Through chatting with Bao Yiqiu, Tian Shao learned that the Gu family was going to change their house. An old professor's house had been vacated, and the school leaders had stated that the house would be given to Professor Gu's family.
Bao Yiqiu said: "The house is more than 80 square meters, with no shared area, and can be divided into three rooms. In addition, there are two large balconies. When the news came out that the house was to be vacated, many people came up with various ideas. I
I didn’t even expect that it would be given to Teacher Gu.”
Tian Shao has been to Gu's house before. The house is about forty square meters, which is quite crowded for a family of four. Now it has three bedrooms and one living room, which is very spacious.
Bao Yiqiu added: "When the selection is next year, Teacher Gu will definitely be rated as a professor."
In fact, Gu's father had already met the conditions for professor selection, but the number of places each year was limited and he didn't know how to fight for it, so he fell behind. But it's different now. With a close family like the Tan family, no one would offend Teacher Gu.
One family.
Of course Tian Shao knew the secret behind this: "When I get promoted to professor, my in-laws' salary will be much higher, and Wen Bo won't have to worry about them anymore."
Hearing this, Bao Yiqiu felt envious: "So it's better to have a daughter, who is considerate. Like my silly son, when he got busy at work, he didn't get a call for ten days and a half."
Tian Shao chuckled and said: "Minji graduated and started working. Not to mention normal times, he sometimes helps others during the holidays and doesn't come back. My partner, Wen Bai, will come back every month from now on, so it's not enough if I don't let him come back."
Minji is more diligent on the phone, and when encountering problems at work, she will discuss them with Tian Shao and Tan Yue. If she just wants to say something nice, forget about it. Like Minyu, she will tell them interesting things to make them happy.
When I want something, my mouth is like honey.
Bao Yiqiu said: "I don't ask for much now, I just hope they can let me have my grandson soon."
Qi Ziheng got married three years ago, but her wife is also a career-minded person and is unwilling to have children no matter what. Even if Bao Yiqiu said to take care of the children for her or pay for her to hire a nanny, she would not agree. For this reason
, Qi Hong and Bao Yiqiu both got angry several times.
In fact, Bao Yiqiu doesn't necessarily want a grandson. She feels that if a couple has no children, not only will the family become deserted, but the bond between the couple will also be easily broken apart without children.
Tian Shao said: "Let the couple decide on their own when to have a child. Don't worry about it. It'll bother you if you worry too much. If you have money and leisure, just invite a few friends to go out and play. While you're in good health now,
Okay, invite some friends and go out for more walks. Otherwise, when you get old and can’t move, you won’t be able to go out even if you want to.”
"How can we do without children?"
Tian Shao felt that she worried too much: "They themselves don't worry about having no one to take care of them when they get old, so it's useless if you worry about it. And if you always press like this, your daughter-in-law may not think of herself as a reproductive tool, let alone
If you want to have a baby, don't worry about it and let them go. Maybe in two years, when you are older, you will want to have a baby again."
Bao Yiqiu asked: "Did Minji say when he would have a child?"
Tian Shao said: "The night before they left for Hong Kong City, I specifically told Minji that Wen Bage had just graduated from college, so don't be in a hurry to have children. It won't be too late to have children after three or four years when you are mature and ready."
She feels that the most important thing for Wenbo now is to learn. Different status will naturally lead to different behaviors. For example, how to treat people and etiquette, etc., these are all things that need to be learned.
Bao Yiqiu changed the topic.
Seeing that she didn't listen to her advice, Tian Shao also followed her advice and started chatting. The idea of having children is deeply ingrained for people in their fifties and sixties, and it is difficult to get rid of it. The blame for this is the husband and wife.
I personally did not communicate with Bao Yiqiu in advance, which led to the current situation. However, every family has a difficult scripture to recite, so there is no way.
The two of them spent the morning shopping, and then went to a famous restaurant for dinner. Shopping and shopping made people feel happy, but the good mood did not last long.
Tian Shao received a call from Bai Churong, saying that Qu Yan had a fall and was now sent to the hospital.
After Mr. Tan died of illness, Qu Yan moved to live with Tan Xingli. Bai Churong would visit her with gifts during the New Year and holidays, but Tian Shao never went. She was the one who instigated the discord, causing Tan Yue to think that his biological father did not like it.
I have been suffering for so long.
Tian Shao frowned.
Bai Churong tactfully said that if Tian Shao didn't want to go, she would just find an excuse to get him there."
Minji invited Tan Xingli to the engagement party, he was his uncle after all. Fortunately, Tan Xingli also knew what he was doing and didn't bring Qu Yan over.
Tian Shao had no interest in her: "Sister-in-law, when are you going to visit her? I'll go with you."
Tan Yue hated Qu Yan even more than she did. But there was nothing she could do about it, Qu Yan was the old man's widow, and the relevant departments would send staff to visit her during the holidays. That damn old woman was in the eyes of the staff when the staff said that Tan Yue never visited her.
There is no such stepmother at all. Those staff members did not know what was going on and felt that Tian Shao and Tan Yue did not respect the elderly, so they went out of their way to tell the boss. Then, the boss talked to Tan Yue and asked him to pay attention to the impact.
Tian Shao was so disgusted at the time that even Tan Xingli came to apologize. Later, during the New Year and holidays, she would bring milk and some worthless fruit to visit.
"I'll go tomorrow morning. Xiaoshao, if you're busy, don't go."
Qu Yan was mean-mouthed at first, forcing Tian Shao to visit her. Then Tian Shao was not a vegetarian. Every time he went there, he deliberately provoked Qu Yan's anger and made her fly into a rage. One time, he was so angry that he almost fainted.
Tan Xingli was so frightened that he begged her to intercede and let Tian Shao not go. Unfortunately, Tian Shao didn't accept this trick.
Tian Shao smiled and said he was not busy, and then asked curiously: "How did you fall?"
"When you quarrel with Xiaohong, she wants to hit her, and she doesn't want to slip."
This Xiaohong is the adopted daughter of Tan Xingli who married later. Originally, they had no intention of adopting the girl, but Qu Yan always told the three grandchildren that the stepmother had evil intentions and kept the three children from being close to her.
For the sake of her old age, the woman adopted an abandoned baby from an orphanage. Qu Yan was so angry about this that she almost caused Tan Xingli to get divorced again. After that, the relationship between mother and child deteriorated a lot.
Tian Shao said with great disdain: "I have to deal with a child every day, and my age is already in the dog's belly."
Hearing this, Bai Churong said with a headache: "Xiao Shao, you'd better not go. I'll go alone tomorrow."
Tian Shao chuckled: "Go, how can you not go? My mother-in-law is already in the hospital. If she doesn't go to see her, she will complain everywhere, saying that Tan Yue and I have no conscience."
I have never raised Tan Yue for a day, never eaten a bite of her food, and I don’t know where she got the nerve to say this. But she really didn’t give in when he played this trick in front of her.
Bai Churong could imagine that scene, and her head suddenly hurt even more.