Sanya said with unclear meaning: "He is your father, it is up to you what to do with this matter."
Wu Zhengqing also said what was in his heart: "I don't want my father to be abused in bed in the future. If I don't do anything and let him bully him like this, then I won't be able to feel at ease for the rest of my life."
"Wu Zhengqing, your father is not the only son."
Wu Zhengqing smiled bitterly and said: "My sister-in-law is more proactive than anyone else. When it is her turn to contribute money and effort, she is not willing to make any excuses. Dad will go to her place in the future, and he will take care of the three with dad's pension.
Meals are provided, but it is impossible to take good care of him. The second brother is fine, but he lives in a relatively remote place and cannot receive medical treatment."
Sanya actually knew in her heart that if the situation really came to that, it would be impossible to just ignore it. After all, that was his biological father.
After a moment of silence, Sanya said: "Since your father only trusts you, you should agree to it and save him from worrying about you. But the premise is that you must get the pension, and you won't care if you don't have money."
Everyone gets old at some point. If someone abuses their children and ignores them when they are too old, their children will be stabbed in the spine. Anyway, there is no need to contribute money or effort. Wu Zhengqing can just take care of them.
Wu Zhengqing said that he had already said this: "My salary is so small, but I can't afford a nanny to take care of him. Xiu'er, don't worry, I won't be as stupid as before."
After so many things, he also understands that you have to fight for what you deserve, and you have to push it out if you are not responsible for it. Never do everything for you, unless you have more money than you can spend like an aunt.
, otherwise if you do too much, you will only end up complaining.
Sanya felt that he had indeed changed a lot, but he was still not ready to remarry. It was not because he was afraid that Wu Zhengqing would ask her to accompany him to support Wu's father and deal with the Wu family, but it felt so good now that he was not involved in everything.
Seeing that Tian Xiu had no objection, Wu Zhengqing replied to Wu's father two days later, implicitly telling him not to worry about it in the future.
Father Wu said that he was alone at home now and could say anything directly. He also wanted a clear attitude from him when he said this.
Wu Zhengqing said: "Don't worry, if you can't move in the future, I will take you over and ask a nanny to take care of you. If one can't do it, then I will ask for two, one male and one female."
The woman is responsible for washing and cooking, while the man chats with him, takes him out, bathes and wipes his body. With two people taking care of him, he doesn't need to waste much time and energy.
With Wu Zhengqing's promise, Wu's father finally felt at ease. No one knew that since he came back from visiting Lao Chen, he had nightmares every night, dreaming that he was lying in bed and no one cared about him.
After talking for a while, Wu's father hung up the phone when he heard someone calling him from outside.
The friend saw the smile on his face and asked, "What are you so happy about?"
"My son just called me and told me that my granddaughter won second place in the dance competition."
There are four grandchildren, but the most promising one is Miaomiao, who has never cared about her much. Alas, so she still needs to educate her well! Fortunately, Wu Peng has gotten better now and won’t worry about it in the future, otherwise this child will really
He was ruined by his old wife. This child really cannot be spoiled.
Friends congratulated him.
In the blink of an eye, the Spring Festival is here again. Since the divorce, Miya has taken Miaomiao back to Sijiucheng every New Year, and this year is no exception.
Wu Zhengqing asked cautiously, "Xiu'er, can I go back to Sijiu City with you to celebrate the New Year?"
In the past few years, because of his mother, he didn't dare to mention this and took the initiative to stay on duty. But now that he no longer has this worry, he no longer wants to be alone.
Sanya refused: "We're not really remarried, so what's going on if you go back with me?"
In Yangcheng, Sanya didn't want people to tell others that they were a couple. They lived less and had less contact with their neighbors, so no one asked. In Hong Kong City, living together is very common, and no one would be too full to ask these questions.
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Wu Zhengqing felt that Sanya's heart had hardened, but he was not sure if they were just being together like this vaguely: "Sanya, when will you remarry me?"
"Are you urging marriage?"
Wu Zhengqing quickly said that was not the case. He said in a good voice: "If we remarry, I can celebrate the New Year with you, and then I can visit my relatives' houses as expected."
"Also, after a few years, Miaomiao finds a partner. When we remarry, the other parent will no longer find fault with her as a child of a divorced family."
The police station has encountered all kinds of strange things. He has dealt with several such disputes in Sijiucheng. The man's family saw that the girl was from a divorced family, so they thought that the girl was mentally unsound and refused to agree to the marriage.
Sanya snorted coldly and said, "We don't want to marry into such a family."
