The matter of getting married is of great importance and no one can help.
Nowadays, Sun Baoshan is a white man with no official position and only a reputation as a scholar. If he goes to seek to marry the only daughter of a fourth-grade military general, he is afraid of humiliating himself.
Sun Bocheng thought deeply. Looking at his grandson's stubborn look, he sighed and said slowly: "Baoshan, do you understand the difference between our Sun family and the Chu family now? Do you want to ask Chu Li to marry General Chu Leizhen?
No less than the ancients often said that the toad wants to eat swan meat."
If he really comes to ask for marriage, Chu Leizhen and his wife may be angered and say something insulting to people's dignity.
Although he understands that it is normal for the Chu couple to say whatever they say, and that Sun Baoshan should bear it, but the words hurt people's hearts. He is worried that Sun Baoshan seems to be able to bear it now, but when he really bears it, he will feel pain, which will affect him in the future.
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Sometimes when people are frustrated, they become more courageous the more frustrated they become. But sometimes, when people are frustrated, they never get up again. Worrying, why is it the Chu family? This makes it impossible for him to help.
Sun Baoshan gritted his teeth. He looked at his grandfather and then his parents, and spoke firmly: "Grandpa, dad, mom, I know I may be insulted, but I'm not afraid. I can bear it. This is what I should have done."
Bear it, if I were the parents of the Chu family, I would be rude, but I believe more that they must have a discerning eye, and everything they do is for the good of their daughter. I believe that I am excellent in terms of moral character.
I am definitely worthy of Chu Li in character. The father of the Chu family is very affectionate and will only marry one wife in his life. I can promise him that I will not have a concubine. My parents are also deeply affectionate people.
, I will treat Chu Li in the same way."
Sun Baoshan knew that asking for marriage would not be easy, but he also knew that if he missed it, he would regret it for the rest of his life.
In the past, he thought he liked Su Xiaolu because Su Xiaolu saved him. He had a good impression of her and wanted to commit himself to her like in the storybook.
But after getting to know Chu Li, he gradually understood that his love for Su Xiaolu was a kind of admiration. He admired that Su Xiaolu was so powerful and could do many things that he could not do.
His love for Chu Li was the love between a man and a woman. He longed for her day and night. His affection was in every moment. He wanted to spend time with her day and night, so he looked at her quietly. He felt his heart throbbing and satisfied.
, joy, peace, expectation, seven emotions and six desires, are all moved by her.
Seeing Sun Baoshan like this, Mrs. Lian also looked worried.
Of course she is willing for her son to marry a high-ranking daughter, but she also has to consider whether her parents are willing.
She thinks her son is the best because Sun Baoshan is her son, but in the eyes of others, Sun Baoshan is not perfect and he also has shortcomings.
Sun Tzu Qian pondered for a while and said, "Dad, let's use half of our family wealth as a betrothal agent."
This was his only son, the child he had loved and grown up with since childhood, the child he had tried so hard to protect, and how could he bear to see him feel sad and lost.
Sun Bocheng looked at Sun Baoshan and asked again rigorously: "Baoshan, have you really thought about it?"
Sun Baoshan swallowed his throat and nodded heavily: "Grandpa, I have thought about it many times. No matter what the outcome is, I will accept it, but if I stop moving forward, I will regret it for the rest of my life."
"Then go ahead. No one can explain love clearly."
Sun Bocheng looked at Sun Baoshan and nodded.
Chu Li is a good woman who knows etiquette and wisdom. To be able to marry such a woman would be a shame for the Sun family.
If it didn't work out, it would be fate but not fate. After Sun Baoshan's obsession, time would make him let go and look away. He believed that Sun Baoshan had a big heart, and even if it didn't work out, he wouldn't blame God and feel sorry for himself.
"Zi Qian, since we are asking for marriage, we must show our sincerity. The Sun family has been in business for many years and has accumulated a lot of wealth. Using half of it to propose marriage also shows our sincerity. In this matter, you and your wife will
Let’s see what happens.”
Sun Bocheng looked at Sun Tzu Qian and Lianshi and spoke.
Sun Tzu Qian and Lian Shi nodded and agreed in unison: "My son understands (my daughter-in-law understands)."
Sun Baoshan smiled and kowtowed to Sun Bocheng and his grandson Qianlian. He expressed gratitude: "Thank you, grandpa, thank you, dad and mom."
He felt relieved that he had taken this step. He did not deceive Chu Li, and he would let her see that he was sincere.
Because of Sun Baoshan's incident, Su Hua and Sun Baoqian stayed at Sun's house.
At night, Su Hua was called over by Sun Bocheng.
Lien came over.
When mother and daughter met, Lian sighed: "Oh, we only found out about this tonight. Your brother kept it a secret. Mom is both happy and worried at the same time."
At that time, she said she was interested in Su Xiaolu, but in the end it didn't work out, so Lian was worried.
Later, I mentioned it to Sun Baoshan several times, but he refused, saying that he wanted to concentrate on studying and obtain fame. When the child grew up, it was difficult for Lian to ask further questions.
Now that she knew he had a sweetheart, Lian was very happy, but her sweetheart was the only daughter of a fourth-grade military attaché, so Lian was very worried.
Sun Baoqian smiled and said, "Mom, everything is determined, so just relax."
"My younger brother is not stupid. It will be a matter of time for him to get fame. Our family is not poor. If nothing unexpected happens, it will be a matter of time for him to get ahead. The Chu family's requirements for choosing a son-in-law must be high, but they are much more important than ours.
Now that we have gone, Miss Chu’s marriage has not been decided yet, which shows that the Chu family’s father and mother see people not just by their family background.”
Sun Baoqian was smart. After hearing the story, she also thought in her mind that she didn't dare to say that she got all the guesses right, but she would definitely get some of them right.
Regardless of family background, her younger brother has good moral character and is well-read in poetry and books. Her grandfather and father are both passionate people. These are things that money and power cannot buy.
If the Chu family wanted to look at family background, I'm afraid Chu Li's marriage would have been decided long ago.
So she believed that her younger brother wanted to be at least fifty-five.
"Listening to what you said, my mother instantly felt a lot more at ease."
Lian smiled gently, held Sun Baoqian's hand, looked at her gently, and said softly: "You have grown up."
At this moment when her heart gradually calmed down, Lian realized that her daughter had really grown up, becoming smarter and calmer. She was confident, gentle and wise. Lian felt very comfortable. Sun Baoqian could be so confident, which meant that she had found the right person.
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Sun Baoqian laughed and leaned on Lian to act coquettishly: "Mom, no matter how old I am, I am your daughter. After all, I am also your only daughter."
Sun Baoqian raised her head as she spoke. She looked at Mrs. Lian and asked, "Mom, what did you think about my marriage to Ahua?"
When Lian recalled the past, she smiled and said, "Mom, I remember what your father said when he brought Su Chong and Su Hua back to school. Master Lin once asked Su Hua a question. Su Hua's answer shocked Master Lin. Master Lin
I agreed to his admission. In fact, his answer shocked your father. Your father came back and told me about it, and he said with certainty that Su Hua would have an extraordinary future."