Tian Shao knew that there must be something inside. After all, Aunt Li had a grandson and grandson to take care of her. How could she return to Yongning County to take care of the two elderly people. However, this was someone else's family matter, and Tian Shao didn't ask.
Li Aihua regards Tian Shao as one of his own, and has no idea that family scandals should not be made public: "My grandma is old and a little confused. She was sick and was hospitalized twice last year, but my mother asked for leave to take care of her. As a result, she was always picky, and then
My aunt bought supplements to visit her, and she told people that my aunt was more considerate than a daughter. My mother was so angry that she had a big fight with my father, but she was just angry because she and my father were in the county, and something happened
She still needs to take care of her."
Her father is sometimes too busy to find anyone and has no time to take care of her grandparents. In the end, the problem falls on her mother. If she can get a few kind words, it is worth the trouble, but she ends up being critical.
There is an old saying that says, "The fragrance is far away and the smell is near." This saying applies to anyone. Tian Shao said: "The problem is that your aunt can't leave, so what will you do then?"
Li Aihua sighed and said: "I don't know either. Let's sit down and figure it out together then! Alas, my mother said that if I don't let her go to the district to take care of the children, she will go to the northwest to take care of my brother for a while when she retires.
.Tian Shao, my grandparents love me very much, but I also feel sorry for my mother. Over the years, my mother has always taken care of my grandparents. She has taken care of her when she was sick and hospitalized, but she has never received a kind word from me.
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Tian Shao knew that Mrs. Li's relationship with Grandma Li was not very harmonious when they were young, and the relationship eased after they lived apart. However, he did not expect that at this age, Mrs. Li would still be unforgiving.
"What did your dad say?"
Li Aihua shook his head and said: "Of course my dad disagrees, but it's no use. My mom has already made a decision. She even told my uncle and aunt about it during the Chinese New Year, and my uncle agreed."
Second Uncle Li felt guilty. After all, Father Li and Mother Li had been taking care of the two elderly people all these years, so he wanted to take them over to fulfill his filial piety.
Needless to say, everyone knows that if the old man and the old lady are taken to the provincial capital, the Li Yuan family will definitely be in a state of panic. However, Mother Li is right when she says that it is unreasonable for her son to be taken care of by them all the time.
Tian Shao comforted her and said, "This is an elder's matter. As a junior, it's not easy for you to interfere. If your mother is willing to take care of the child for you, you can happily take it. If she doesn't want to go, you can hire someone yourself."
Li Aihua nodded and said: "Zhao Kang told me the same thing. Forget it, let my grandma live in the provincial capital for a while. Then she will know who is better."
Tian Shao still said that the younger generation has no say in matters between the elders. Therefore, it is useless for Li Aihua to be sad and entangled. At most, both sides can be relieved.
Li Aihua looked at Tian Shao and said, "Xiao Shao, I sometimes envy you."
"Why do you envy me?"
Li Aihua smiled bitterly and said, "I envy you for getting along so well with your two sisters-in-law! Moreover, your sister-in-law is smart and reasonable. There is nothing troublesome about her husband's family, and you have the final say in her family's affairs. Unlike me, both my husband's and mother-in-law's families are in a mess.
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Why is it so difficult for an upright official to resolve household affairs? It’s because the father-in-law is responsible for the public and the mother-in-law is responsible for the mother-in-law. A situation like this in the Li family cannot be solved even if it is replaced by Tian Shao.
Tian Shao said: "This is not something you can solve, and it's useless for you to worry. All you can do now is work hard, educate your two daughters well, and don't let your mother worry."
Li Aihua nodded.
After thinking for a moment, she added: "If you regret it in the future and want your mother to continue to take care of you. Then your father and your uncle ask your mother to go back and take care of your grandparents. You have to respect your mother's decision."
"What?"
Tian Shao explained: "It would be great if your mother is willing to go back; but if she doesn't want to go back and continue to take care of your grandparents, you can't help your father persuade her and just keep silent. Otherwise, your mother will be sad."
Li Aihua thought for a moment and nodded: "I won't persuade you."
Putting herself in her mother's shoes, she wouldn't want to take care of her anymore. After all, she is not just a daughter-in-law. It makes no sense that her mother is half exhausted and her second aunt should be praised for being so leisurely.
Because Li Aihua's child was at her parents' house, and Li Aihua was about to rush there for dinner, the two chatted for more than half an hour before they separated.
On the way back, Tan Yue asked: "What did you say for so long? I saw that Comrade Li's face didn't look good. Am I still worried that Aunt Zhao would find trouble?"
Tian Shao didn't hide anything from her, and said: "No, her mother and Aunt Yang don't get along. Not only do they always criticize her, but they also deny her efforts over the years and only praise her daughter-in-law. Aunt Yang is so heartbroken that she no longer wants to take care of her. She wants Uncle Li and Aunt Li.
Take over."
Tan Yue shook his head and said, "They can't take good care of it."
There is no filial son in bed for a long time. Both sons of the Li family are promising. Medical expenses are not a worry, but taking care of the patients is a very labor-intensive task. Uncle Li's family used to come back for a few days during the holidays. Even if they were very tired when taking care of them, they had to bear the pain.
It will be over once you tolerate it. But if you are taken care of by someone, the conflicts will definitely increase sharply.
Tian Shao smiled and said: "Aunt Yang is retiring in September, and she said she would take care of Sister Aihua's children then. I see that she is really hurt. Even if Grandma Li regrets it, she cannot compromise.
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How should I put it? You will reap what you sow. Since you dislike Aunt Yang for not being able to take care of her well, then let your beloved daughter-in-law take care of her.
Hearing this, Tan Yue suddenly felt a little emotional and said, "I found that I have to face many problems at this age."
Tian Shao knew what she was talking about: "At this age, when there are seniors and young children, naturally I will be tired. I tell you, from now on, you must maintain a united front with me when it comes to my parents. It's just me.
My mother has such a temper that she will cause trouble if she is not restrained."
"good."
When I got home, I found that Erya and Nie Suozhu had also come over. After dinner, Tian Shao said to Li Guihua: "Mom, you can take the two children into the house!"
Seeing her posture, Li Guihua knew that she had something to tell Erya Suozhu, so she brought the two children into the house.
Tian Shao looked at Nie Suozhu and asked, "What is your relationship with that man named Peng Youcai? He got into a fight, why did you go to get him in the name of me and your brother-in-law?"
Nie Suozhu's face turned pale.
Tian Dalin was stunned: "Xiao Shao, what's going on?"
Okay, it looks like her father doesn't know about this at all. Tian Shao looked at Erya and said, "Dad, I also want to know what's going on?"
Tian Dalin looked at Nie Suozhu and asked: "Who is this Peng Youcai and what does it have to do with you? Why did you use the names of this daya and your brother-in-law to save him?"
When he found out that Peng Youcai was Aunt Nie's maternal nephew, Tian Dalin almost fainted with anger. The boss of the Nie family, his wife, and the people in the Nie family village all said that he was kind and kind, but he felt that he was not a good thing. If he was really kind, he would not
Leaving the old man to be taken care of by Nie Suozhu and Erya, without any money or effort.