Fortunately, Qian Xiaobei's parents were still willing to support Qian Xiaobei's education, giving Qian Xiaobei a chance to change his destiny.
It would be a real tragedy if they, like most parents who favor sons over daughters, choose to marry Qian Xiaobei in exchange for bride price for their sons to get wives, or directly give Qian Xiaobei to their sons in exchange for wives.
Qian Xiaobei has received higher education and will have the opportunity to change his destiny in the future.
However, I don’t know if Qian Xiaobei will be able to truly break free from the shackles of fate in the future.
It is also possible that Qian Xiaobei will only be dragged to death by his original family in his life.
"Xiao Bei, you should have seen that when our brothers want to get married or something, except for the elders' subsidies, they all make their own money."
Su Xiaotian thought of using her own family as an example to explain this matter and let Qian Xiaobei see another way of life.
"But, my brother and I have no ability!"
"If you have the ability, there is a way to live your life with ability. If you don't have the ability, there is a way to live your life without ability. But no matter which way you live, it is your own problem, not relying on others."
"Moreover, are your brother and your younger brother incapable of making money, but unwilling to make money?" Su Xiaotian thought that in many families in later generations, it was not that boys were incapable of making money, but that they were parents.
I am willing to let my son work hard to make money.
Boys from such families have no sense of responsibility and are only willing to live by sucking money from other people in the family.
She guessed that the Qian family should be the same way.
Sure enough, after saying this, Qian Xiaobei fell silent.
This is the fact. The elder brothers and younger brothers in the family do not have to do anything. Even if the household quota is guaranteed, the parents are worried that their sons will suffer, so they are still willing to work hard in the fields.
Su Xiaotian stared at Qian Xiaobei, wondering why she didn't understand.
Sure enough, this is the case for the Qian family.
Su Xiaotian sighed and said: "Xiaobei, filial piety is a good thing, but excessive obedience may not mean true filial piety."
"Yes, Xiaobei, you will have a family in the future, and your elder brother and younger brother will also have their own lives."
Qian Xiaobei fell silent.
Several girls walked towards the dining hall again, but the atmosphere was more or less silent.
Su Xiaotian glanced at Qian Xiaobei, who was still thinking, and couldn't imagine what kind of path this girl would take in the future.
Having been brainwashed since childhood, I am afraid it is difficult to change my inherent thoughts even for a short period of time.
Now I'll try to persuade her, and try to change some of her thoughts subtly.
If you can really figure it out on your own and have the courage to resist the unreasonable demands of your family, there may be hope.
Otherwise, this life will be really ruined.
No matter what time it is, a woman who only cares about her family will never be able to survive.
Su Xiaotian didn't expect that her words to persuade her second brother would bring up things like Qian Xiaobei.
This affected her mood somewhat.
But he was still young after all. When he got to the canteen and saw the food he liked, all his worries and worries were instantly forgotten.
Even Qian Xiaobei seems to have forgotten this.
Besides, Su Ciliang took his new girlfriend to a small restaurant outside the school.
The taste of this small restaurant cannot be said to be good, but the decoration is unique and has independent cubicles, where you can talk in privacy.
Su Ciliang took a fancy to this point.
This was their first date alone, and they couldn't let outsiders disturb them.
It was indeed the first time for the two of them to date alone, but they had met a lot before and were familiar with each other, so they quickly became less awkward.
Su Ciliang proposed that he formally take Li Jianhong to his home on the weekend, which would be regarded as meeting his elders.
Li Jianhong hesitated.
She didn't have any fear when going to Su's house before, but now, her identity suddenly changed, and she couldn't help but feel anxious.
Even though he knew that the Su family would welcome him when he came to their door, he was still a little unsure.
"Can I go there in two weeks?" Li Jianhong said hesitantly.
"An ugly daughter-in-law will have to meet her parents-in-law sooner or later, not to mention you are so beautiful, why should you be afraid?" Su Ciliang said narrowly with a smile.
"I..." Li Jianhong blushed at the words and didn't know what to say.
Finally I agreed.
The weekend came soon, and Su Ciliang officially brought Li Jianhong to the Su family.
Along the way, Su Xiaotian looked at her roommate and couldn't help but smile.
I really didn't expect that the two of them would go to the door.
During the holidays, I asked my second brother to come to the Li family's door to formally meet Jianhong's parents and finalize the matter.
very nice.
Su Xiaotian didn't realize that she was just like a worried old mother.
When they got home, Grandma Su and others were even happier.
The second boy has also found his future wife. Once things are settled for the second boy, it will be time for the third boy.
Grandma Su was so happy that she cooked meals herself to greet her future third grandson-in-law, and her lips lit up with joy.
When her grandchildren all get married and start a business, she will be able to feel at ease.
The two old men have similar ideas. The goal of their generation in life seems to have always been for their children and grandchildren.
Only when children and grandchildren live well can their lives be meaningful.
"Old man, when the children's affairs are settled, we will go back to our hometown. I really miss those people in my hometown." Grandma Su said with emotion.
She even missed the old lady of the Chang family.
It's a nice place in the countryside. It's so fun for everyone to sit under the big trees and chat.
It was like being in the capital, where everyone was almost like a stranger.
"Zhong, you have the final say. When these brats get married and Xiaotian gets married, we will go back!" Grandpa Su followed Grandma Su's wishes.
The old woman followed him and suffered a lot in her life. It was only in the past few years that her life got a little better.
When I get old, I must build a big house in my hometown.
No, I want to build a small mansion so that the old lady can live a good life.
"Do you think these children can follow us back?" Grandpa Su thought, the children are very capable now, if they really go home, will they be the only two lonely old people left at home?
If that's the case, then their lives don't seem to have much meaning.
It is important for the fallen leaves to return to their roots, but what is more important is not having children and grandchildren around us?
"You old man, what are you thinking about? The children are doing well outside. What can they do if they follow us back?"
Grandma Su took out the braised fish from the pot and glared at Grandpa Su.
Grandpa Su was scolded by Grandma Su. Instead of getting angry, he smiled innocently.
That's right. After finally cultivating all the children to be promising, wouldn't it be a joke to take them all back?
Are you really too old and confused?
Do you want your children to follow you back to farm?