Tian Shao's feelings about Ji Yuansheng are not bad. This young man is good-looking (according to current aesthetic standards) and smart. If his mother hadn't been burdened by living in a straw hut, he would have been married. After all, his family is not poor now.
, but everyone is poor.
Tian Shao continued to ask: "But I heard from my parents that it was your mother who wanted you to get married. So was it your mother's idea to get married, or did you convince your mother?"
This is very important. If you are forced by your family to become a son-in-law against your will, you will not be able to stay in this home with peace of mind.
Ji Yuansheng didn't hide it from Tian Shao and said, "My mother was worried that I wouldn't be able to get a wife after she left, so she wanted me to get married. She also said that your family are kind-hearted people and they will definitely treat me well."
Tian Shao felt strange when he heard this and asked: "You are eighteen years old and a strong laborer. Why is your mother worried that you will not be able to marry a wife?"
Ji Yuansheng's voice became deeper: "My mother and I are living in a thatched hut, and we also owe the team fifty yuan and one hundred kilograms of grain. She said she didn't even have a place to live, and she owed so much debt.
No girl will be willing to marry me in the future."
He is not worried about not being able to marry a wife, but he heard that the Tian family is rich. If the marriage is successful, the other party will give money as a gift. If he has money, he can take his mother to the city to see a doctor. If his mother's disease can be cured, he will do it.
There's nothing wrong with having a son-in-law come to your door.
Tian Shao's expression immediately changed and he asked, "Why do you and your mother live in a thatched hut?"
Ji Yuansheng hesitated and said: "At home, the house at home is not enough to live in, so we moved to a thatched shed."
Tian Shao did not ask any more questions. He smiled and nodded with Ji Yuansheng, and then said to Tian Dalin: "Dad, there is a bag of melon seeds in my house. Come and get it with me!"
Tian Dalin knew that he had something to say to him.
He and Tian Shao walked out of the main room, entered the three sisters' bedroom and asked softly: "Why, do you think Yuansheng is not good?"
Tian Shao did not answer her words, but asked: "Dad, why does Ji Yuansheng live in a hut with her mother?"
Neither husband nor wife told her about this before.
Tian Dalin sighed and said: "The three daughters-in-law in their family couldn't get along. Not only did they quarrel every day, but they also started fighting every now and then. The second and third children didn't ask for a house, so they moved out after getting more money. Ji Yuansheng was assigned a house.
.It’s just that his eldest nephew wanted to get married two years ago but didn’t have a house, so his mother took Ji Yuansheng and moved to a hut in order to let her eldest grandson get a wife.”
After a pause, Tian Dalin added: "Fat Aunt said that when she was young, she was always busy from morning to night and was very diligent. But her temper was a little soft, and she only cared about her children and grandchildren."
Tian Shao sneered and said, "I live in a thatched hut so that my grandson can get a wife, but why don't I focus on my children and grandchildren?"
Tian Dalin heard his dissatisfaction and said: "Da Ya, people live their whole lives for their children and grandchildren."
Tian Shao knew that this was the thought of the older generation, and she personally could not change it: "Who owes the money and food?"
Tian Dalin knew this and said: "Yuan Sheng owed it. His mother was in poor health and took her to the hospital several times. He didn't have any money, so he borrowed it from the team. This kid is really filial, I think it's good."
The son-in-law who comes to the house is to provide for them until they die. If you recruit such a filial child, you won't have to worry about it for the rest of your life.
How could Tian Shao not understand what he meant, and he said rudely: "Dad, he is filial to his own mother now. Only God knows whether he will be filial to you and your mother in the future."
Of course, my parents didn't expect anyone else to support them in their old age. If the couple is willing to follow her in the future, that's fine. If they don't want to, they will definitely get enough pension money.
Hearing this tone, Tian Dalin asked: "Da Ya, don't you agree with this marriage?"
"Disagree."
"Why?"
Tian Shao said: "Ji's mother wanted Ji Yuansheng to marry into our family because of the good conditions of my family. She said she was worried that Ji Yuansheng would not be able to marry a wife, but in fact only she knew what she thought. Dad, Ji Yuansheng is very smart and colorful, but he
Previously, she compromised and moved to the straw shed for Ji's mother, and now she has agreed to marry into his wife. In the future, do you think he will agree to any excessive demands made by Ji's mother?"
This is a filial son, a great filial son. Such a person is very popular among the older generation, but Tian Shao doesn't like it. She has encountered such a pair of unscrupulous parents, so the most annoying thing is parents who demand excessively. If not
There is nothing to blame for cheating yourself when you get married. After all, it is your own choice. But if you get married, you will cheat your wife/husband and children.
Tian Dalin sighed and said: "Da Ya, if it weren't for some unavoidable reasons, a good young descendant would not come to marry him. Ji's mother has some problems, but she is not in good health and won't survive for a few years. Wait.
With him gone, Yuan Sheng can live with Erya wholeheartedly."
Tian Shao said: "Dad, you said she can't survive long, but what if she survives ten or twenty years!"
You know, the sicker the person is, the longer he or she will live. On the contrary, the kind of old man who has not been sick all year round and is in good health will fall down when something goes wrong. So she has reservations about this statement.
Tian Dalin was startled, but quickly said: "Fat Aunt said she is in poor health and won't live long."
Tian Shao did not want to argue about this matter anymore. Anyway, her attitude was very clear and she did not agree with this marriage. If Tian Dalin and Erya both felt good about settling on this marriage, she would not interfere.
She doesn't agree with this marriage because she thinks Ji Yuansheng's mother is an unstable factor. It's not that Ji Yuansheng has a problem. Her worries turning into reality will be a hassle for Erya and will not affect her younger sisters.
Erya also saw each other for seven or eight times. Ji Yuansheng's personal conditions were the best and she was very satisfied. When she found out that Tian Shao disagreed, she didn't understand and asked: "Second sister, why do you disagree?"
Tian Shao said: "There are too many troubles at home, and you will be annoyed by some of them in the future. But this is just my idea, this is your life-long event, you make your own decision."
Erya felt that there was no one in the countryside who had something to worry about. Furthermore, Ji Yuansheng was married and living at home. He didn't have much dealings with Ji's mother, so he wasn't worried.
The parties involved agreed, and Tian Dalin decided to let Ji Yuansheng stay at home to eat. He also expressed his agreement by leaving the meal, and the fat aunt was very happy.
Li Guihua was so happy that she shouted loudly: "Sanya, Sanya, come here and help me catch the chicken."
It was hard for Tian Shao not to hear such a loud sound. She opened the door and said to Li Guihua unhappily: "Mom, the old hen needs to be kept to lay eggs. Why kill it? Don't you still have half a ham at home? Steam it.
A bowl of ham and two or three more dishes are enough."
Li Guihua thought that Tian Shao also agreed to the marriage, so she felt bad when she heard this. You must know that this girl is usually the most generous, but today she suddenly became stingy. She looked like she was not happy with this marriage!
Thinking of this, she couldn't help turning her head to look at her husband.
Tian Dalin didn't want to refute Tian Shao's face, so he nodded and said: "It's getting late now, and it's too late to kill the chicken. Just steam a bowl of ham and fry some peanuts and make an egg as Da Ya said.
"
Erya was unhappy, but she didn't have the courage to question Tian Shao, so she endured her anger and went to the kitchen to help.
The farthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but when you have a monthly vote but voted for someone else, o(*￣︶￣*)o. There will be an update later.