rule of male ethics is, don’t give life advice or solutions to a girl who confides in you.
Think about how you are doing before you speak. If a person is sober enough, he will know that no one really needs his life advice.
Liang De acted as a drinker for Li Zhixian, smoking a cigarette and recalling his past memories related to domestic violence.
Adler (level 4 alopecia), the pioneer of humanistic psychology, said that lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, and unfortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives.
Liang De feels that he is a lucky person.
The most serious domestic violence he had ever seen was when Comrade Li Weihong forced Comrade Liang Jianguo to sit on the toilet to urinate in the middle of winter.
You know, before the smart toilet with automatic heating function appeared, no matter how warm the boy was, he could not coexist peacefully with the winter toilet seat. After all...the two are connected.
Comrade Liang Jianguo, a veteran warm-hearted man, endured the humiliation and had to do half-day mental training every morning before he could go to the bathroom. The randomly distorted expression on his face every time he sat down allowed Lao Lao Liang to develop a superb facial expression that is not inferior to that of President Tan 〇 Dou.
Even so, he persisted. He is truly a terrifying man.
Comrade Li Weihong spoke eloquently about this: "When we outsiders fall in love, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer."
In the past, Mr. Liang was vaguely looking forward to receiving such a beating, but now Mr. Liang has reservations about it because he has unknowingly met many girls who can really beat him to death, such as... bah bah bah.
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A sea-blue beer glass was placed in front of him.
"Where's the wine?"
Liang De loudly greeted the boss and brought another "Putin" over, and ordered a plate of Songhua Chicken Legs.
He chewed the thick slices of chicken drumsticks rolled together with preserved pineapple preserved eggs, and turned on his special mobile phone and spent two crystal clusters searching for data related to domestic violence in Blue Star's hometown in "Learning from the World."
The following information is said to come from the official newspaper of Liang Delanxing's hometown:
A survey conducted by the Dongguk Women's Federation fifteen years ago showed that about 30% of women in 270 million families across the country had suffered domestic violence.
On average, victims will call the police after experiencing domestic violence 35 times. The fastest victim to call the police is seeking help three years after suffering domestic violence. Fifteen years ago, deaths caused by domestic violence accounted for more than 40% of the causes of homicide among women in the East.
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Thirteen years ago, the editor-in-chief of Dongguk Women's Newspaper disclosed at an international conference that the average number of suicides in Dongguk annually in recent years was 287,000, of which 157,000 were women.
The number of suicides among rural women is more than three times that among urban women.
A survey of more than 260 rural areas found that more than 66% of women's suicides in these rural areas were related to domestic violence.
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In Liang De's memory, the most recent domestic drama about domestic violence was "Don't Talk to Strangers", but that was a TV series nearly twenty years ago.
In the years before his sudden death, he rarely heard about domestic violence in the mainstream media, and he was not very clear about the current situation.
The last news he saw about domestic violence was about a man in Shanghai who chopped off his wife's left hand because he was worried that she would cheat on her because she was very beautiful.
In Liang De's impression, this is not an isolated case.
There are also many more outrageous tragedies.
Victims of domestic violence are not only women, but also the elderly, children, disabled people, and middle-aged men.
Yes, there are also mature men among the victims of domestic violence, and their situation is particularly embarrassing.
In the early years, Liang De read a piece of news that was ridiculous:
An honest man was often beaten by his wife. One day he couldn't bear it anymore and fought back angrily. However, his wife called the police and reported him as a domestic violence victim, which made him miserable.
Domestic violence is like ocean pollution in a sea of people. No one can stay out of it. No one is an isolated island.
Liang De blew out a smoke ring and snatched the last piece of Songhua Chicken Leg under Li Zhixian's chopsticks.
What can he do?
Wear a surveillance bracelet on everyone in World 415, set a Puritan-style code of conduct for everyone, and immediately kill anyone who violates it and put it on the credit record?
He didn't know what was wrong, but he knew it was wrong.
After Liang De became an extraordinary creature, he knew that he could live for a long time. Although he could not achieve the longevity of a cultivator, he did not expect that he would die naturally due to any reason.
He should be able to see the future of world 415 and many other worlds on the other side of Kukai.
Will the future be better or worse?
It depends on the person now.
He believes in today's people.
He feels that tomorrow will be better. No miracles or saints are needed. Tomorrow will definitely be better.
If a world needs miracles and saints to ensure a better future, the world is pretty much screwed.
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After Liang De settled the bill with the food stall owner, he followed the bouncing Li Zhixian back to the loft apartment in Hongye Building on Shanqian Street.
He didn't know whether the woman was really drunk or pretending to be drunk, but it didn't matter.
He felt that Li Zhixian had her reasons for being drunk or pretending to be drunk tonight.
When there is a legitimate reason, whether you are happy or sad, whether you are really drunk or pretending to be drunk, it is a kind of lonely romance.
Romance is an illusion that is somewhat beyond oneself.
Dancing with this illusion is my romance.
Liang De sent Li Zhixian back to the bedroom and covered him with quilt, then returned to the first floor of the apartment and looked out the window at the night.