Si Ya was just preparing to carry her bag back when she saw Er Ya walking in from outside.
"Second sister, why are you here?"
Erya smiled and said, "Didn't you graduate? Mom was worried that you had too many things, so she asked me and your brother-in-law to pick them up."
Si Ya was so happy that her second brother-in-law drove here, so she no longer had to carry a suitcase on the bus. Although there was only one suitcase, it was very heavy with the books in it.
Erya looked at Ai Ziyu and Gong Xiaocui: "When are you leaving? Do you want to see you off?"
The two of them shook hands together: "No, no, we won't leave until tomorrow."
After Si Ya left, Ai Ziyu said with emotion: "I really envy Tian Lu, the sisters are all so good. After my sister got married, she always wanted to take care of her from her natal family, and every time I went back, she would send her children to me for tutoring.
My child’s grades haven’t improved, and I feel like I’m not paying attention.”
She was about to vomit blood. She didn't take care of her children to study on weekdays. She went back to tutor for a few days during the Chinese New Year. She wanted to make a big difference in her grades. What could she dream about? She couldn't say it yet, but when she said it, she got angry and looked down on her. It made her want to see her sister now.
Take a detour.
Gong Xiaocui said with a smile: "Everyone envies me. Having such a powerful elder sister, I can benefit a lot from my daily guidance."
In the past four years, Tian Lu has taught her a lot of things and she has benefited a lot. According to Tian Lu, these were all taught by her eldest sister on a daily basis. She has met Li Guihua, a very ordinary woman. Tian Lu’s excellence is entirely due to
Her eldest sister. Unfortunately, eldest sister Tian is too busy and has not been able to see her three times. It is a pity.
"Forget it, I can't think about it. It makes me feel bad when I think about it."
Gong Xiaocui took the opportunity to say: "So don't get married so soon. If you think your mother's family's affairs are bad now, then you will have to add your husband's family's affairs after you get married. That will be really annoying."
Hearing this, Ai Ziyu's face changed slightly. After thinking for a moment, she sighed and said, "You are right. It doesn't matter that my mother's family is in trouble. If her husband's family is like this, will we still have to live this life? I won't get married this year.
, let’s talk about it in two years!”
Gong Xiaocui was relieved to see that she changed her mind. She worked part-time on weekends, winter and summer vacations to make money. She had a good relationship with Ai Ziyu and Tian Lu at school. Tian Lu had such a powerful eldest sister so she didn't need to worry, but Ai Ziyu was
It's quite worrying.
"Ziyu, don't tell anyone about the money you have, including your parents and Song Lidong. If anyone comes to borrow it, just say it's all spent."
Ai Ziyu also spends money lavishly, but because Gong Xiaocui talked about it in Jingcheng, she saved nearly 2,000 yuan in four years.
Seeing Ai Ziyu frowning, Gong Xiaocui said: "I know your parents love you, and they have a salary and don't care about your money. But you have to know that what they value most is their son and grandson. If
If your brother doesn’t have enough money to do something, would he open his mouth to you if he knew you had money? If he can’t pay back the important thing, can you go to collect the debt?”
Ai Ziyu's parents both had public food from their employer and loved Ai Ziyu very much. However, when the brothers and sisters got married, there would be all kinds of conflicts when it came to money.
"Hide it from your parents? Isn't it necessary?"
Gong Xiaocui smiled, but the smile was a little bitter: "Look at me, I lived frugally in the first half of college and sent money back. Later, I made money as a tutor, and I sent back all my money. My family debts are repaid.
After everything was cleared and the house was built, my relatives and people in the village praised it, but my parents were not satisfied."
Ai Ziyu was shocked: "You have done so much for your family, and your parents are still not satisfied?"
Gong Xiaocui said: "Tian Lu knew that after my house was built, she asked me to keep some money as a backup. So in the second half of last year, I sent back less money. This money was enough for family expenses, but not enough to help relatives. My father
Mom thinks it’s too selfish of me to do this.”
Her parents thought that since their family was rich, they should repay the favor to their relatives, so they promised to lend money to their relatives, but as a result, she sent home less money.
Ai Ziyu felt a little distressed: "Don't your parents know how hurtful it is to say such words?"
Gong Xiaocui said: "I was very sad at the time, but after reflecting on it later, I also realized that I had a problem with handling this matter. I shouldn't have told them that I left half of the money, but I should have said that I had no time to work as a tutor after graduation.
With less money, there won’t be any trouble later.”
"Ziyu, the eldest sister Tian Lu paid for her second and third sisters' business to support their three younger sisters' education and college. No one dared not listen to her words, so the sisters got along well. But our two families are different. Brothers and sisters
Many parents also value their sons and grandchildren, so we need to plan more for ourselves."
Both her parents and Ai Ziyu's parents actually love their daughter. But when the brothers and sisters grow up and start a family, they all have their own thoughts, and the parents can no longer control them. This is the time, whoever is selfless for the family will be the one who cares for the family.
The one who suffers the most is likely to suffer more damage in the end.
Ai Ziyu listened to everything Gong Xiaocui said. When she returned to the province to report to the school, Song Lidong urged her to go back and set a date, but she didn't agree. The reasons were all ready-made. She had no money to get married, so she had to save some money first.
Money. Over this matter, the two quarreled fiercely, and then fell into a cold war.
Si Ya wanted to go to Yangcheng after graduation, but Li Guihua disagreed: "You are already twenty-four this year, and I gave birth to your second sister at this age."
Hearing this, Si Ya said helplessly: "Mom, it's not that I'm not looking for you, it's that no one in school is chasing me!"
The reality was exactly the opposite of what she said. There were many suitors pursuing Siya in school, and the confessions of love letters made her numb. But Siya was only focused on making money, and she thought that these suitors were not after her, but for her eldest sister and her eldest sister.
My brother-in-law went there, so I rejected them all. Of course, I couldn’t tell the truth to Li Guihua, so I didn’t want to talk about it in another way.
Li Guihua disliked Si Ya very much and thought she was too useless, so she said: "Your aunt Li's natal nephew graduated from the Polytechnic University and now works in the Construction Bureau. I have made an agreement with her that you will meet on Saturday."
Si Ya knew that Aunt Li was Li Guihua's partner, and she had gotten closer recently: "What else?"
"Aunt Li's eldest brother and sister-in-law have jobs, and among the children, this nephew is the only one who is not married. Your Aunt Li said that her sister-in-law has a good temper and treats her two daughters-in-law as if they were her own daughters."
Just listen to these words, Si Ya would be a fool to take them seriously. Before entering the house, he said that he treated you as his own daughter, but after entering the house, he worked twenty-four hours a day and felt that he had done too little: "These are all false, how much does her nephew cost?"
One month? Do you have a house?"
Li Guihua said: "The salary is more than 400 a month. I have only worked for two years and I haven't been able to get a house so quickly. But it doesn't matter. You have a house anyway. If you get married, I will live in your house first."
Because Tian Shao and Sanya bought their houses with their own money, Li Guihua felt that it would be okay for her son-in-law to live in the house bought by her daughter.
Si Ya didn't want to cheat. A girl who cheats on a man will think that she can't get married and will be looked down upon. But she knew that if she didn't go to Li Guihua, there would be a lot of trouble waiting for her, so she readily agreed: "Mom, that's right.
Yes, I will take good care of it when the time comes."