Su Xiaoling pouted, she moved closer to Su Xiaoling's arms, and muttered: "When I saw the eldest sister getting married, I thought of my sister, and suddenly I felt so reluctant to leave her. I think the second sister won't be able to sleep tonight either."
Soon, she will be like Chen Erniu. At this moment, Su Xiaolu resonated with her emotions.
Not only Chen Niu couldn't sleep, but Qian and Chen Erniu couldn't sleep either.
There is a deep affection between sisters. They have grown up together since childhood and have been together day and night. Getting married means separation. The sadness of separation comes to mind and brings back countless memories of the past.
Su Xiaoling gently smoothed Su Xiaolu's hair: "But Xiaolu must always believe that my sister will always be my sister and will never change."
Yes, no matter who my sister marries or where she is, they will always be the closest sisters.
Su Xiaolu pressed Su Xiaoling's shoulder, and she nodded gently.
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At this time, in Chen Zhai, Qian stayed in Chen Da Niu's room, and together with Chen Erniu, he read the things given to Chen Da Niu over and over again.
After confirming countless times that nothing would go wrong, she still couldn't rest assured.
Chen Da Niu's eyes were slightly red. She stood up and walked to Qian's side. She took her hand and said softly: "Mom, please sit down for a while."
Mrs. Qian looked at Da Niu Chen, her eyes full of reluctance, and she was unwilling to let go of her daughter's hand.
After walking to the bed and sitting down, Chen Erniu also came to Qian's other side. Both daughters leaned on Qian's shoulders. Qian held the hands of her two daughters. She smiled, but also choked.
"Big girl, you are getting married tomorrow. From now on, your identity will be more than just my mother's daughter. You are sensible, hard-working, and reciprocal of kindness. You should never give out your heart to others who are kind to you.
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Qian said, her heart ached because her daughter had suffered a lot since she was a child.
Chen Da Niu lowered her head, pursed her lips, and swallowed, but she still couldn't hold back her tears. As soon as her vision blurred, big teardrops fell on her clothes.
"From now on, you have to remember to be more careful, you know? The most unpredictable thing is the heart of a person. If someone makes you sad, we won't be nice to them, you know? My parents are both in good health and can support you for a long time."
"Hold on, why are you unhappy? Don't just tolerate it, you know? You don't need too many to make close friends in the future, just one or two is enough."
Qian said gently.
Chen Da Niu shed tears silently. She nodded heavily and replied with a nasal voice: "Don't worry, Mom, I know."
In this world, it is impossible for her to meet a good sister like Su Xiaoling again.
People like the Su family, who share the same experience with them, will never meet again.
The friends she will make in the future, even if they hear her talk about the past, will not really understand what these past represent. There are some things that people who have not experienced them will never understand.
"Your parents-in-law seem to be kind, and Xibao is also a good child. My parents are ordinary people, and they have suffered together. Mom doesn't know how to teach you to deal with these things. It's all up to you to calm down in the future.
I'm slow to figure it out, but my mother only said one thing, as long as Xibao's parents are better than your grandparents, then they are good."
Qian's eyes were filled with tears, her heart was filled with mixed emotions, and she didn't know what she was talking about.
But she didn't know what a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was like. When she was in the Chen family, she was always bullied by her sisters-in-law and oppressed by her mother-in-law.
In her opinion, a peaceful and peaceful life is enough, instead of being used like an animal and not being cared for.
Qian held Chen Erniu's hand tightly and said, "You sisters grew up together and have a deep love for each other. When you become sisters-in-law, you won't have those kinds of situations. Thinking of this, mother feels at ease."
Being sisters-in-law, the relationship between the sisters-in-law is not as easy as that between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. If it is not handled well, the relationship between the sisters-in-law will be very difficult. Chen Da Niu and Chen Er Niu are sisters, and thinking about her makes me feel much more at ease.
Now the family is considered rich. The 10,000 taels they got from cooperating with "Yu Jinghong" were divided equally between the two families. The Chen family also got 5,000 taels. The house they bought cost more than 2,000 taels. The remaining two thousand taels left the couple.
After the two discussed it, they gave Chen Da Niu a thousand taels as a dowry.
Qian held Chen Da Niu's hand tightly, and she said firmly: "If one day, you and Niu Xibao really can't live together, then divorce and go home, and your parents will support you."
Chen Da Niu sobbed and cried bitterly while hugging Mr. Qian.
Qian also said to Chen Erniu: "Erniu, the same goes for you. We can always rely on you at home. You are all good at work. No matter how bad you are, how can you be worse? We must support each other in life."
Yes, if they beat people, or change their minds and go out to have fun, we won't be able to live like this."
Chen Erniu also cried.
Qian held her two daughters in her arms and sighed softly. As a woman, no woman does not hope to have a place in her parents' family.
But the fact is that the vast majority of women will have no family once they get married.
Being a guest in her natal family, the married daughter throws away the water.
If you are an outsider in your husband's family, you will always be a foreigner if you are not born to them. Only when you become a mother-in-law can you be considered a member of the family, because a new outsider has appeared.
Qian hopes that her daughter will always have someone to rely on and a place to stay when she comes back.
The sensible Chen Da Niu and Chen Er Niu both understood what Qian meant, so they cried.
They have high hopes for the future and bravely pursue it. Even if they fall, their parents will still be able to pick them up.
This night, mother and daughter slept together.
But I didn't sleep for long before daybreak came.
On the sixth day of June, Chen Da Niu got married.
As soon as the day broke, Mrs. Zhao and Su Xiaoling and Su Xiaolu got up early and went to the next door to help Chen Da Niu dress up.
When I first came to the capital, there was no one I knew very well from both families.
So Qian and Zhao combed Chen Da Niu's hair in person. Qian's eyes were red, while Zhao's smile was gentle and her words were few, but they could soothe people's hearts.
Chen Da Niu's hair was combed bit by bit.
I put on my hairpins, washed my face and made up, and dressed up carefully. It was already bright outside and the house was already getting lively.
Da Niu Chen also put on her wedding clothes and wedding shoes.
Su Xiaolu looked at Da Niu Chen and couldn't move her eyes away. Today Da Niu Chen was so beautiful, like a flower in full bloom, she was the most beautiful at her best.
The corners of her mouth were slightly raised, and her eyes were a little shy. Whether she raised her eyes or lowered her eyes, she looked extremely beautiful.
When the auspicious time came, Niu Xibao, who had come to get married, also came. With the sound of "the auspicious time has come" outside, Chen Da Niu put on her red hijab, and Qian and Zhao took her out.
The door opened, and Chen Shi, who had a happy face with red eyes, said loudly: "Sister, I will carry you out."