Later, Gu Qingling even hooked up with Yao Anxin and asked her to keep the matter secret for the time being.
After assigning "homework" to Yao Anxin, it was Yao Anhong's turn.
In order to make this grandson and daughter thoroughly understand what "the difference between men and women" is, Gu Qingling took great pains. The training process did not avoid each other, but was carried out directly in front of the two of them.
No, Yao Anxin retreated, and it was Yao Anhong who spoke.
Gu Qingling got straight to the point and asked Yao Anhong what he thought of the conversation she had just had with Yao Anxin.
Yao Anhong didn't say anything. He just felt a little embarrassed: "Old lady, these things you taught cousin Xin..." This is a bit treacherous. If this spreads out, the girl of the Yao family may not be a good person.
Already.
Gu Qingling raised her eyebrows: "What happened to what I taught? Did it hurt some men's male self-esteem?"
Yao Anhong: "..."
He had the feeling that the old lady was scolding him, but he had no proof.
"Am I wrong? If Xin'er is like you, studying together since childhood and learning the same thing, how do you think your cousin Xin is worse than you?"
The old lady's question left Yao Anhong speechless.
Because he had to admit that if Yao Anxin hadn't been a girl and hadn't gone to elementary school to study the Four Books and Five Classics like him and go for the imperial examination, it's not sure whether Yao Anxin would have felt better than him in this field.
After Gu Qingling stepped in to "train" them, he and Yao Anxin learned certain things at the same pace. They were on par with each other. Some things Yao Anxin learned better than him, and some things he felt were better than Yao Anxin.
Yao Anhong could clearly see that his cousin just had a low self-esteem and was a little sensitive, but she was actually a very smart person. He also liked to study with such a cousin.
Because Yao Anxin studies hard and responds quickly, it makes Yao Anhong feel pressured and he pays more attention when studying.
"You have been studying with me for so long, and you should have discovered that the 'rules' of this world are generally more favorable to men. What about 'following your father at home, following your husband when you marry, and following your son's death'?"
Women can't show themselves in public, women should..." There was a hint of sarcasm in the corner of Gu Qingling's mouth, "Just like me, even if I am an old lady, a superb lady, if your uncle and your father are not here, my title will not be able to scare you.
who."
Gu Qingling pointed it out directly. She usually does things in the name of Uncle Yao, Second Master Yao or the Yao family. The same goes for Mrs. Yao and Second Mrs. Yao.
So Baixiang Pavilion seems to be in charge of Mrs. Yao and Mrs. Yao, but it can be opened smoothly and no one dares to touch it. The reason is very simple - that is, there is Uncle Yao and Mr. Yao in the Yao family, even if they have little ability.
No, just because they are men, they can keep this family together.
"So this is why your uncle has always wanted to have a son. If he doesn't have a son, he will be looked down upon. Because they don't have a son. Once your uncle is gone, then your aunt and cousin Xin will be
Someone who can be bullied."
When Yao Anhong heard what Gu Qingling said, he immediately said: "Old lady, I will not let outsiders bully the eldest aunt and cousin Xin. Even if I am not the heir of the eldest family, I am also a descendant of the Yao family and the nephew of the eldest aunt.
Cousin Xin’s brother.”
His tone was firm and without any falsehood.
Maybe before Gu Qingling intervened in the training, Yao Anhong wouldn't think so much. He would listen to Mrs. Yao's words and do whatever Mrs. Yao's asked.
But after being trained by Gu Qingling, Yao Anhong deeply understood what the "Yao family" was, what a "family" was, and what "parents and brothers" were.
Especially when they went through jail together, studied together and were punished (when a few people were doing group activities, as long as one person did not do well, they would sit together), the relationship between brother and sister was cultivated no matter what. If Yao Anhong really let Yao Anhong sit back and watch.
It's impossible to leave the house alone. That's completely impossible.
An expression of relief appeared on Gu Qingling's face, and she said: "If you really think that way, it won't be a waste of my hard work during this period. You can't write two characters of Yao in one stroke. Although you are not a child of the eldest family, you can
Your father and your uncle are biological brothers, born to the same parents, and you and Xin'er grew up together. If you don't even know how to feel sorry for your uncle and your cousin Xin's family, then no one in the world will miss them.
Already."
"Old lady, don't worry, Hong'er will definitely study hard and strive to excel as soon as possible and shoulder the responsibilities on his shoulders."
Gu Qingling waved her hand: "Why are you so anxious? You are still young. Just study hard. Your uncle and your father are strong and strong. Let them worry about it. When they get old, you can take over... I know
, you are the eldest son of the third generation of the Yao family. You have a heavy burden on your shoulders and it is inevitable that you will be under pressure. But don’t worry too much. When the time comes, your uncle and your father will give you several younger brothers and sisters. There will be more people in your family.
Now, if we all work together, the burden on your shoulders will be lighter."
Although Gu Qingling said this, Yao Anhong did not feel any comfort, because he knew very well that his aunt and his mother were both old, and whether they could have a baby was still a question. Even if they did get pregnant, the risk would probably be too high.
Not small.
Sometimes, Yao Anhong doesn't know whether he should expect his eldest aunt and his mother to give birth to a younger brother, or let another woman give birth to them, even a concubine...
Yao Anhong is not stupid. There is a difference between a biological father and a biological mother and someone who is not the same mother. The one born by the eldest aunt can be called "cousin", but the one born by the concubine...
"I'm saying this because I hope you can take a longer view and don't be like those fools who only know how to stare at the one-third of an acre of land in front of the Yao family. The outside world is very big, and the more people there are.
People with ability will not focus on the present, but will take a long-term view, and then go for that big job." Gu Qingling said, and also left a "homework" for Yao Anhong, she wanted to do it
He used the theme of his aunt and his mother to observe the direction of their "fight" and the changes.
And what is causing these changes?
If it were him, what should he do?
After assigning the "homework", Gu Qingling let the two of them go.
As soon as they left, Yao Anling sent someone to invite them over, along with Yao Anyi.
There was no way around it. When Gu Qingling trained them before, he especially liked to make four of them into a group. Yao Anling was used to bringing Yao Anyi with her whenever she did anything.
In Yao Anling's eyes, although this "cousin" is stupid, he is occasionally quick-witted and can be used to take the blame, which is quite good.
Yao Anyi, who was brought in to fill up the number of people:...I thank your whole family?
Well, he scolded himself in it.
"Greetings to cousin Xin! Greetings to brother!"
After being trained by Lu Qingling's nanny, Yao Anling is now very "well-behaved" and bows to the two of them as soon as she sees them.
I'm afraid that if I "forget", I will be "complained" by the maid again in the evening, and my usual "etiquette points" will be deducted.