Wu Zhengqing asked from a different angle: "If the parents of the person we Miaomiao are looking for in the future divorce and remarry, and both have children, would you be willing to marry your daughter to him?"
You don't have to ask, then you definitely don't want to. If you find such a man, your parents can't help the young couple, but when something happens, they come to the door again, which is very frustrating.
"Comparing one's feelings with others, people are not willing to find a daughter-in-law whose parents are divorced."
Sanya thought what he said made sense, but Miaomiao was only sixteen after the New Year, so it was too early to worry about this. But what she didn't expect was that Miaomiao actually helped intercede.
Holding Sanya's arm, Miaomiao said: "Mom, let dad go back to Sijiu City with us to celebrate the New Year! Sister Diandian and Minyu will spend the New Year with their parents, and I want that too."
Sanya felt funny when she heard this and said, "It's not like your dad doesn't have long legs. If he wants to go back to Sijiu City for the New Year, I'm not qualified to stop him?"
"Mom, I want dad to celebrate the New Year with us?"
Sanya shook her head and said, "No, mom wants to celebrate the New Year with your grandma and aunt. But if you want to celebrate the New Year with your dad, I won't stop you."
Wu Zhengqing was frustrated when he saw that his daughter's efforts were in vain. But he still returned to Sijiu City. The flower pot was taken to Hong Kong City. Sanya's friend helped find a good seller and sold it for 160,000. He prepared the money for it.
All used to buy a house.
After Wu Ya got married, the sisters made an appointment, and their husband's family took turns coming to celebrate the New Year. This year, they all went back to their parents' house to celebrate the New Year, and the six sisters got together happily.
The sisters sat together, chatting about work, business, and their families' personal differences.
Sanya told everyone what happened to the Wu family after Wu's mother died of illness.
After hearing this, Tian Shao was silent for a while, and then called Diandian and Miaomiao into the room. Minyu was bored by being alone, so she also came in.
After the three people sat down, Tian Shao asked Sanya to repeat what she just said. Then she asked Miaomiao: "What do you think about your grandfather remarrying?"
Miaomiao made a sound and then said: "Auntie, I don't have any ideas. His remarriage has nothing to do with me."
She was not familiar with the Wu family, and she was really not interested in what these people did.
Tian Shao smiled and said: "Putting aside his identity, you can talk about your views on this matter as a bystander."
Miaomiao thought about it and said, "My grandma has been married to him for more than thirty years, taking care of the housework and working hard without complaint. However, she went on a blind date the second month after leaving and remarried three months later. It's quite chilling."
Tian Shao looked at Diandian again: "What do you think?"
Diandian thought for a moment and said, "Auntie, I think Miaomiao's grandfather is a heartless and unjust person. You must not marry someone like this."
Tian Shao shook his head and said: "It's a bit cool for Grandpa Miaomiao to marry so soon, but it's an exaggeration to say that he is unkind and ungrateful. When her grandma was sick, her grandpa not only took good care of her, but also tried his best to fulfill her wishes."
"I was thinking about my grandson, and because my eldest daughter-in-law didn't agree to live there, he rented a house nearby. I didn't want Grandma Miaomiao to suffer, so I paid for an aunt to do laundry, cooking and hygiene."
"Grandma Miaomiao's expenses for medical treatment, medicine and a nanny were all spent on her grandfather's pension. When she lost her temper, his grandfather also coaxed her and didn't get impatient. This alone makes her better than many men."
"If Grandma Miaomiao hadn't had a heart problem and had taken a good rest after the surgery, it would have been absolutely impossible for her to live another twenty years."
Even Sanya praised Wu's father several times for his performance when Wu's mother was ill. But when he married again so quickly, all the good things he had done before were wiped out.
Diandian was stunned when he heard this.
Tian Shao looked at Min Yu and asked with a smile: "Boss, what do you think of this matter?"
Minyu said without hesitation: "I think Grandma Miaomiao is too stupid. She shouldn't be so frugal when she was young. She should make herself comfortable first. When she gets older, she should enjoy life more. As a result, she works hard without complaining.
It’s not worth it to work hard for your children and grandchildren all your life without getting a day’s blessings, only to end up taking advantage of others in the end.”
Her thoughts are basically similar to Tian Shao's. This is the effect of being influenced by what one has heard and seen.
Tian Shao added: "Grandma Miaomiao has worked hard and dedicated her whole life to her son and grandson. But because there is no bowl of water, her son and daughter-in-law are not only ungrateful but also resentful."
