Tie Maolin always kept Doctor Huo's words in mind.
His wife is a patient now, and no matter what the other party says, he has to obey her. So if his wife thinks that she is not sick, then he has to obey what his wife says.
When he thought of Aunt Hua, he couldn't help but sigh secretly in his heart.
If they could have met Dr. Huo earlier, they might not have ended up in such a sad ending.
So, when he looked at his wife, he felt that he had to be very tolerant and patient.
My wife can cry if she wants to! Just don't hurt her body.
As for his thoughts in the past, he felt that he was a little too petty. His wife was always crying because she was too sad, but how could he take his wife's illness seriously?
No wonder it has been so long and my wife has not recovered yet. It must be because he is too serious.
Okay, then no matter what his wife says from now on, he will just coax her.
Xia Guizhi panicked because she noticed that the way Tie Maolin looked at her changed.
When he saw her crying before, there was deep pain hidden in her eyes. It was because of this that she could completely control this man.
But now, the way the other person looks at me is like coaxing an ignorant child.
She doesn't want this feeling! What she wants is the other person's guilt and pain. She wants the other person to regard every word she says as a guideline and not dare to violate it at all. Only by treating herself as a god can she achieve the effect of controlling the other person!
But now, facing Tie Maolin, who is becoming more and more emotionally stable, she feels like an unreasonable and brainless child.
How can this be done?
If this continues, won't all her previous efforts be in vain?
As a result, her emotions became excited unconsciously, instead of being as stable as before, even when she forced Tie Maolin to cry.
She grabbed the other person's arm and said urgently: "Maolin, boss, I'm not sick! Don't listen to her nonsense, I really am not sick!"
Tie Maolin looked at his wife distressedly, not knowing what to do.
So he turned his attention to Lin Mengya for help, and the latter said in a deep voice: "It is very common to encounter this kind of situation. We must first calm the patient's emotions and not irritate her."
"Shut up!" Xia Guizhi couldn't help but turned around and yelled at her: "You quack doctor, what are you still saying to deceive the public? What is depression? I'm clearly fine, I'm not sick!
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Lin Mengya looked at the other party and showed a meaningful smile.
"Oh, then since Sister-in-law Xia, you are not suffering from depression, then why have you been depressed for so long after the miscarriage and still haven't recovered?"
"That's because I was too sad, so I..." Xia Guizhi was eager to explain, but she forgot that Lin Mengya had just told everyone that being too sad after a miscarriage may also cause depression.
disease.
In fact, Lin Mengya knew better than anyone else that Xia Guizhi did not suffer from depression at all, and she was already falsely pregnant, so naturally there was nothing to feel sad about.
But she wants everyone to mistakenly think that Xia Guizhi's performances in the past few months are all because she was too sad and suffered from depression.
If Xia Guizhi is a normal person, then Tie Maolin will definitely believe what she says, and then question himself and fall into internal strife.
But what if it’s a sick person’s crazy talk?
Aunt Hua loves her son so much, but she was controlled by this depression and almost killed her son.
Therefore, after a person suffers from depression, the words he says and the things he does are uncountable.
Faced with Xia Guizhi's explanation, Lin Mengya just shook her head helplessly, sighed and said: "Heart ailments require heart medicine. Sister-in-law Xia, you are still young, there will be opportunities in the future."
She didn't say anything, but everyone understood it.
Oh, the Maolin family must also be suffering from depression.
Oh, you are such a good person, why do you suffer from depression?
Seeing everyone looking at her with sympathetic eyes, Xia Guizhi could no longer hold back her emotions.
Her eyes were red and she stared at Lin Mengya.
"What are your intentions? Let me tell you, I'm very well, I don't have any disease at all! Stop trying to scare me with depression, there's no way I'm going to suffer from depression!"
Lin Mengya looked at the other party without any fear, and then asked lightly: "Sister-in-law Xia, are you so sure? Or do you think you will definitely not suffer from postpartum depression because you..."
She moved her gaze to Xia Guizhi's belly.
Xia Guizhi was stunned suddenly, and then she gritted her teeth tightly.
Could it be that her fake pregnancy method was seen through by the other party, so why didn't she expose her at the first time, but instead went through such a big circle and insisted on saying that she had depression?
