Zhao Yanping was really sincere. She knew that her younger sister really didn't want her to come over, and now that she had just come back, something like this happened.
Zhao Xiaojing lowered her head. She knew all this. But it was so uncomfortable that she had no energy at all.
"Xiao Jing, think about it carefully. If Xu Hongbing is given a choice, you will definitely be the one given up.
You are so capable, you can live a good life without him. In the future, if you are willing to find a man who cares about you, if not, you can live with your two sons, make money for them, let them go to school without worrying about lack of money, take care of them
They prepare meals every day. No matter good or bad, just let them eat enough."
"Sister, I think so too, but what can I do?"
"That's why I said you go back to farming, so you can feed your two children without any problem.
I used to think that a woman couldn't do it, but when I left the Shang family and farmed with Xiaoli, I was really happy when I got money for the first time. I am no worse than a man."
Zhao Xiaojing lowered her head and listened to the elder sister's words. "Do I really want to go back?"
"Xiao Jing, I advise you to go back. There are no jobs here at all. Do you know how many women here take care of the elderly and children at home?
If you are not educated yet, then there will be no job suitable for you.
If you are idle here all day long, you will become more and more obsessed with it, and the more you think about it, the more you will think about it.
If you are busy every day, you won't have random thoughts. You will also forget Xu Hongbing by then. As time goes by, you will feel that life without Xu Hongbing will be easier."
"Sister, is this really the case?"
Zhao Yanping nodded, "That's it, that's how I came here at that time.
In fact, if your brother-in-law wasn't really good, I really wouldn't want to start a family again."
"Sister, let me go back. Actually, I came here because I want your help to find a job."
Zhao Yanping shook her head, "It's really difficult. Almost all of them are just one man working and supporting the whole family.
Xiao Jing, you must stand up. You don’t know that in autumn, the four eldest children would run to the suburbs after school every day to pick up food and help others with work.
Children all know how hard you work so hard. You are an adult and you are still like this. Do you think you have the face?"
Zhao Xiaojing nodded firmly this time, "Sister, I will go back tomorrow. There is still a piece of land next to the second brother. Director Feng will definitely take care of me."
"Okay, you can go. Haifeng will stay here. It's okay. We will take care of him from now on. Besides, there is really no need for us. These children are too sensible.
Just go back and make money for the navy and Haifeng. The little money you have is really not much. Children really need a lot of money to go to school.
You should thank God that the navy is sensible and thinks of its own solutions for the notebooks and pens it usually uses.
If you have such a sensible child, just smile secretly."
"Okay, eldest sister, I'll go back. I still have my eldest and second brothers at home to take care of me."
"Yes, but you must stand up, otherwise after a long time, the brothers and sisters won't say anything, but they all have families.
You can live on your own, and with the character of my sister-in-law and Qingjie's wife, I will definitely help you."
"Well, I know, I will. You are right, I will go back to make money for the two children. I will definitely be able to provide for them."
Zhao Yanping patted her sister on the shoulder happily. "Xiao Jing, you can definitely do it. Remember, even if Xu Hongbing comes to you in the future, you can't agree. If he insists on not wanting the child, you can still give him a chance.
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And if you forgive him, you will make things difficult for yourself again. You will think about this every day for the rest of your life."
Zhao Xiaojing smiled miserably, "Sister, I know. I am thinking about him all the time now. I will not live with him again."
"Xiao Jing, if you meet the right one in the future, you can find another one. Not all second marriages are bad. Your brother-in-law is very good to me. I believe you will meet him too.
I remember what Yuanyuan told Xiaoli, she told Xiaoli that people are not always in adversity, but if you want to get out of adversity, you must have a good attitude and work hard."
"Yes, I understand. I will. Don't worry, eldest sister, I won't spend this money. I will keep it for my two children until they grow up to marry a wife and start a family."
"Okay, that's how it should be. Let others see that even you can live a better life."
"I know, I remember it."
"Let's go and see the children, Xiaojing, you are lucky. The navy is really good."
Zhao Xiaojing nodded and the two sisters went to the ground. Zhao Xiaojing felt top-heavy and laughed at herself. She really said that she could no longer live like this in the future, and she had to endure the hardships.
The children looked at the two sisters who came in and did not dare to speak.
"Navy, mom is wrong. I will never do this again. I will go back tomorrow. I am still farming on the farm. Don't worry, mom can definitely support you in college."
Navy's eyes were red, his father didn't want them anymore, and his mother was still sad all day long. Now he's finally feeling better.
"Mom, I will also study hard. Haifeng stays here and I will take good care of my brother."
Zhao Xiaojing nodded with tears in her eyes. "Okay, let's work hard together. My mother was not good before, but she will be a good mother in the future."
Now Zhao Yanli breathed a sigh of relief. She finally left. She didn't like her second sister, and she was afraid that if she said this now, things would still be like this when things happen to her. She just left. Out of sight, out of mind.
"Xiao Li, you come with me to buy a bus ticket." Zhao Xiaojing also knew that her younger sister didn't like her, and her children would have to be taken care of by her sisters in the future. She knew what Xiao Li was worried about?
In fact, she couldn't guarantee it herself, but when she thought about being such a fool again in the future, she thought about having two sons to support.
"Okay, I'll take you to the train station. Can you go back by yourself?"
"Don't worry, I still know a few words, and you and the eldest sister will take me to deposit the money, write the name of the navy, and you will take it. If the two children are short of money, you will pay it to them.
I can't spend money by myself. In fact, after being married for so many years, I really haven't spent much money." After saying this, he smiled to himself.
"Okay, don't worry, I will help the navy put it away."
This is the right way. I'm afraid that Xu Hongbing will fool her when the time comes.
The three sisters left. The bank was about to close at this time, so we had better go there quickly.
After depositing the money and holding the passbook in Zhao Yanli's hand, the three sisters went to the train station again. The train tickets are for eight o'clock tomorrow morning.
