No matter how the love between a man and a woman is ethically evaluated, based on the physical characteristics of men and women, the woman always suffers.
If unfortunately I get infected, is it a trivial matter to have an operation?
Even a miscarriage and uterine evacuation surgery is very debilitating, let alone such a gynecological acute abdomen surgery.
At most, men will pay for their carelessness, but women will have to pay the price of their health and even lose the chance to become mothers.
If you are unlucky, you may lose your life.
Han Qingxue was lucky enough to be reborn in modern times. An ordinary woman in the Tang Dynasty might not be able to meet a good doctor who could give timely injections to stop the bleeding and terminate the pregnancy.
In this situation, the only thing you can do is lose your life.
Most of the people who treated women in the Tang Dynasty were female doctors or female doctors. After all, there were very few famous doctors throughout the ages like Mr. Sun who did not treat men and women equally, regardless of whether they were rich or poor.
However, because female doctors have limited medical books to study and limited training resources, their medical skills are far inferior to those of male TCM doctors.
In fact, this is true even for the nobles in the palace, and most of them are treated casually by female doctors.
In the Tang Dynasty, men and women were unequal in all aspects, including the most basic medical care and education.
Lin Wanwan sighed inwardly as she quickly finished washing up.
Looking at her skin in the mirror, she was in good condition, but she didn't even put on any foundation. After all, she was going to the hospital to visit someone, so it wasn't appropriate to put on elaborate makeup, so she simply went bare-faced.
He took the car keys and drove in the yard, heading all the way towards Lu Xinghua Eastern Hospital.
After arriving at the hospital, Lin Wanwan went straight to Han Qingxue's ward.
A doctor had already come to check the room. The operation was successful and the condition was quite stable. There were no postoperative complications for the time being.
Lin Wanwan asked her confinement sister some information, and she answered her questions one by one.
As a first-month nanny, taking care of newborns and mothers is actually more tiring!
For the same amount of money, it is obviously much more comfortable to take care of a sleeping patient, and she can also sleep in the bed with him.
Lin Wanwan didn't ask her to leave after she arrived, and she wasn't in a hurry even if she had to be replaced by an ordinary caregiver. Anyway, the day's payment was counted until five o'clock in the evening.
The cost of an ordinary caregiver is 190 yuan a day, while that of a confinement nanny is 330 yuan a day, which is almost double.
The money has already been spent, so if you don't use it, it would be nice to have an extra errand boy. We'll wait until Han Qingxue's mother gets to the hospital.
At half past seven, Han Qingxue woke up and what caught her eye was Lin Wanwan who was holding a cell phone and writing.
"Boss, where am I?"
Lin Wanwan sat on the stool beside her bed, tilted her head and said, "Do you still remember what happened last night?"
"I don't remember. I seemed to have fainted from menstrual cramps, right?"
"It's not dysmenorrhea, it's an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured and caused massive bleeding. I had an ectopic pregnancy surgery at the Emergency Department of Lu Xinghua Eastern Hospital last night. I'm in the ward now."
"Ah, I...I have an ectopic pregnancy? How could it be?" Han Qingxue was extremely surprised, "I have obviously calculated the safe period."
Lin Wanwan sighed and said: "There is no safe period in this world. Everyone's ovulation situation will deviate every month due to physical conditions. The safe period calculated based on menstruation is not accurate at all, and it is especially easy to fall into trouble. Remember
Come on, the safest thing is to let your boyfriend wear a small hat."
Han Qingxue sighed after hearing this: "Oh! No wonder!"
Then he screamed again: "Oh my God, surgery! Then there will be scars on my stomach?"
The focus of this concern is a little too biased. It is indeed the first thing that the little beauty Han Qingxue who loves to dress up will care about, and it does not ruin her character at all!
She immediately lifted up the quilt and the underwear inside and looked at it, and said in surprise: "Hey, the scar is not big. The doctor is very qualified."
Lin Wanwan admired her optimism. Girls from Northeast China were as interesting as cross talk, but she had to remind her: "When you recover, you need to do a fallopian tube angiography to check the situation. By the way, it's best to check it carefully."
The cause of ectopic pregnancy. If it is not cured, the probability of another ectopic pregnancy is very high. Don’t take it lightly.”
"Oh, I got it, thank you, boss!" Han Qingxue hasn't realized the seriousness of the problem yet. She won't have much clear idea without checking it carefully.
"Boss, where are my mobile phone and bag? I'll call my partner."
"Here." Lin Wanwan handed her the bag on the bedside table, "Your mother should be here soon. I contacted your mother yesterday."
"Ah! Did you contact my family?" Han Qingxue's face changed color for the first time, "It's terrible, I'm going to be scolded."
She had never told her family about living with her boyfriend. Now that she had undergone an ectopic pregnancy surgery, her family must have known about it and it would be strange if they didn't scold her to death.
Their family comes from a small town, and their parents are not that liberal.
However, because she went to an art school where she majored in design and was born after 1995, the classmates and friends around her were very open-minded, and most of those who fell in love were living with their boyfriends.
Not to mention that she has graduated now. In the past, there were many classmates in her school who rented houses together in their junior and senior years.
Lin Wanwan looked at her expression and shook her head secretly.
Although they are considered to be of the same age, Han Qingxue's thoughts are obviously much more childish than Lin Wanwan's.
Lin Wanwan is at least very strong in self-protection. She is not against living together before marriage. There are pros and cons to this matter. It is considered a trial marriage. If it is not suitable, breaking up is easier than divorce, but you must always take measures to protect yourself.
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For someone like Han Qingxue who is so careless and confused, she really has to suffer a lot in order to learn well. Oh no, she has suffered such a serious crime now, but she seems to be fine once the pain is over, and she has no regrets.
This means there is no turning back until you hit the wall.
Han Qingxue got the phone, pressed her fingerprint to unlock it, and then called her boyfriend.
Through the sound leaking from the mobile phone, Lin Wanwan heard the sound of the other party shutting down.
"Hey! Why is the phone turned off? Did he also go out to drink yesterday and drink until his phone ran out of battery?" Han Qingxue didn't think much about it until now. Her mentality was really stable.
Lin Wanwan had to interrupt her fantasy: "No, your boyfriend called yesterday. I told him about your situation. He said he would come over to see you right away, but the night has passed and he hasn't come yet."
"Ah?" Han Qingxue was anxious, "Will he have an accident on the road?"
Lin Wanwan: "..."
Love really makes people blind!
Something happened, why was it shut down?! What kind of brain circuit is this?
It is obvious that the probability that the man does not want to take responsibility is much greater than the probability that he has an accident on the way to the hospital and breaks his mobile phone.
Lin Wanwan even felt that there was a generation gap between herself and Han Qingxue. Maybe it was due to family reasons. Having lost the protection of her parents since she was a child, she loved herself especially and always considered herself first in everything.
It is different from those who grew up in a loving family with both parents.