But Xia Guizhi knows very well that if she wants to clarify that she is not sick now, the best way is to prove that she is not pregnant at all.
But once this happens, her previous false pregnancy and false miscarriage behavior will become very suspicious.
This woman has such a vicious heart!
The other party wanted to induce her to take the initiative to reveal the fact of false pregnancy, so that she would have nothing to do with that quack doctor!
At the same time, she also knew very well how much the people on the island hated traitors.
Once her identity is exposed, she will never have a chance to escape.
Therefore, in order to continue to lurk and complete the mission, she must grit her teeth and recognize it.
She is really unwilling!
Xia Guizhi took a deep breath and did not dare to say anything more, lest it arouse suspicion from others.
Lin Mengya raised her eyebrows slightly at the woman, did she think this was the end?
It can only be said that this woman is also a bit naive. This is not the end, but the beginning.
Although she used her depression to trick Xia Guizhi, Lin Mengya did not want to spread some wrong ideas and mislead others.
Therefore, after Xia Guizhi grabbed Tie Maolin and left, she went on to tell everyone how to prevent or intervene in postpartum depression.
The first and most important thing is psychological treatment, and then drug treatment.
Of course, not everyone who feels bad after giving birth is postpartum depression.
After all, people will definitely have some discomforts due to changes in hormones, physical conditions, identity perceptions, etc. in their bodies.
So she taught everyone how to observe to determine whether the other person has postpartum depression. "In a word, childbirth is a very dangerous, but also very great thing, so you don't have to be too harsh on yourself. No one has to start from the beginning."
She is a perfect mother when she is young. But every time she brings her child to
Every woman in this world is a brave mother."
"You are yourselves first, then your daughter, your wife, and your mother. If you can't be a good mother, then find a way to be your true self first."
In fact, most of them still have a vague sense of this self-awareness.
According to traditional concepts, women are born with the shackles of multiple identities.
They are someone's daughter after they are born, become someone's wife when they grow up, and then become someone's mother inexplicably.
It seems that their lifelong roles are assigned by others, and they rarely have the day to decide on their own.
Lin Mengya knew it was a little early to say these words to them, and they were even a bit shocking, but Xuanhuo Island was different.
Here, women have taken the first step bravely and support their family life just like men.
Therefore, she hopes that the women here will stop being so demanding on themselves and demand perfection from themselves.
There were several women in the crowd whose eyes suddenly turned red for some reason.
They touched their faces in surprise and didn't understand why they were crying.
"Okay, let's talk about this later. Didn't someone want me to help you feel your pulse just now? You can line up now and we can see how many there are. However, this is a women's event right now. Men, please leave first!"
Lin Mengya still said with a smile, and the men present were not dissatisfied, but they all whispered to their women to cherish this opportunity.
Lunch time passed quickly, and those who were on task did not stop much.
Lin Mengya and the others moved to another place. They chose a pergola, sat down with Lin Mengya surrounded, and then lined up.
Everyone was a little embarrassed at first, but soon, Lin Mengya's professional yet gentle attitude conquered everyone present.
Although Lin Mengya had previously summarized some common female physiological problems, she still used actual cases to tell them how to deal with and prevent them after asking for their consent.
Everyone was a little nervous at first, but in the end it turned into a physical and psychological mutual help meeting between women.
Everyone listened attentively. The sea breeze blew gently, and Lin Mengya's voice was gentle and clear. Although it could not travel too far, it was enough for all the women in the pavilion to hear clearly. "In the end, I still say the same thing, everyone.
Don't be shy if you encounter similar problems. This is just a normal reaction of our body. For example, you may get typhoid after being blown by the wind, or you may have diarrhea after eating cold things.
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Lin Mengya's words kept hanging on her lips, and gradually, the big stone in the hearts of many female relatives gradually lightened a lot.
Many people don't understand that they obviously love to be clean, and apart from their own men, they don't have sex with others, so why do they still get that kind of dirty disease?
But later they learned from Dr. Huo that it turned out to be just like the usual headache and brain fever, it was just a symptom and not an internal disease at all.
It turns out that their clothes must be fully dried after being washed before they can be worn again, and it is best to prop them up on a pole and expose them to the sun. But no one has ever told them this in the past many years.