Jiang Changxi: "On weekdays, I let them lie down and play by themselves. When they feel uncomfortable, they twist and twist by themselves, tugging at everything and stuffing it into their mouths."
As for what to eat, there really isn’t anything. It’s just over three months old. Jiang Changxi occasionally gave her a mouthful of rice cereal, but the doctor stopped her.
But it’s really time to add some complementary foods at four months.
Mrs. Li felt that she had not heard the important point. Of course, the waiters at her daughter-in-law's house were not very attentive. How could she let the children play by themselves?
As a remarried mother-in-law, it was not easy for her to interfere in her daughter-in-law's affairs. Mrs. Li pursed her lips and said nothing.
But I asked Chang Xi: "That's what you ate when you were pregnant with them." Otherwise, why would my daughter-in-law's two children sound so strong?
Jiang Changxi sighed, this is me. If I were to change her daughter-in-law, I'm afraid she would have to think about it a little more. Their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were pregnant at about the same time. Can she hide what she eats from this mother-in-law?
At the beginning, I often sent good things to Li's house. I have to say that this mother-in-law is heartless. No wonder whether her father-in-law is here or not, this mother-in-law can still live a good life. I am afraid that this person has never been
Not to embarrass herself.
Moreover, my mother-in-law really paid attention to my brother-in-law. Even though the nanny was holding the child, my mother-in-law never took her eyes off her brother-in-law.
And whenever they want to do something, they always tell the girl and woman around them. Such a kind and tired mother.
Jiang Changxi really disagrees with this way of raising children. It's rare for others to hold and coax her. Ha.
It was Mrs. Li who came over: "Mom, Sister Jiang probably doesn't know what she has eaten, but my daughter remembers it. When my mother was pregnant, my sister-in-law sent food to the house every three days. I'm afraid it's nothing that any sister-in-law has ever eaten.
I gave them all to my mother."
You see, this person can talk, and she also changed her title from Sister Jiang to Sister-in-law. This means that as a daughter-in-law, Sister-in-law is very filial and never fails to eat, as your mother. She is a considerate person.
Jiang Changxi was very happy after hearing this. Although he didn't want fame, he couldn't be overwhelmed by his own feelings. Therefore, Jiang Changxi liked to deal with delicate and considerate people like Li's sister.
Mrs. Li immediately smiled: "I thought it was wrong. Don't be upset, Chang Xi. Mom has nothing else to say. It's almost six months before the young man can sit down. When Chang Xi said it, he felt that Yuanyuan and Jiang Jiang were raising children.
The one is stronger."
Jiang Changxi laughed and said, "Mom is praising me. I see my brother-in-law being raised better by my mother. He has the temperament of a scholar."
Mrs. Li's face looked much better when Jiang Changxi said this. Their young husband will definitely study in the future.
Mrs. Li was being careless and said, "Mom, I heard that Mr. Jiang Xiaolang has been raised by his sister-in-law since he was a child." Learn from other sisters-in-law's approach to raising children, and be kind to your younger brother.
Mrs. Li raised her head and looked at her daughter-in-law: "I have heard of this. Was it brought by Chang Xi when I was studying?"
Jiang Changxi said very modestly: "Mom, you really think highly of your daughter-in-law. Her daughter-in-law is really not good at studying. She could only teach Chang Le when she was younger."
Mrs. Li: "That was not easy. How old was Chang Xi at that time?"
Jiang Changxi: "It was because I was young and ignorant at that time that I was worried about giving Chang Le to others. Now that I think about it, my daughter-in-law is very ashamed. She is really too petty."
Listening to what others said, Mrs. Li was impressed by her humility: "It's already amazing."
Then he asked Chang Xi: "So, what does Jiang Xiaolangjun eat and do this month."
To be honest, Mrs. Li just said a few words to her daughter-in-law, and she has raised a son by herself. She thinks that she does not need to learn from other people's experience in raising children.
Jiang Changxi: "Most of the time, Chang Le is allowed to play by himself. When he cries, he is picked up and coaxed. Of course, there should be someone watching by his side. He should also eat a little bit of rice cereal, fruit puree, etc. It is necessary.
Take it easy."
Look at the brother-in-law over there. He looks a little weaker. I don't know if he can eat it, but holding it wrapped all day long may not be good for the child.
Jiang Changxi said a few words conservatively and did not dare to say more. It was obvious that the mother-in-law felt that her own experience was more reliable.
Mrs. Li didn't say anything, but Mrs. Li must have heard it: "Sister Jiang, don't worry, we will be more careful about my little brother's food."
Jiang Changxi said modestly: "When a child is young, he should be careful and cautious. I came here to learn from my mother. Elders have more experience in raising children. My mother brought out her husband."
Mrs. Li was happy. She said that she had raised two children and had more experience. Her daughter-in-law understood that it was good.
She shared her experience in raising children with Jiang Changxi, and she talked most about her brother-in-law who was more than five months old. As for how her husband was when he was a child, Mrs. Li didn't say much. This shows that in Mrs. Li's heart, there is a division of weight.
But to sum up, Mrs. Li’s best and most proud experience in raising children is how to put people around her children, how to find a nanny, and even what the nanny eats, drinks, and has diarrhea. Mrs. Li pays great attention to it.
This could be regarded as a secret reminder to Jiang Changxi that the daughter-in-law should not be left alone around the child.
Let Jiang Changxi tell it, Mrs. Li raised the nanny very well. People around the child looked after her very closely. I don’t want to talk about the rest.
So you see, if a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law live together and raise a grandchild together, there will definitely be many conflicts.
At this time, you should be lucky that your mother-in-law happened to have given birth to a child herself. You see, it is quite good to raise her own child.
Jiang Changxi understands Mrs. Li quite well, and it cannot be said that she does not care about her children. Children of big families may be raised in this way these days.
But Jiang Changxi doesn't approve of it very much. It's better to take care of her child with her own hands.
Now that I think about it, Mrs. Jiang San really didn't care less when raising her children. It was the environment and her understanding from childhood to adulthood.
Jiang Changxi thinks that the biggest effect of coming here is to rehabilitate Mrs. Jiang San. In the future, let alone her own mother not knowing how to take care of children.
Jiang Changxi came to visit his mother-in-law and see his brother-in-law. He really wanted their mother and son to be safe and healthy. After all, if they were healthy, Zhou Lan could feel at ease and have less worries and troubles.
Jiang Changxi couldn't stay long, after all, there were children at home.
It was enough for Mrs. Li to know that her daughter-in-law had a filial heart: "I don't have to worry about Chang Xi. I will take good care of Erlang and the children."
Jiang Changxi greeted warmly: "Mom, don't worry. Take care of yourself. Your daughter-in-law will come over to see you."
Mrs. Li sent Jiang Changxi to the door: "Thank you, Sister Jiang, for making a special trip for me."
Jiang Changxi: "Sister, you are being polite. He is my younger brother and also my younger brother. It should be right."