Sanya thought about it all night but couldn't figure out why her mother-in-law had changed so much, even though she had been very respectful over the years. The next day, she went to the front yard with panda eyes.
Tian Shao was doing yoga at this time, and she didn't dare to disturb him so she turned back and didn't take her daughter there until breakfast.
Sanya was so worried that she had no appetite, but she still forced herself to eat a bun and a bowl of porridge.
After dinner, Minyu took Miaomiao out to play, and Minji followed.
"I've been thinking about it all night, have you figured it out?"
Sanya said honestly that she didn't.
Tian Shao felt that he was really stupid: "The main reason is that you have low self-esteem and think too low of yourself."
Sanya was startled.
Tian Shao had actually discovered this problem a long time ago, but it was also caused by the environment and Sanya could not be blamed. Later, Sanya became more and more confident when she started doing business and made money, so she stopped caring about it. Later, Wu’s mother favored sons over daughters, and Sanya
She was very pleased that Ya went from being dissatisfied to starting to know how to resist. But in the end, she discovered that Sanya was only better on the surface, but she still had low self-esteem deep down.
Tian Shao said: "When we first met, you felt that you were not worthy of Wu Zhengqing. You were very grateful for Wu's father and Wu's mother's recognition. Later, Wu's mother came to propose marriage, and you were even more moved."
Sanya said nothing. At that time, she really felt that she was not worthy of Wu Zhengqing. The Tian family worked in the fields. Although she had a craft, she was just a village girl. Wu Zhengqing was born in a cadre family and was good-looking and outstanding.
.When two people got married, it was entirely her fault.
It was also this kind of mentality that made her want to perform well when she went to Wu's house. This kind of performance not only made clothes for Wu's father and Wu's mother, but also took care of all the housework.
Tian Shao said to her: "Sanya, you and Wu Zhengqing are in agreement, it's only when both sides think it's okay."
Sanya felt that this was wrong and said: "Sister, my father-in-law is a cadre, Zhengqing and the other three brothers have also developed very well, and you are the only one in our family who is promising."
Tian Shao didn't know what to say: "Are you stupid? You are gentle and beautiful, and you can make money to support the family with your skills. As for family background, your brother-in-law is from the Tan family, and I founded a comic company, Rijin
Doujin."
"The Tan family has an old man in charge. Your brother-in-law and his two brothers are also in high positions. Even your brother-in-law has developed very well. I have strong financial resources. Wu Zhengqing married you. If he needs help with his career, can I not stand by and watch?
That's why they keep urging you to get married. For the sake of face, they say that Wu Zhengqing is getting older and wants to have a grandson."
Sanya was stunned, and after a while she said: "I, I don't even know. Sister, why didn't you tell me at the beginning?"
Tian Shao explained: "With your temperament, if I told you this at that time, you would probably refuse to look at me."
At that time, Sanya's household registration was in the countryside, and she had to spend money to buy food rations. It was a big shortcoming to marry her. At that time, Wu Zhengqing was very good both as a person and as a family.
Sanya felt that she was so stupid: "I thought they saw me as diligent and sensible, but it turns out that's the truth."
Tian Shao said: "You went to the Wu family and took over all the housework. I have never told my family about these things before. Otherwise, I would have told you a long time ago."
Sanya lowered her head and said, "I often do housework at home, so I think it's nothing."
First, she did her customary housework, and secondly, she was praised by Wu's mother and felt recognized. Later, Wu's second sister-in-law stopped working. She felt that it was only about ten days and it would be okay to do more, so she never told her family. Still Wu's mother
After despising Miaomiao, she felt uncomfortable and went home to talk to Li Guihua and the others. Only then did Tian Shao find out.
Tian Shao actually wanted her to fall in love freely, but Sanya had a conservative personality and did not have contact with young men. Bai Churong happened to be the matchmaker, and Li Guihua and Tian Dalin urged, so things went smoothly. But this marriage, even now, Tian Shao thinks there is no problem. Even if
Sanya had low self-esteem and had a low self-esteem. At least in the first few years, her life was going smoothly, but it was Wu Mu's preference for her grandson that made her unreasonable.
Sanya felt a little guilty: "Sister, I'm sorry for making you worry about me all these years."
Tian Shao shook his head and said: "Why are the whole family talking about this? Fortunately, Mother Wu didn't like Miaomiao favoring her grandson, and you also woke up. It's just that you have been doing low things to please her these years, and she has taken it for granted. Wait until you don't
If you don't go your way when doing housework, she will be dissatisfied and start blaming you."
Sanya thought about it carefully and found that Tian Shao was right. In the first two years, she would praise her for being diligent and sensible, but later she started to give her instructions. The year before last, she stopped doing it, and Wu Mu changed her face.
Thinking of this, Sanya asked: "Sister, what should I do now so that she doesn't always come to make trouble?"
Tian Shao did not answer her words, but asked: "They came to the door this time, you didn't object, right?"
"Sister, she is Zhengqing's mother no matter what. Now she wants to come and see our new home. If she objects, our relatives and friends will criticize us."
"Then when they come to your door, do you greet them with a smile?"
Sanya's expression froze, and after a while she whispered, "She's coming to the door. If I don't pay attention to her with a straight face, it will be difficult for me to be honest."
Tian Shao looked at her and said: "At the beginning, I said that I would never step into Li Tie and Chen Honglian's house again, and that I would not recognize these relatives. At that time, everyone felt that I was wrong. Even my mother and uncle persuaded me to go to them.
Apologize. I don’t agree. Everyone thinks I’m disrespectful, heartless and unjust. So what? I feel comfortable and I’m not aggrieved.”
"Sister, Zhengqing has been very good to me over the years. For his sake, I don't want to make the relationship too tense."
Tian Shao was most dissatisfied with Wu Zhengqing. She snorted and said: "Do you know why he has been reluctant to come to my house these years and sees me like a mouse seeing a cat? He told you that he thinks I am powerful but also scared.
Tan Yue asked him about work matters, but they were all lies."
"He didn't dare to come because he felt guilty and was afraid that I would scold him. Obviously, he knew very well in his heart that Wu Mu had done something wrong and you and Miaomiao had suffered a lot, but he wanted to be a filial son, so he just kept in harmony."
Sanya never thought again that the real reason why Wu Zhengqing didn't like to come to the eldest sister's place was this.
Tian Shao continued: "When will he stop being with each other? It's because you don't want to compromise anymore and even say harsh things about getting a divorce. He's afraid that you really won't be with him, so he takes over everything."
Sanya thought that Wu Zhengqing had indeed been fighting with Xini as Tian Shao said in the past few years, and her heart suddenly felt sour.
Tian Shao said: "Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are an eternal problem. But you are in Sijiu City, and Wu's father and Wu's mother are in the northwest. Even if you are miserable, you will go back to visit relatives for a few days. Which family has no trouble in life? It is your eldest brother-in-law's family.
Yes. Compared to many people, you are already pretty good. It is difficult for an upright official to deal with household affairs, and the more you interfere, the worse it may be, so I didn’t tell you this."
Sanya was in a very depressed mood and said, "Sister, I'm so stupid! I didn't find any of these problems."
"It's not that you didn't realize it, but you are kind and tolerant to your family, and you won't think of them in a bad direction."