After saying this, Tian Shao looked at the three girls and said: "There are many romance novels on the market now. The heroes and heroines in these books are willing to live and die for love."
"Falling in love is very beautiful. We will not object to falling in love when you go to college. But you must remember that people living in this world not only have love, but also family ties, friendships and careers."
The three people nodded together.
Tian Shao continued: "When you grow up, you will definitely get married and have children. At that time, you may face the choice of continuing to work or quitting your job to take care of your children at home."
"Which is more important, family or career? There is no standard answer to this question. Some think family and children are important; some think career is more important. No matter which one you choose, it is your own choice."
"It's just that whether you want to be a strong woman in the future or return to the family to be a housewife, you must remember that you must not put all your chips on a man. That is a very stupid approach. People's hearts are fickle, and today he will
Hello, but you will get tired of it in a few years. Then he will leave you, and you have lost the skills to make a living. What will you do then?"
Miaomiao and Diandian were exactly the age of the girl Huaichun, and were stunned when they heard this.
Tian Shao circled back to Wu's father: "Let's talk about Miaomiao's grandfather. He took care of his grandma when she was sick. Many men just ignore their wives when they are sick, and they still live a leisurely life."
Minyu said unhappily: "Mom, your statement is too one-sided. Dad can't do it, and I believe my second uncle and fourth uncle can't do it."
Tian Shao smiled and said: "I said a lot, but not everything. Your father certainly won't do it, but people like your father are rare. Outside, it is common for men to abandon their wives and children and marry young and beautiful ones when they get rich.
"
She can only guarantee that Tan Yue will never change his heart in this life, let alone marry again; as for Wu Zhengqing, Suozhu and the others, this is unknown.
Seeing that Diandian and Miaomiao's faces were a little pale, Tian Shao added, "Actually, there's no need to be afraid. As long as you don't give up on your career, you don't have to be afraid even if the man changes his mind in the future."
"Dian Dian, your third aunt got divorced in the first place not only because of our support, but also because she had her own career to support herself and Miaomiao. If she stayed at home to take care of the children and made no money, and had no family to help her, even if the Wu family
No matter how extreme a person goes, she doesn't dare to divorce. Because she can't live independently with her children after divorce, she can only choose to swallow her anger."
Li Guihua felt that Tian Shao should not use Sanya as an analogy.
Sanya thinks it is a good thing to educate her children: "Your aunt is right. If I can't make money and provide a good life for Miaomiao, I would rather continue to be bullied by the Wu family than dare to divorce."
Minyu said: "Mom, don't worry, we will definitely not lose our jobs for men in the future. If he dares to make such excessive demands, I will tell him to get out."
Tian Shao wanted to train Minyu to be a lady, but unfortunately he failed. This girl was sometimes more wild and naughty than boys, and her courage was boundless. But she was the only girl in the Tan family for two generations, and everyone loved her very much.
Diandian and Miaomiao also said that they will always stick to their dreams and will not change or give up for anyone.
Tian Shao was very satisfied with this answer. Having grown up with the care of his parents and family, and with her guidance, he would not be deceived by a scumbag, nor would he spend a third of an acre at home after getting married.
In the evening, Sanya took Tian Shao's arm and walked in the backyard: "Sister, thank you. With what you said just now, I am not afraid that Miaomiao will encounter unkind people in the future."
Tian Shao said: "I'm not worried about Miaomiao. This child is independent and will not be influenced by others. What I am more worried about is Diandian. Both my mother and second sister regard their husbands as their first priority, and this child is very obedient."
Just the two of them."
Sanya said with a smile: "It's okay, mother and second sister will listen to you. From now on, you can help handle Miaomiao's marriage, there should be no problem."
Not everyone is as confused as Wu Mu and would bully a daughter-in-law who is capable and has the support of her family. There is no such case around her. It can only be said that she is too unlucky.
Tian Shao hummed and asked, "When are you going to marry Wu Zhengqing?"
"Miaomiao before her marriage."
"What?"
Sanya explained the reason: "Firstly, it is so that Miaomiao will not be looked down upon by her husband's family in the future; secondly, he doesn't care about the Wu family's affairs now. He only calls during holidays to check on his safety, and I don't need to worry about it."
"If you think this is good, then stick to it and don't let him persuade you again."
"Don't worry, sister, I said if he doesn't want to force it, we can have a clean break. Anyway, my daughter has grown up and is sensible, so she doesn't need to act anymore."
A happy smile appeared on Tian Shao's face. Very good, you don't have to worry about this girl anymore.