Because if it were him, he would rather not have to suffer so much to give birth to Adou.
But Madam, she was able to bear so many sins and give birth to Adou without any regrets... All women in this world deserve more care from men.
Xu Yue and her sister stood outside the door, quietly looking at the couple in the house, looking at the happiness and sweetness on Mrs. Gan's face, looking at the compensation and guilt in Zhao Bei's eyes, and sighed softly at each other.
They had already explained everything they could. It was getting late, and the three brothers Zhao Bei were left here. The two sisters left the hotel and headed home.
On the way, Xu Erniang frowned and said, "Do you think we are doing this right? Will it harm Mrs. Gan?"
She thought of the guilty look in Zhao Bei's eyes, and she couldn't help but feel guilty too.
Xu Yue understands her sister's concerns. "Not only in ancient times, but also in modern times, there are many husbands who have psychological shadows after watching their wives' birth process and are unable to have sex, which eventually leads to divorce, cheating, and the breakdown of their marriages.
For Zhao Bei in this era, although he did not see the production process, the place that was still recovering was enough to shock him.
But Xu Yue didn't think she was wrong.
"He is Mrs. Gan's husband and Zhao Adou's father. If Mrs. Gan works hard to give birth, but he does nothing and waits to become a father, isn't this outrageous?" Xu Yue said angrily.
What's more, there really is no better candidate than him in Zhuangzi. They don't have the wet nurses and maids that are necessary for a big family, and they can't help Zhao Bei hire two maids to take care of Mrs. Gan just to make it easy for Zhao Bei to become a father.
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After all, Xu Erniang couldn't help but sigh, feeling a little regretful, "Maybe we can ask the nurse you trained to do the cleaning."
Hearing this, Xu Yue also fell silent, because she knew that Mrs. Gan was not them, and losing her husband's favor would undoubtedly be a devastating blow to a concubine.
Perhaps, Zhao Bei will get another wife because of this.
The two sisters returned home worried. When Mrs. Wang saw them, they asked in confusion: "What's wrong with you? Is it because those three brothers made you angry?"
After saying that, his expression turned cold, as if he wanted to vent his anger on the two sisters' behalf.
Xu Dalang was also eager to give it a try. He had long been tired of seeing the bearded Zhang Yide!
This reaction frightened the two sisters into explaining why they were depressed.
Not to mention Xu Dalang's reaction, just speaking of Wang, after hearing the sisters' worries, they felt speechless and completely incomprehensible.
"Then Zhao Bei is old and has a bad figure. He is tall, but his muscles are average. He is not good at making money and has bad luck. Now he may not even be able to support his wife after she gives birth to a child. Even if he doesn't work hard, he is here.
What are you picky about?”
Wang just had to curse directly: "My brain is full of water!"
Xu Yue and Xu Erniang looked at each other, a little confused.
Why does A Niang's words sound so similar to what men say when evaluating women?
Why are you in bad shape? You've gained weight. You should be more virtuous, do more housework, put on more makeup, and don't embarrass me when you go out. All you talk about is that you are a woman and you should be like this.
Because of these gazes, women will unconsciously tend to be virtuous, put on makeup, and lose weight to cater to their aesthetics.
Netizens define these behaviors as [male gaze].
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And A Niang’s behavior at this time, could it be [female gaze] from the future world?
Wang was still saying that she couldn't stand the men of this era, but she usually had no one to complain about. Now that Zhao Bei suddenly appeared, her desire to complain was overwhelming.
"Why doesn't he work a part-time job anymore? Help people write letters and copy books, or go to the city to move bricks to make more money? Also, can such a man really marry a second person like Gan?
A woman like Madam?"
"Doesn't he really think he should exercise more to maintain Mrs. Gan's sexual interest in him?"
"I think his hair style is really ugly, and the way he talks..."
Listening to Aniang's sudden outburst of complaints, the three Xu Yue brothers looked at each other and suddenly understood why Aniang was always disliked by Aniang.
There is no other reason, but in my mother’s mind, my father cannot meet her definition of a good man.
He is only 1.8 meters tall, his facial features are not as handsome as those of Zhao Zilong, his strength is still suppressed, he is not active in cooking, and he cannot take care of children.
If you really think about it, I am afraid that even my father’s proud methods of making money, my mother-in-law would disdain.
However, as long as Dad is placed in this era, he is a good man.
Because he does not take concubines, he is devoted to his wife. Secondly, he is an official and has a promising future. Finally, he can send money to the family regularly to support his wife and children, so he belongs to the Gu family.
That night, Xu Yue and Xu Erniang slept in the same bed, but they couldn't sleep no matter what. Their thoughts were confused, sometimes thinking about Zhao Bei, sometimes thinking about their father, and thinking about why they were so ordinary yet so confident.
And the two sisters actually reflected on whether they had done something wrong because they asked Zhao Bei to do what he should have done.
It is undeniable that the ideas brought by Ms. Wang Pingping had a great impact on the two sisters. For a long time, the two sisters always ran to Mrs. Gan and silently observed the men of the three eras here.
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Once she entered the female gaze like A Niang, Xu Yue discovered that the three Zhao Bei brothers had many shortcomings that they didn't like, but they didn't dare to mention them before, or they thought men were inherently like this.
For example, Zhang Fei was impatient and unhygienic. The soup he ate always fell on his beard, which made Xu Yue feel uncomfortable.
There is also Zhao Yun, who is indeed outstanding in appearance and the most humble among the three, but he always keeps saying, "Big brother and second brother, you must not tell anyone about your little brother's sewing and washing of diapers, otherwise none of his subordinates will be able to do it in the future."
You are willing to listen to my command."
It seems that what he is doing now is only natural and right for a woman to do.
Now the three brothers are already thinking about borrowing some money from the Xu family and hiring a woman in the village to take care of Mrs. Gan and Zhao Adou.
It's just that Xu Da has never come. Wang, a strong woman, will definitely not agree, so they can't open their mouths.
So Zhao Bei thought, how about bringing Mrs. Gan to the city, where women in the city could be hired as long as they paid a few dollars a day.
For those who are even poorer, maybe just provide her with a meal.
Unlike the woman in Xujiazhuang, she was asked to pay at least sixteen dollars a day, and she also had to pack a meal for her, and asked her to take care of the children without cooking, and to cook without taking care of the children. It was simply a fantasy!
But they had good reasons, saying that they earned twenty dollars a day working in the factory, breakfast was included, and the work they did was not as tiring as taking care of the children and cooking.
The most important thing is that if you do well in the factory, you will be promoted within a few months, and your salary will be higher after promotion.
