The neighbor saw Tian Dalin setting off firecrackers and asked with a smile: "Is your eldest daughter having a baby? Are the babies born a son or a daughter, or twins?"
Chinese people have been paying attention to auspiciousness since ancient times, and the twins of a son and a daughter are considered auspicious.
Tian Dalin smiled so hard that his eyes narrowed and he said, "Yes, it's a twin boy and a girl. When my Osmanthus knew about it, she asked me to set off a bunch of firecrackers to celebrate."
It's such a big happy event, let's set off firecrackers to cheer it up.
The neighbor exclaimed, "What a twin brother and sister! Brother, your eldest daughter is so lucky."
Thousands of years of old thinking cannot be changed overnight. With the implementation of family planning, those who want to have a son are using all kinds of methods, such as taking B-ultrasound to find out the gender, avoiding family planning, and cheating... Like Tian
Shao has a son and a daughter, which is what everyone dreams about now.
Tian Dalin said cheerfully: "Yes, my eldest daughter is indeed blessed."
After chatting with the neighbor for a while, Tian Dalin went back to the house. He said to Li Guihua who was packing things: "Don't rush to pack things, there are still twenty days until the holiday!"
Li Guihua put down the clothes in her hands, looked at him and asked: "What do you mean by that? What do you mean there are still twenty days until the holiday? Are you really ready to wait for Niu Niu and Diandian to go to Sijiu City for the holidays?"
Tian Dalin couldn't help but touch his forehead and said helplessly: "It's not me, it's Daya who wants us to wait until the child goes on vacation. You still don't understand, Daya doesn't want you to take care of her during the confinement period."
"She and Xiao Yue don't understand anything. If I don't take care of them, I will regret it later when the root of the disease is revealed."
Tian Dalin was really not worried and said: "When Sanya was in confinement, Xiao Li cooked her three meals a day, so you don't have to worry about eating. In addition, Mr. Wei is a master of gynecology and will tell our eldest daughter what she needs during confinement."
Pay attention to things. You, please don’t worry about it."
Li Guihua was unhappy and raised her voice: "What do you mean I worry so much? I want to serve her during confinement. Could it be that I am doing something wrong?"
Tian Dalin said helplessly: "You want to serve Daya Yuezi because you want to serve her, but the problem now is that Daya doesn't want to! Daya has her own way and is unwilling to listen to you. You have to go there now
, when the time comes, mother and daughter will quarrel. If you are not happy, Da Ya will not be able to have a good confinement period, and everyone will be in trouble by then. It is better to go later than that."
Li Guihua said unceremoniously: "She is just messing around, and Sanya is stupid enough to listen to her in everything. If you are young now, you will definitely feel pain in your arms and legs when you get older, and it will be too late to regret it."
Tian Dalin did not agree with her concept: "These are not things Da Ya imagined out of thin air. She consulted experts. Those experts are knowledgeable and specialize in studying these things. How can you be better than them?"
"But these are passed down from our ancestors, and everyone does it, so it must be right."
Tian Dalin retorted: "The ancestors also said that a woman's lack of talent is virtue. Well, this means that girls don't need to study, they can just take care of the housework at home. If our eldest sister didn't study, how could we be admitted to a textile factory or a university?
Can our family have the good life we have now? Things passed down from our ancestors are not necessarily correct."
Li Guihua said angrily: "According to what you said, there is no need to abide by the things passed down by the ancestors, so there is no need to celebrate the New Year, and there is no need to pay attention to filial piety."
Tian Dalin felt that she was being arrogant, but he still said patiently: "We have to inherit the good things; we have to abandon the bad things. We still have to listen to Mr. Wei and the experts on how to confinement.
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Li Guihua instantly didn't know how to refute.
The news that Tian Shao gave birth to a boy and a girl soon spread, and Uncle Li came to inquire after hearing the news.
Li Guihua was so busy sulking just now that she forgot to go to Li's house to announce the good news.
Tian Dalin smiled and said: "It's true, Da Ya gave birth to twins, a boy and a girl. Now I don't have to worry about her anymore."
Before, Tian Shao was busy with work and didn't want to have children, but he didn't dare to persuade or urge him, so he was worried. Later, when he heard that Da Ya was pregnant and had twins, he was worried that the two children were girls, so he was afraid that the Tan family would have objections.
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This woman has no son, so she will be looked down upon in her husband's family, as you can see by looking at Sanya. Sanya is protected by the eldest daughter, and the Wu family does not dare to go too far; but no one in the Tan family wants to show off to the eldest daughter.
I gave her support. Fortunately, the son and daughter she gave birth to now have a good name, and the Tan family will definitely like it.
Uncle Li also thought this was a great event: "When do you plan to go to Sijiucheng? Then help me bring something to your sister-in-law."
He couldn't go until the end of the month, so he wanted to bring some mountain delicacies that his eldest aunt liked to eat first. Of the more than ten families who lived in the mountains before, only two families were left, and the others had all moved out. But of these two families, one was
There is only a husband and wife with no children; there is another family whose two sons have gone to work in Yangcheng, and they are not used to the life outside and are unwilling to move. Uncle Li now has no time to get mountain delicacies, so he goes to the mountains every year to follow this family.
Two families bought it.
Li Guihua shook her head and said, "Da Ya told me before that she would go to Sijiu City after Diandian and Niu Niu have a vacation."
Uncle Li was stunned and asked with a surprised look on his face: "Aren't you going to serve Da Ya during her confinement period?"
Li Guihua didn't go when Sanya was giving birth, because she was taken care of by her mother-in-law. But Daya's mother-in-law had died of illness long ago, and she couldn't count on her stepmother, so he thought Li Guihua would take care of her during the confinement period.
Li Guihua corrected her: "It's not that I don't want to take care of Daya Yuezi, it's that she's not willing to let me take care of her. Forget it, I can't convince her that she wants to practice scientific confinement, so just let her be!"
Uncle Li felt that Tian Shao had read so many books, and since she wanted to use scientific methods for confinement, this must be better.
Hearing this, Li Guihua almost vomited blood. Why did everyone think that Da Ya was right? Could this so-called expert be better than the experience accumulated by her ancestors for thousands of years? But she didn't agree with Li Da either.
The uncle was fighting, both of them were blindly confident in Daya, but she couldn't fight so she had to save some energy.
Wu Ya came back from school in the evening. When she learned about this, she immediately wrote a letter to Tian Shao: "Dad, can you help me take this letter to the post office tomorrow and drop it off?"
"OK."
Li Guihua said: "Don't send it. You can't read books or letters during confinement. It's not good for your eyes."
Wuya's eyes widened in shock. No, it's too scary. You can't even read letters during confinement.
After hearing this, Tian Dalin suddenly understood that Tian Shao was not happy for his wife to go to Sijiucheng to serve the confinement child. Based on his wife's thoughts, the two would definitely quarrel.
Tian Dalin said with a smile: "You can't read books or write letters during confinement, but you can listen. When the time comes, it would be great if Xiaoyue or Sanya read it to Daya."