Unexpectedly, it was such a coincidence that the gentlemen were having a poetry party in the outer courtyard. Jiang Changxi expressed his envy at this, it was really leisurely.
Mr. Jiang San was here early, and he heard that Mrs. Jiang had come over with the ladies in his house.
Looking at these young talents, on a whim, I wrote down a few names and asked them to be sent to Mrs. Jiang San in the inner house.
Regarding the marriage of the young lady in the house, the elder sister-in-law has to ask someone to explain it to someone. The husbands he is interested in have good family backgrounds, characters, and knowledge.
I keep thinking about this every day.
Mrs. Jiang San saw that the list Mr. Jiang San had sent was confused. There were only a few names. What did they mean? Why didn't you explain it clearly?
Jiang Changxi took the note and read it again, then handed it to the eldest aunt with a smile on his face.
Mrs. Jiang immediately became energetic when she saw the name on it and the family background marked on it.
Mrs. Jiang San slapped her forehead and understood. She was complaining about her husband in her heart. What could she do if she said one more word? There were just a few names, who could understand.
Of course, Mrs. Jiang San is also a bit resentful towards her daughter and sister-in-law who understand clearly. It makes her a bit stupid.
Mrs. Jiang asked Jiang Changxi with a smile: "I wonder what these gentlemen are like."
Jiang Changxi didn't even think about it and agreed directly: "What's so difficult about this? It's not easy for our own Zhuangzi to see what he looks like."
Mrs. Jiang San nodded from the side: "If you like her appearance, let's find out more about it."
Jiang Changxi thought so deeply that he didn't even like his appearance and was blind to anything else. The mother and daughter had quite the same opinion.
When Mrs. Jiang heard this, the corner of her mouth twitched, and she said righteously: "How can you just look at appearance? The main thing is character."
After Mrs. Jiang Er heard what the third wife and her daughter said, she felt that Chang Xi was really lucky to marry well.
Otherwise, what kind of good man can a mother and daughter choose if they only look at color?
But unfortunately, both the mother and the daughter married well. I don’t know whether it’s because God didn’t have the foresight or because both of them were lucky. Who can I tell you?
Jiang Changxi and Mrs. Jiang were both ashamed when the eldest wife and the second wife saw them: "That's what the eldest sister-in-law said."
Jiang Changxi then admitted her mistake: "That's what the eldest aunt said."
Then, there are a large group of women who have to look at looks or looks, so never mind that most men and women are motivated by sex.
And what he says is one thing, and what he does is another.
Jiang Changxi also complained privately to the third lady: "It starts with the color and ends with the character. This is pretty good."
Mrs. Jiang San is very concerned about her own appearance, so she will naturally not object to her daughter's words. However, in front of Mrs. Jiang, both of them are much more cautious and know how to hide their not-so-elegant aesthetics.
Then Jiang Changxi discovered that Mrs. Jiang's righteous words meant that when she looked at people, she still looked at the handsome young man's face several times.
The few men I needed to inquire about later were all very good-looking.
Seeing this result, Mrs. Jiang San even taught her daughter: "Learn from your eldest aunt, don't worry about how to do it, but just say what you say."
Jiang Changxi nodded, she really learned this time.
When Mr. Jiang San saw the list handed over by Mrs. Jiang, he carefully recalled the appearance of several men, and then asked: "Is it just based on looks?"
Mrs. Jiang San said matter-of-factly: "But we can't see anything else except looks." Besides, whoever chooses my uncle can also choose someone with a hateful appearance.
Then Mr. Jiang San took up a pen and filled in two more names and had someone send it to Mrs. Jiang.
So Mrs. Jiang blushed when she saw the list again. She always felt that the third brother was connoting her, just looking at his face.
I deeply felt that the third brother was trying to find a place for his younger siblings and daughter.
To be honest, Mrs. Jiang would not be surprised at what kind of things Master Jiang San would do for his mother and daughter.
After all these years, the third child has been a good husband and father.
Mrs. Jiang also knows that choosing a husband for your daughter should not be based solely on looks, but ordinary people are superficial. No matter what, you have to make sure your daughter is happy with her.
Mrs. Jiang showed the note to Mr. Jiang. Just looking at the handwriting of the name on the paper, Mr. Jiang frowned and condemned his wife: "Superficial."
Pointing to a name written in Mr. Jiang San's ink: "This is a first-class good husband in Baoding Prefecture. He comes from a simple family, is well-known, and has solid knowledge. What is rare is that he is devoted to studying and making progress. The third son is also troubled.
Already."
Mr. Jiang then made the final decision: "What else should such a husband look for? It is Liu Niang's blessing to be able to decide."
Mrs. Jiang didn't even know that it was so simple: "Don't look at it anymore."
Mr. Jiang: "What are you looking at? Look at the third child. He has an uncle from a simple family background who makes him beautiful. He is almost like a son."
So you just envy the third child's uncle who has no elders in his family, and you want to take his son as your own, but you don't dare to say that.
Mrs. Jiang recalled that Xu Xiaolangjun's appearance was not bad: "It still depends on Liu Niang's wishes."
Mr. Jiang: "What does she know? How can her parents harm her?"
Mrs. Jiang thought to herself, did you not consider the issue of appearance when you first got married? Otherwise, how could the concubines in your house be so enchanting as each other?
But I also know that when it comes to choosing a aunt, you still need to listen to different opinions. A daughter will be married for a lifetime.
After all, I am a housewife, and I am not as broad-minded as these men who live outside.
When Jiang Changxi heard this result, she was glad that she had lived here for a long time and cared a lot about it. Fortunately, it was just her and a few elders who met those husbands that day.
It would be harmful if the young ladies of the Jiang Mansion were allowed to see these gentlemen together.
Even the ladies in charge have different opinions, let alone the little ladies with a blank sheet of paper. If they disagree with their parents, wouldn't it be harmful to others?
Therefore, we cannot be self-righteous or take things for granted. We must try our best to adapt ourselves and integrate into such a big environment. That is how we are responsible for the people around us.
Mr. Jiang took a fancy to his uncle who was plain in appearance, solid in knowledge, and from a simple family background. Mr. Jiang San nodded, he still had some knowledge.
So Mr. Jiang San started to work with matchmakers and mendacs, but for the sake of caution, Mrs. Jiang still arranged for her daughter to see the person, and she had to see the right person.
Mrs. Jiang San: "This is how it should be. Sister-in-law, what's the point of being embarrassed? If it works, we will be happy for Liu Niang. If it doesn't work, we can't let the child suffer."
Mrs. Jiang: "Now I think it is best for the third brother to arrange a marriage for Chang Xi as early as possible. I have nothing to worry about when I see the child growing up."
Mrs. Jiang San said to herself, I only met my uncle a few times when he was young.