Jiang Changxi was listening, but why did Zhou Lan hesitate to speak: "Why don't you say anything anymore."
Zhou Lan looked at his wife and said tentatively: "I'm afraid you don't want to listen."
Jiang Changxi didn't want to hear it anymore. What do you mean? What you can do, I can't do. "For the sake of my husband's happiness, can I still be filial to you without you?"
Zhou Lan: "I mean, it would be easy if you just find someone who can accompany your husband, be by his side, and take care of him."
Jiang Changxi: "What's the difference?" I forgive Jiang Changxi for not being able to figure it out for a while.
Zhou Lan was a little cautious: "There is still a difference. There is no need to consider the identity issue. After all, it is not a marriage."
What Zhou Lan meant was that the husband could keep a concubine by his side first? Or a girl with whom he would marry. In view of his wife's aversion to such things, he did not dare to explain clearly.
Jiang Changxi also listened and thought about it carefully, so the focus is on the last few words. If you are not looking for a mistress, what are you looking for? Or a confidante? Forgive Jiang Changxi, for not being able to integrate into the thinking mode of the big era for a while.
Jiang Changxi hesitated and said: "Should we let the master find a lover?"
Isn't it a bad reputation? I'm afraid my husband won't be willing to do it. After all, he seems to be a serious person.
Regarding this issue, Zhou Lan went over and over again, driving Jiang Changxi crazy. He thought it was just a slip of the tongue, and he was confused.
Also, as a woman, you should be whatever you want, you can be a wife or a concubine, so how can you think so wrongly? How can you face your children and grandchildren if you do such a thing?
It's okay to discuss your husband's private affairs when it's not necessary, but the couple can still have disagreements. You think your husband is dead, isn't he too easy to talk to?
The existence of a lover is immoral, so how can you say it so easily and still have this idea?
Husband: "Why did you come up with this problem? Your wife is too evil-minded. Why didn't you discuss it with your wife?"
Zhou Lan said depressedly: "If the people around me, the people in the house, I have to be my concubine, that's okay."
But Zhou Lan didn't dare to discuss the matter with his wife. He just listened to Chang Xi's reasoning.
Zhou Lan knew that if he made the same mistake, he would be more guilty than his wife. There was no equality on this issue. He should pay attention to it in the future.
Jiang Changxi was about to die unjustly. She was talking about Mr. What does it have to do with her?
Jiang Changxi: "So what do you mean, not a lover? What is it."
Zhou Lan coughed: "Yes, yes." Do you really want your children to listen to this?
Zhou Lan was in a bad mood. It was okay that he had given birth to a son. At most, he could only coax his wife to live.
Then Jiang Changxi snorted, "Isn't a lover immoral? If you have three wives and four concubines, then you are moral. If you can speak, do you dare to think?"
His old man is free to disturb any of you, and you are using your free time to amuse him behind his back.
Anyway, if Zhou Lan lectured Jiang Changxi on ideological education for half an hour, then Jiang Changxi would double the brainwashing, guidance, and intimidation towards Zhou Lan.
The unlucky disciple really needs to be dealt with.
When Jiang Changxi heard Zhou Lan's words, she glared and lifted the quilt: "If you give birth to a son, you must respect your partner, and you cannot be an arrogant pig with no spiritual pursuits. If you give birth to a daughter, you must understand that you cannot be weak or weak.
You have to guard against those arrogant pig hooves."
I was worried about having a child and the education of the child after birth. I didn’t dare to talk to Jiang Changxi about this worry, so I could only talk about it with my husband.
The husband is also wondering that since the scientific examination, his eldest disciple has been embarrassed to talk about education issues in front of him, so how can the old matter be discussed again?
Then the teacher kicked the male disciple out: "You'll be full after you eat."
Obviously, the husband is partial and there is also job discrimination.
Suddenly I felt that there was a long way to go. It was not easy to be a father.
The content of today’s conversation is really not suitable for prenatal education.
You can imagine who's situation is serious. This wife is still angry, but she didn't give him a good look.
Speaking of which, such a brat cannot marry his own daughter. A father should be like his father-in-law and find a husband like himself for his daughter.
Zhou Lan also wanted to say that this was his matter and had nothing to do with him. With his beloved wife by his side, he would not have such thoughts.
So it no longer matters what happened to the husband. Zhou Lan began to give ideological education classes to his wife, mainly about family harmony and love between husband and wife.
Then I met a man with a big mouth. Why did you and your husband talk about this? Otherwise, where would the blame come from?
Jiang Changxi felt that he had been wronged and died. He blamed Zhou Lan for his big mouth.
If you give birth to a daughter and don't meet a husband like yourself, I'm afraid if you say this, you will be tolerated in the world.
Sir, you sneered at your eldest disciple and asked for trouble. You have been thinking nonsense all day long. Why do you really want to study politics?
Zhou Lan shook his head: "Disciple himself hasn't figured out how to educate his children yet."
Before the child was born, the father began to worry.
Can you think about it when you are not around? This problem is serious.
Of course, this is a bit unexplainable. After all, within the etiquette and law, and above the code, he really allows men to take concubines. It is clearly stipulated.
He didn't even know that his wife had such an unruly mind and that there was such a relationship as a lover in the dictionary.
Zhou Lan sighed and recounted his troubles from the beginning. He couldn't agree with his wife and that's why he fell into this problem.
To be honest, Zhou Lan was really frightened when these two words came out of her daughter-in-law's mouth, lover.
The conflict that stands out in this problem is too big to be resolved. I don’t know what my husband thinks. There is a conflict of understanding within the couple that cannot be resolved.
There are so many girls from good families who can be married back to the family and become wives or concubines. Why would they want to put their own good reputation on the line and have such an improper relationship?
Then Zhou Lan seemed to have changed his condition and was afraid of developing symptoms.
So Jiang Changxi started copying the Filial Piety Classic again. This time he was really wronged, and his intentions were obviously good. A red heart is for Mr.
On the second day, neither husband nor wife seemed to be in good spirits, and they even stopped talking about their husband's happiness.
If Zhou Lan didn't have to go to the government for work, Zhou Lan would have been punished a lot.
Zhou Lan's measure was to cover his wife's belly with a thick quilt. After all, he couldn't plug his son's ears because he was really worried about affecting prenatal education.
For Jiang Changxi, the content of today's conversation is about realistic education, and children should know as early as possible. Living in an ivory tower will sooner or later lead to disadvantages.
Jiang Changxi was very depressed. They were both working, and those with public offices received so much preferential treatment than her. She was not convinced.
Zhou Lan felt very guilty towards his wife. It was a pity that she didn't need his help to punish her.
He tried to please his wife but failed.
Zhou Lan now understands what it means not to meddle in other people's business. If you just live your own life and don't worry about it, you won't be here today.
It's all the fault of their lax tongue. Of course, the root cause is that they shouldn't get involved in their husband's affairs.