Most people are like this. No matter what they do, they have to find an excuse for themselves that they can accept and that others can understand.
Mrs. Fu: "Fourth, if you can't speak, just stay aside."
Mrs. Fu, who has always been quiet and talkative, said, "Let's not mention what happened in the past, whether it was right or wrong. We sisters only want to talk about whether we should think about it in the future."
Mrs. Fu: "What do you mean?"
Mrs. Fu looked at her eldest sister. She probably didn't want to hear what she said, but she had to say: "To put it bluntly, we still have to rely on our natal brothers. What was our family like at the beginning? How could we get such a marriage?"
For the sake of our brothers’ future prospects. Who gets the credit of whom, who achieves who, and you think about it carefully, it’s not necessarily clear. We are all a family, and it’s meaningless to talk about it. I think brothers and wives are pretty good.
From now on, everyone should just calm down."
Followed by: "We are both married women. My brother's toughness is my strength in my husband's family."
It makes no sense that my brother’s abilities are gone, and I’m the one being picked on. Am I stupid? Is my brain weak?
After saying that, he paid the second wife and left. Getting married is a good thing, not a feud. If the marriage is not successful, there should be no falling out, let alone between brothers and sisters.
In the past, she was fooled by several sisters, so Madam Fu made a serious self-examination.
Fu Er Niangzi went to Mrs. Fu's side and admitted her mistake honestly to Mrs. Fu: "Mom, over the years, our sisters have caused difficulties between us."
Mrs. Fu is a little at a loss. Ever since her daughters got married, she hasn't been so considerate in many years. What's wrong with the second child?
Mrs. Fu: "They are all my mother's children. What are you talking about? It's your mother who has wronged you. But what's the matter?"
Mrs. Fu felt guilty: "There is nothing wrong with my daughter's marriage. This is the best arrangement for our sisters within my ability."
Mrs. Fu's heart is really full of mixed emotions. Over the years, this is the sentence that girls understand best.
Fu Er Niangzi: "It's because we are stupid and dissatisfied all day long. We just take care of our brothers and scheme over and over again. This embarrasses my mother and prevents our brothers from getting married. This has delayed the inheritance of my Fu family's children. My daughter has
ashamed."
What Mrs. Fu was thinking at this time was that she was grateful to Miss Dali. Her daughters were all sensible, except for Miss Dali, who was so enlightened. After having Miss Dali, everything became smoother, even her mother.
Women's emotions have been sublimated. Children have become sensible.
Fu Er Niangzi: "Mom, please take good care of yourself. If you do well, your daughters will be blessed. You will have a backer in your daughters' parents' family."
Madam Fu: "Mom understands, don't look at Dali as a good girl, she is a good girl, she is full of chivalry, she is good to my mother, and she can't be wrong for you. To be honest, your brother-in-law is here, better than my mother, you have a supporter."
Still tough."
Mrs. Fu said to herself that it must be so, but she must listen to her brother-in-law. My mother is becoming more and more straightforward in her speech.
Fu Er Niangzi said clearly: "Mom, I have chosen the best girl for my brother. It doesn't matter if the brother-in-law is more powerful. For us married girls, she can rely on her. In the future, my daughter can also stand up in her husband's family."
My chest is also supported by someone. My daughter understands what I said."
Mrs. Fu nodded happily, it would be great if all the girls could understand: "That's natural, don't worry about which girl your brother marries, you are all his elder sister, younger sister, he is your support, Mo
You must have wronged yourselves."
The mother and daughter talked about it and happily chatted about other things. They were very cheerful and kind, and they were very kind and filial.
Look, what a great thing. Several young ladies immediately followed Mrs. Fu.
When Tanhua Lang saw that the family was enjoying themselves, they were all wandering around his mother, and there was no more trouble. His sister, who was looking for trouble, was grateful to him for his discerning eyes, and for deciding on a marriage like Dali, so he said that he needed a resolute woman to control the house.
It had been so many years since I had dared to think that their family could have such a day. God's eyes were opened.
It's a pity that Mrs. Fu is still depressed up to now. She is convinced both verbally and in her heart, and she doesn't dare to show her face to others.
But I really can't explain it to my husband's family. My sister-in-law has already delayed her flowering period for this marriage. How can she bear this as a wife and a brother and sister-in-law?
Behind her back, Madam Fu was depressed and all she could think about was this.
Mrs. Fu has advised her in private that this is not something that her sister-in-law can handle. Her parents-in-law are still here, and it is not her sister-in-law's turn to worry about her marriage. Even if the eldest sister agrees, it is only because your parents-in-law are willing.
Yes, otherwise whose girl's marriage can wait like this.
Mrs. Fu broke it into pieces and said to Mrs. Fu, "Don't take this matter too seriously. The responsibility does not entirely fall on you."
Aunt Fu, who is so opaque, just can't think about it, so she tries to blame herself: "After all, it's me who gave me hope, and my sister-in-law's marriage has been delayed so far."
Fu Wu Niangzi: "But if there was a suitable family, a better family than our brothers, your sister-in-law would have married long ago. It's just that I haven't found a more suitable family."
Followed by: "My cousin's marriage is like this. If you can find a suitable scholar, can you really wait for our family's marriage? I don't believe it."
This is someone who is open-minded and will not look for trouble. And with such a brother to support her, she has nothing to fear.
Fu Er Niangzi: "Our little brother lives in seclusion. Apart from studying, he has never even seen a girl, let alone a covenant. If there is one, we sisters don't have to spend all day chatting with our mother. To put it bluntly
, we don’t have to be responsible,”
Firstly, you have not provoked your sister-in-law, secondly, there is no covenant, and there is no such thing as a matchmaker. What are you worried about?
Mrs. Fu still couldn't let go of her melancholy, which made several ladies unhappy.
Mrs. Fu said: "Sister, my younger brother is now a member of the Imperial Academy in the capital. You really don't have to be like this. No matter what the reason is, as long as you are not guilty of any sin, whether it is your brother-in-law or your wife, you can still blame your sister."
The second wife is smart enough to see the eldest sister going through such trouble. Why bother? To put it bluntly, besides children, is there anyone who can be closer than a brother or a mother? I won’t rely on you even if I have the power.
Fu Er Niang suddenly felt that her eldest sister was nothing more than this, and that she had thought too highly of her in the past.
As long as these sisters don't make mistakes or go out of their way, and have such support from their natal families, their lives will not be difficult.
My husband's family will not take the initiative to make things difficult for me.
If you feel guilty for your sister-in-law, just be more considerate in the future and compensate her with the dowry. Otherwise, what else can you do? Couldn't you have kidnapped your brother and given it to your sister-in-law?
Don't say you can't be a family man. If you are a family man, you can't cheat your natal brothers like this.