Liuya couldn't understand and asked: "Sister, why do you have to find someone beautiful? Just find someone from a family with outstanding abilities!"
Tian Shao glanced at her: "Do you think someone with average looks can catch Minji's eyes?"
Not to mention that Minji doesn't like her, she is not willing to do it as a beauty control person. Because her mother's appearance is not outstanding, there is a half chance that the child will have an ordinary appearance in the future, and she will have to be responsible for her future grandchildren. Of course, if Minji herself likes the appearance,
If it's ordinary, she won't interfere, but if she is asked to choose, she will definitely choose the best one.
Liuya couldn't help but laugh when she thought about the reason why Tian Shao and Tan Yue got to know each other: "It's really an advantage to be good-looking."
Tian Shao did not deny this: "Good looks are one of the reasons, and she is also very smart. She went to elementary school, junior high school and middle school in a small county with relatively poor educational conditions, and only transferred here in the third year of junior high. Otherwise, the university she got into would have been better than she is now."
"Also, she likes to cook, and her gentle temperament complements Minji. Because she likes Minji, she is willing to change for him. You can see how much she has changed in just half a year."
Can she not know Gu Wenbai's shortcomings? Of course she does, but these shortcomings can be made up for through acquired learning. But the temperament and temperament have been developed, and it is as difficult as to change them. Tian Shao would rather spend some effort to teach Gu Wenbai
, and was unwilling to let Minji marry an undesirable wife.
This marriage is not because you like the other person and want to get married, but because of the combination of interests. After marriage, it is difficult for two people who are arrogant to compromise for each other. For people who are in official careers, if the marriage does not go well, it is easy for others to take advantage of the loopholes.
After becoming a mother, Tian Shao deeply understood the old saying that when raising a child, you will always worry for ninety-nine times. For the sake of her son, she has put a lot of effort into it.
Liuya gave a thumbs up and praised: "Eldest sister is still thoughtful. If my cousin and cousin could be like you, Jiaojiao would not marry such a husband."
Li Jiao got married a year ago, and her husband is her college roommate’s hometown. She is a graduate student at the University of Finance and Economics and works in a listed company. Her husband is polite and capable, but his family background is very poor. He is the third eldest son in the family, and he has
The younger sister is the next younger brother and sister.
Tian Shao shook his head and said: "You can't blame your cousin for this. I told her that she and Liu Xiaoming were not suitable, but she refused to listen and insisted on getting married. Now that life is like this, no one can blame it."
When Tian Shao knew about her husband's family background, she met her husband once. After the contact, she felt that the two of them were not suitable. For this reason, she even talked to Li Jiao specifically, saying that they had different growth environments, values, outlook on life, and consumption.
It is difficult to reach a consensus.
Unexpectedly, Li Jiao said that her grandfather and father were both from the countryside, and they had a lot in common with her boyfriend, so there was no inconsistency in three views as mentioned by Tian Shao.
Sankui and Tao Shuhui met Liu Xiaoming and saw that he graduated from a prestigious university and was hardworking and motivated, so they agreed to the marriage.
When they were in love, they were sweet, but problems came to light as soon as they got married. Li Jiao had lived a comfortable life since she was a child. She liked to go out and go shopping on weekends. She also bought organic vegetables and imported fruits on a daily basis. However, her husband was from a poor family and had no money to study.
I borrowed it, and when I saw her spending so much money, I felt sorry for her, and I started to quarrel every time. This is still a small conflict, but when she gets pregnant and her mother-in-law comes to take care of her, it will be a disaster.
Liuya was surprised: "Did you say that she and Liu Xiaoming were not suitable for each other? Why didn't I know?"
Tian Shao felt that there was nothing to say about this matter, but Uncle Li and Sankui and his wife were embarrassed to tell others that Li Jiao felt that Tian Shao was biased.
The same is true. When Liuya knew that Li Jiao was not doing well, she lamented to Erya, saying that if Tian Shao had taken care of her, she would not have been so miserable.
You must know that Diandian, Niu Niu and Miao Jin all asked Tian Shao to check when they first fell in love. Although they would have conflicts and quarrels after marriage, they were not like Li Jiao.
Tian Shao said: "She was carried away by love at the time, and it was useless no matter how much she said. She chose her own path, whether she laughed or cried."
She has always felt that what is important in marriage is not family conditions, but the character, sense of responsibility and family tradition of the other person. Like Niu Niu’s wife, her family is in a rural area and the conditions are not good, but her parents are sensible and far-sighted. In this way, no matter what their children are,
Whether you marry in or marry over, there will be no irreconcilable conflicts.
Liuya used to pity Li Jiao for not knowing people well, but now she feels that she brought it on herself, insisting on marrying her even though the eldest sister said she was not suitable: "She is not living well, not only does her uncle and aunt not have peace, but also her father
My mother has to worry about it."
Tian Shao snorted coldly and said: "You are in the research institute, I didn't ask them to tell you. Last week, my mother went to her uncle's house to try to find out, and she came back crying with a belly full. She was so angry that she went to find the Liu family to reason with her father.
.If Erya hadn't arrived in time, they would have started fighting."
At first, Li Jiao didn't listen to advice and her life was not going well after her marriage. Tian Shao felt it was a waste of time not to care or listen. If she made the wrong choice, she could stop the loss in time. However, she was reluctant to divorce and always went back to her parents' home to cry and complain. It was her family that was tormented.
Tian Shao didn't care about Li Jiao's affairs, but after hearing that Li Guihua almost got into a fight with the Liu family, he was so angry that he called Li Guihua and Tian Dalin and scolded them.
At such an old age, they are most afraid of falling and knocking themselves. If they are not careful, they may die. Li Guihua and Tian Dalin are both in their seventies, but they have strong bodies. Tian Shao spent a lot of money to raise them.
Liuya got angry when she heard this: "Are they crazy to fight with others at such an old age?"
There must be some good or bad outcome. Not only do they suffer the consequences themselves, but they also have to suffer the consequences along with their sisters. The older they get, the more confused they become.
Tian Shao said: "Because of this incident, my uncle even brought Li Jiao over to apologize to me. For his sake, let it go."
Liuya felt something was wrong and asked, "Sister, didn't you scold Li Jiao?"
"Why are you scolding her? She can't figure it out. I don't want to waste my words."
The Liu family now obviously regards Li Jiao's salary and house and shop as their own, so it hurts to see her spend money. As for Li Jiao, her salary and dowry are their own, and they can use them as they like.
In the view of some old people in the countryside, when a woman marries a woman, she doesn't have anything to say, and even she belongs to their family. This is the way the Liu family thinks now.
The conflict between the two parties is irreconcilable and cannot be resolved unless they get divorced. This is also the reason why Tian Shao is too lazy to scold her. He can't bear to end it, so he can just endure it!
Liuya felt even worse after hearing this: "What's so good about that man that he lets her abuse him like this?"
Tian Shao didn't want to talk about her, so as not to affect his mood: "Wen Bai will graduate from college next month. After graduation, I will go to Gu's house to ask for a wedding date."
"Sister, when do you want to set the wedding date?"
"Your brother-in-law will be as busy as a spinning top by the end of the year. His son is getting married and he is a father. He cannot be absent. So the wedding date is either National Day or New Year's Day."
Liuya nodded and said that the wedding date was set and told her to ask for leave in advance.